Q: i started masturbating a few months ago i'm 13 male it feels really good i have started masturbating a lot more lately sometimes i get sexual urges i'm not ready for sex there's nothing wrong with masturbating a lot is there?

Q: I have been with my fiance since high school. We are both 22 yrs old now and have a beautiful 1yr old daughter. My problem with my relationship is I feel smothered. Not smothered by attention or affection, there actually isn't much of that because of me. He works hard for our family and our future while I staynat home. I love him so much and couldn't imagine my life without him...yet at times I want to escape. He is a very sensitive broody kind of guy. He was both physically and mentally abused by his parents most of his life and he has passive aggressive issues BIGTIME. I on the other hand keep all my stress and insecurity locked up and don't show are act like anything is wrong. His behavior sometimes makes me want to just run and disappear. Almost like his energy is choking the air and it feels heavy all the time. Yet he ALWAYS want's to spend time with me UNLESS he goes out with his friends. I personally don't have many friends and I am an introvert. But I want to find time for myself! But if I said that to him he would ask if I hate being around him or some BS! ugh Idk how to explain myself to him at all!

Q: Dear Vikki

I'm 24 and from South Africa. I have been in a relationship for almost 7 months now and before that we were only friends. I love him a lot and care about him a lot, but at times I feel that my insecurities gets in the way and it ends up in us having an argument about something small and stupid. See we have a long distance relationship at the moment and it is mostly when he cannot have decent conversation at night because his busy and then I start thinking "maybe he doesn't want to talk to me" , "maybe he doesn't find me interesting anymore and he will leave me for someone else" and I do know that he cares for me a lot and that he loves me and as soon as I think I have these feelings under control, it creeps in again. I don't want to lose him, because I was insecure and clingy. I never was like this in the beginning. I was cheated on before and most of the times it is when I'm away from him, when we are together, I don't have it and because of this it makes things hard for me. I care about people real fast and they can actually hurt me with words. How do I get past this? How can I get past my insecurities and not be clingy when I feel like these emotions are creeping in? I'm not jealous when it comes to being his girlfriends, because I know what type of guy he is. I know he will never cheat on me, but because I don't always see myself as beautiful, I'm sometimes afraid he will leave me for someone more beautiful than me. The guy that cheated on me used to say to me, that I shouldn't think that someone can love me, because there feelings will change. I was so deeply hurt.

Is there any advice you can give me? Guess I'm just looking for someone to talk to that I don't know personally!

Thanks!

Q: 15/f
I'm straight but I love masturbating with lesbian porn. Ive always wanted to do things with a girl but idk if its normal and idk if any girls my age feel.this way.

Q: well im female/19.

Me and my ex boyfriend are still in contact were still friends, and well we have them conversations where we always talk about the past, like we bring up memories and our sexual experiences together..
we've spoke about us having sex again, he was the last guy i had sex with to be honest.. and well we both want to do it would it be wrong? cause inside it's something i really want to do and i would o it over and over again, like i know it would be just sex but since he's my ex we both know what we like, and I have that feeling that by us having sex feelings would be there he once said it himself..

Q: So I found out my boyfriend cheated on me after about a year and a half of us dating and I immediately broke up with him and took my space. Over the next few months he had done a lot to show his remorse and I really felt as though he understood the severity of what he had done and I loved him enough to try and work things out. We got back together and were together for another 8 months when I found out that he had cheated AGAIN with a different girl. Because of what he has done to me it makes it easy to walk away from someone so cruel but I am really struggling with how to move past the pain it has caused me. Does anyone have any advice on how to get through this? I obviously have left him but I am now left with so much pain because of all the deception and the lies that I thought were true and genuine. How can someone tell you to your face that he could never put you through the same pain again and never cheat again when its all lies? He sent me messages the day after I left him telling me how we are meant to be together and how I am the love of his life. Is this just blatant manipulation or do you think he really believes the words he says?

Q: My fucking god, she is so amazing and beautiful. i have fallen for her big time. We are pretty close and she trusts me a hell of a lot..
I would say i could be Bi.. But no one knows, atall. I do want to tell people but i just think it will pass. So, she thinks i am straight and when i compliment her its just me being nice... but i mean it with every fucking ounce of my body. I tell her she is beautiful when she feels worthless.
I think about her all the time.. i couldnt possibly tell her so how do i control this, what do i do - its out of control

Q: My boyfriend acts like he doesn't care anymore...

F/17 Everything started out perfect. He was the most amazing person I had ever met. We would never argue, we were so close and connected to each other, he was my best friend. But now he acts like he doesn't care about or the relationship anymore. We argue a lot and that's because I'm constantly trying to tell him that he's making me feel unhappy and unwanted. The communication is awful, if I don't text him first, we don't speak. I tell him he's changed, and he tells me that I have also, because I'm always going on and on. But, what am I supposed to do when he's acting distant and I'm fed up of his behaviour? I've got to say something. We have been together for 5 months now, this has been happening for about two months. Over these two months, I've ended our relationship so many times, and he just lets it go. He never tries to get me back, I think he understands and knows what to expect from me, that I'm going to come running back to him after a couple of days, falling back on my words. He can make me happy, and when he does make me happy, he makes me really really happy. It's like he blows hot and cold sometimes, one minute he seems like he cares, and then the next he doesn't. I can't describe and explain the feelings I have for him, that's why I really can't let him go and I'm always running back to him. I try to make plans with him, he seems to always be busy. I really am trying my best with him, but I feel like I'm the only person trying in the relationship. But, if he didn't care about me, then he wouldn't stick around the way he does? He would just tell me, that he doesn't care about me and that he's moving on, right? But he's still here, in the relationship, he tells me he cares. But, that's the thing... Only if I mention something to do with "love you" that's only when he says it back. I'm really confused, I thought I could speak to him about anything like at the start, but now... I feel like he doesn't understand me, he see's me as some emotional moaning girl. I've been reading a lot over the internet, on the relationship stages people go through... Infatuation stage, etc. I'm really confused, is anyone going through the same situation as me? Can anyone help me and tell me what I should do? I feel that I can't give up on him, I always find myself coming back to him.

Q: I cheated n my ex bt still i luvd hr even thgh i luv sme1 else.need hr back

Q: i like in chicago illinois & i was wondering where i can go to meet guys... that are pervs

im a senior in high school (17, female)

Q: I have a huge crush on this boy at school named Chase. I even have dreams about him. I never have dreams about my boyfriend. I really like him but i dont want to break up with my boyfriend. Chase doesnt even like me but he knows i like him. WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!

Q: This the follow up to a question I wrote earlier about the guy I had a crush on that asked me to play basketball with him. Well I asked him if we could play on Saturday but he said maybe but I have a feeling that we won't. And its not like hes going to be busy he said he was just going to stay in the house all day. I don't get it. It was his idea he brought it up about playing not me. Why bring it up if you don't mean it. Why flirt or stare at me but never make a move. I'm confused why do guys do this?

Q:
K so a few months ago, there was this thing between me and this guy at school. He lead me on and and I initiated some as well. So when he made further plans if we could go on a date and stuff, i of course said yes. But then
when it came closer to the date, a few days before it he cancelled and bailed on me and said that he just couldn't go through with it at the moment cause he still had feelings for this girl that he never went out with. So of course I felt hurt and disappointed , but eventually I moved on and didnt give a crap about him. But then today, he came up to me after weeks of not talking to each other and asked if we could talk. He said that he did a lot of thinking and that he wanted to give us a try again and said that he was really sorry of what happened.
So then he asked if we could go on a date, and of course me not wanting to say no and disappoint him I said yes... It was a spur of the moment kind of thing . So now here after a few hours of thinking I just don't have a good feeling about it.. Like now I just keep doubting that I may not have that same strong feelings for him as before ... Help !
P.s that girl never liked him back in the first place and he supposedly told me that that girl now has a boyfriend and that he and her are now on good terms and are friends

Q: 18,female
I've been dating this guy for nearly a year and a half. We have a great relationship. But what really bugs me is his mother. Now,I'm not stuck up or arrogant or whatever,but almost every adult I met says I'm a genius. I'm a graduate of Medical school and aiming to be a doctor someday. I'm one of the best students in my school. So yeah,I've got brains. And I've been recognized for that. But she,his mother,is the only one who thinks otherwise. Not just that,she never misses any opportunity to indirectly insult me. In a way that I can't exactly call an insult,but it's still pretty obvious. I'm really good at pretty much anything I set my mind to. And if I don't know something,it's because it doesn't interest me. Yet she always implies that I'm uneducated. She never even finished college and is unemployed,so if she's so educated and all,why didn't she? I have NEVER done anything to cause this behaviour of hers. If anything,I have always been really nice to her. What is her problem? Maybe someone can explain to me,because I just don't understand.

Q: I am 13 and have a problem with asking this guy out because i really like him.But he already has a
girlfriend! I don't know how to solve this problem
P.S THANKS FOR YOUR HELP

Q: how will I know that a boy loves me and me alone

Q: What happens if he asks me out but im not allowed to and when i tell him he cries?

Q: i'm khang from philippines.20 years old.i'm bisexual. i'm so jealous to my partner's friends. everytime she's with them i can't control my self from saying something that wasn't good. i'm jealous because she had a past relationship with one of her friend. that someone is bitter when it comes to me. because before i accursed her that she's ugly and not perfect to my girlfriend. we never had a bonding with her friends. i don't know what kind of people they are. my partner and i arguing everytime they have an overnight or plan to go somewhere. i jealous because she's with her ex. she said for them it's nothing. it's a past.. she don't like that butch anymore. she tells me she loves me no one but me. i don't know why i don't believe her with every words she said. because for me isn't true. i always doubting her.we almost get to the point that we almost breaking up when we're arguing.


i don't know where and how to start stop being too jealous to her friends.. please help me. :(


thanks!!

Q: My boyfriend recently messed up and hurt me very badly. He sent me this song saying, "I know you may not want to think about me right now, but hopefully you'll like this song and it'll make you feel a little better". If anyone could help me with the song meaning or find it somewhere online that would be awesome, thanks

All the same - by does it offend you, yeah?

http://www.songmeanings.net/songs/view/3530822107858867219/

Q: So my boyfriends family hates me.
Why:
1. He always comes home late because of me. He is 21 and his curfew is ten p.m.
2. I didn't call 911 on time when he got assaulted. Which I dont blame them for because I should have called emmediately.
3. He blames me for his assault. He said I planned it. The day it happened we were at a house party and I felt uncomfortable because everyone was drinking, smoking,thats not my scene. So I went outside and he got mad at me because I was ruining the party. But he stayed out the re with.me and then some guys who were looking for someone to fight come out of nowhere start drama and out of nowhere someone throws a punch.
sonhis
So the family hates me and thinks I'm a bad person for their son because I failed to call 911 right when everything happened instead of doing it hours later at the hospital.

I feel like I failed him. It eats me up because they don't say anything but I feel this strong vibe. He even told me that they hate me. Idk what to do.

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