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i think he's avoiding me
there's this guy i really like and have been pretty good friends with for more then a year... anyway, we hooked up this one time... and sence then we haven't really hung out outside of school. so because it's spring breack i asked him if he wanted to hang out, he said yes, deffinitly but then the day came for us to hang out and he canceled... but then i said we should get together the ext day instead, he said yes... but the next day came, i drove to his house and he came out and told me that he couldn't hang out again... so my question is, do you think he's avoiding me... or do you think he's just no good at keeping his word?
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Hi.
Personally I think that the guy is a bit confused. You have been good friends for a while and then after you "hooked up" you can both tell that there was potential in that relationship for something more. He agrees to meet up with you possibly because he does want to see you and see how things develop after the event.
However, guys overthink things, he may cancel the meeting last minute because he feels the relationship will develop "romantically" and could potentially destroy the friendship.
I think that the guy is nervous and the best thing to do is to emphasise your friendship, maybe invite him out with a larger group of friends, he may feel more comfortable and you will be able to talk again, and who knows what this would develop into.
Good luck with it all, I hope everything sorts out with you and your friend.
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Sorry, but I think he's trying to mess with your head. I wouldn't call this avoiding, since he's still talking to you, but I think he's trying to hurt you. It seems like hooking up with him was a one time thing, and now he doesn't want to hang out with you because he doesn't care. Don't talk to him for awhile, and see what happens.
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I don't think he is avoiding you, he's just not good at keeping his word. Because, if he was avoiding you, then he would make up some excuse and say he cant hang out & not say yes like he is now. Maybe he just has certain things come up,but if I were you I would wait untill he calls me to hang out- because you already called him 2 times and he cancelled. Because if you keep calling him you might get really annoying to him and he`ll play hard to get. So wait for him to call you & if he dosen't have a talk with him, or just ignore him. Good lUCk*
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