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He rejected me after flirting with me. Why is that?
This the follow up to a question I wrote earlier about the guy I had a crush on that asked me to play basketball with him. Well I asked him if we could play on Saturday but he said maybe but I have a feeling that we won't. And its not like hes going to be busy he said he was just going to stay in the house all day. I don't get it. It was his idea he brought it up about playing not me. Why bring it up if you don't mean it. Why flirt or stare at me but never make a move. I'm confused why do guys do this?
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Guys do it because they need to feel better about themselves. It makes their ego feel better. If you do end up hanging out with him, don't act super interested in him. If he starts doing all that again, just act cool about it and make sure he knows that you're not a girl who can be played with.
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Well,this has happened to me many times.It's really frustating. The definition of those type of guys is 'immature'. They just do it because they need to know that they're interesting and attractive enough to practically play with you. Stop looking as if you were drooling over this guy. The best method to deal with these kind of guys is the indifference. If he is that proud of himself,then he won't turn to you, and so be it. But if it is the other way around,he'll start approaching you once again. But try not to be weak. Stop paying attention to his flirtings and ask him to explain what he actually wants from you. And tell him you are not the kind of fool who likes to be used.
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Tell him how you feel about him jerking you around and playing with your emotions. Ask him why he flirts and tries to get your attention but cannot commit to ideas for getting together that he proposed.
If he can't give you a solid answer than move on as he will forever be doing this to you. It could be that he's unsure of what he wants or something else in the way. I don't know which. I do know one thing don't waste too much time on someone acting like this towards you.
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