Hi.
Emily.
15.
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Gender: Female
Location: Kent.
Age: 15
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there's this guy i really like and have been pretty good friends with for more then a year... anyway, we hooked up this one time... and sence then we haven't really hung out outside of school. so because it's spring breack i asked him if he wanted to hang out, he said yes, deffinitly but then the day came for us to hang out and he canceled... but then i said we should get together the ext day instead, he said yes... but the next day came, i drove to his house and he came out and told me that he couldn't hang out again... so my question is, do you think he's avoiding me... or do you think he's just no good at keeping his word? (link)
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Hi.
Personally I think that the guy is a bit confused. You have been good friends for a while and then after you "hooked up" you can both tell that there was potential in that relationship for something more. He agrees to meet up with you possibly because he does want to see you and see how things develop after the event.
However, guys overthink things, he may cancel the meeting last minute because he feels the relationship will develop "romantically" and could potentially destroy the friendship.
I think that the guy is nervous and the best thing to do is to emphasise your friendship, maybe invite him out with a larger group of friends, he may feel more comfortable and you will be able to talk again, and who knows what this would develop into.
Good luck with it all, I hope everything sorts out with you and your friend.
xoxo
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