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Q: ok i have this guy friend,john, well john knows A LOT about me and we've been friends since like may, or something but anyways, he knows things about me that my friends that i've had since headstart and kindergarten dont even know! and hes like really hot and he has a girl friend and all but me and him are REALLY good friends, and anyways, the other day in class the was i was standing i could look at him and he wouldnt know, but im pretty sure i seen him checking me out, i mean he like looked at me from head to toe.. and he knows i think hes cute and all. and then today i was talking to him about his girlfriend and i asked him if he thought they'd be together for awhile and hes just like "yeah a long time" and i was just like oh cuz that was not the answer i wanted to hear, but i didnt tell him that, and then i said something about him flirting with other girls {meaning me cuz he "flirtz" with me all the time}and hes like idont flirt with other people and i go yeah you do and i was like u can flirt with people and not realize it and hes like no i know when and who i flirt with and like im starting to think i have absoluetly no chance with him now.. i dont know..what do you think i should do? oh and this morning he said i should go to church with him sumtime!! PLZ HELP!!! im 14, female
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thats realy confusing but okays here we go! he seems like a total flirt. grr i hate that. you don't nessicaly have no chance with him... its just that the gf kinda hinder the chances... go to church with him and stay friends with him... you can stick until the gf then move in
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Q: Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out?
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this depends on how long you think that you would still like your ex. maybe if you go out with this new guy you will relize how much you like him. if you don't feel anything for this guy then you may want to leave him alone. if you dont want to go out with him tell him that you don't know what you want yet and you want to try out the single thing! by the way thats not too bad!!!!
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Q: I gave up on love awhile ago..even though I don't want to, it just happened. Most of the guys I've dated were jerks. I don't trust guys and I resent all of my ex's and I can't help it. I haven't met a single guy in my school or area that was decent and I'm really starting to hate men. I'm not going to like females but I don't understand why men are such jerks. Someone help?
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well highschool boys are always jerks... theres only a few who aren't jerks are either taken or you already went out with them... but don't give up on love... theres someone out there for everyone... and you find them when your ready
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Q: i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin
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8th grade was my first boyfriend if that makes you feel any better. and calling him a boyfriend is a long strech! we never did anything... i just saw him at school and his basketball games! so much for a 1st boyfriend. in middle school it doesn't matter if you have a boyfriend. now that i think about it most people at dances dancing together weren't going out. you'll get your boyfriend in high school! thoes are the ones worth waiting for... and no you are prefectly normal... unless you have a 3rd arm growing outta your back
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Q: Me and my b/f have been going out now for 3 months. And i haven't kissed him yet..not even a peck. Is there something wrong with me? He has tried once to make a move but i backed off. Does anyone have any advice on how to do it or anything??!!!
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no nothings wrong with you at all! maybe the reason you back off is bc you're worried on how good of a kisser you will come off as. even if your not prude you can be afriad he'll think your bad. chances are he won't notcie...as long as hes getting some? lol maybe hes afraid of getting rejected again because of the first time! lol maybe he doesn't wanna do anything now? talk to him about if you want?
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Q: can you make a guy love you?! and if so..what kinda stuff can you do?!
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no you can't... you can tease them thou! hehe
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Q: i am finally over my ex but now i find myself constantly thinking about my best friend's ex. i missed him while i was on vacation..do i have a crush on him? If i do...what should i do? should i tell him? my friend still isnt completely over him.. what if he likes me too? oh and im a 14 yhear old girl
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ahh! never a good sitution. you may just care for him, not nessarly like him. really i think the best thing for you to do is stick with your friend and not do anything about this guy cuz it will cause problems between you and your friend. how do you know if he liked you? just stay away from this guy for a little while because he has trouble written all over him... don't get in between them either. stick with your friend... thanx for your question
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Q: I am 15 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Is that normal?
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yes its completely normal! most parents don't really want their girls dating until they are 16. but happy thou. girls with guys are headed for heartbreak and tears. also kids who are in relationships too early in life are more likely to be in postions they don't wanna be in... like sex. don't worry! i have so many friend who have never have a boyfriend! and my brother didn't get a gf until senior yr in highschool and she cheated on him!
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Q: I'm a 15/f and i'm really crushin on this totaly hotti. He's like in my grade but like he's kind of in the "popular" group - ya kno? so yea what should i do yo...help a sista out
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haha if hes hot then its good. are you in the popular group silly? is he nice? if he is and understanding why not flirt and if he flirts back tell him! lol i would do that! but if hes mean and nasty don;t tell him... just admire from far!
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Q: for some reason guys always take me as a whore..is there anyway i can make them stop thinking that?! i realli need help! i'm so depressed n crying! i'll rate!
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ok well take a look at yourself. do you give them reasons to think your a whore? like your make up... is it like really heavy or really dark or does it look like a mask? thats definalty a reason! and your clothes... if they are too tight or too reveling thats def. another thing. and your actions... are you all over guys?? allyou can do to make them stop thinking is calm it down with make up and boys, and dress more modest...
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Q: I was obbsessed with this guy for like 6 months. I just got over liking him but my one of my best friends told me she went to a party and asked him to slow dance and they danced together 3 times. When she told me this i was speechless even though i stopped liking him. I am kinda mad that she danced with him-or i think i'm mad. I'm not sure whether or not i'm mad or just jealous...i still might have feelings for him. Do you think i'm mad at her or just jealous?
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i know what your feeling. happened way to many times to me. well i think its really jealously along with madness. i mean like really... how did you feel when your friend went up to him and danced with him? i would be mad! lol then youd be jealous bc he can get your friend or your friend gets the guy... happens all the time. so really its a combination...
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Q: How can i make my ex like me again, they told me they loved me once and now they basically ignore me. What can i do?
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you can't... theres a reason they broke up with you or you broke up with them. now they ignore you... not a good sign... sorry... just flirt and see how they react
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Q: i really like this one guy but hes going out with a girl... and it seems like this guy likes me and he calls me almost everynight and when were together he always wants to like make out and things liek that but then if he liked me why would he be going out with his grilfriend? so i don't know what to do anymore just go with the flow or try and work things out and just be friends with this guy...
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hes 13 too i'm guessing. relationships that young don't mean anything. he just has a girlfriend to hook up with or say hes got a gf
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Q: hi ppl . ok well heres my problem . im not bragging or nethng but i think im pretty & hav a good personality but my one thing is , i hav NEVER had a boyfriend . and im 14 . its bothering me b/c all of my friends can get them , and i cant . i talk to guys all the time and im being myself , but it isnt working . nothing is working . i dono what to do nemore . any tips
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its ok 14 is kinda young to be in relationships... studies have shown that if you are in relationships too early in life you have better chances getting stds and having sex, and all that bad stuff. so really wait till your 16. thats when parents start letting theres kids have bfs! so don't worry
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Q: Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend?
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ew no! ok don't do anthing! for a while that is. see if the gf dumped the guy it would be a little better but seeing as the friend broke up with her she could still be upset and missing him. if you like her ask your friend why he dumpped her then see what happens. talk to her about too and see what she thinks. depends on the signs i guess
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Q: I'm a 16-year old female who's just gotten into a really bad breakup. My now ex-boyfriend and i had been together for over a year and it turns out that he just didnt love me anymore, so he broke up with me. He lied to me alot, cheated, and did so many things that are totally unforgivable, but i find myself still loving him so much. How should i handle this situation and is it wise to ever get back together with him?
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ok well sometimes in relationships the love just stops. trust me it hurts. but would you rather be in a relationship with a guy who doesn't love you or a relationship just because you feel alone. you prob. feel like you still love him because its like a habit and you aren't used to him not being there because you were together for so long. If he lied, cheated, and did unforgivable things why would you wanna go thru that heartbreak again! take time off and go with other guys and see how you feel... chances are that you will see you don't really love him as much as you think right now.
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Q: I just cant seem to get over my ex girlfriend...i know first loves are the hardest to get over, but im still really really really into this girl..and its been a year, i miss everyting about her, but its jut not gonna work out again between us.....what should i do?
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just try to think of other girls... it may not work but at least you can say you tried. theres nothing i know of that you can do... if there was everyone would be going out with someone
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Q: I am 16, been on varsity football since my freshman year, im going to be a sophomore, im not really worried about having a girlfriend, sometimes i just wish i had one, do you girls like to get close with a guy before you date them, as in like a best friend relationship, or do you like to meet guys and find something new about him day in and day out....?? i dont no anymore lol
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personally i fall for my guy friends. i have only liked my guy friends.
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Q: ok thers this girl that i like and she says that she wants to have sex with me but she is allways saying that but it never happens i would love to have sex with her and i love her alot but she is just shy. is there any way i can make her not as shy? 14/m
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maybe shes kidding? i know i say stuff like that to some of my guy friends online too but i know i'd prob not even be able to hook up with them. there is no way you can make her unshy. she has to do it herself. but really your 14 and she must mean around that age and girls don't want sex at that age so don't plan on having sex with her for a while kiddo
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Q: my neighbor is a 13 year old female and im a 14 year old male. she stalks me and she likes but id ont like her like she likes me wat do i do?
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stalkers are great! haha it makes you feel loved. tell her to leave you alone! or just make her mad at you (that always works!). and it you wanna have fun with it stage a show for her haha! its great!
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bio
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woohoo! i finally got about to this! ok so i'm lauren! and i am always hyper unless you catch me on a bad day. even thou i'm hyper everyday i can still be serious! apparently thats when i sound smartest! haha but i know the time of firendship even thou i act like i don't.
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Member Since: August 20, 2004 Answers: 49 Last Update: August 29, 2004 Visitors: 4697
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