I'm 15 and i've been dating this really amazing guy for a month. Whenever i see him i get really shy. We both want to kiss but i'm too shy... What do i do?
Godsangel answered Friday January 18 2013, 7:40 pm: I know it sounds crazy but this is what you do. You say "I love you" and then you ask him to see if theres something in your eye and he will look on your eye then kiss you, TRUST ME THIS WORKS!!! [ Godsangel's advice column | Ask Godsangel A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Friday January 18 2013, 5:59 pm: This is completely normal. I was 15 when I had my first kiss and my boyfriend at the time did want to kiss me but I was super shy. Eventually, he got up the courage to kiss me.
So, you just need to try being comfortable around him. Once you guys are comfortable, the kiss with come naturally. It's not something you should stress about.
It's not just your very first kiss that makes you nervous. I dated a couple other guys and each time, that first kiss with him made me nervous.
So just relax and try to be more comfortable with him. It'd make it easier for the both of you. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
solidadvice4teens answered Thursday January 17 2013, 5:07 pm: It's okay if you are shy or nervous about this as it's all so very new. Understand that he's your partner and not someone who you should feel uncomfortable with about anything.
He's not going to laugh at you and likes you for you. Just be yourself with him as that's all you need to do. He's probably as nervous at you are about that first kiss. You just have to relax.
Tell him that you are an introvert and if you come across that way with him it's because you like him but have to get over being shy. He will understand. As for the kiss let him know this is a first for you and that you're wound up over it but really anticipate it and want it. Ask him to guide you step by step. You should be fine. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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