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guy friend
ok i have this guy friend,john, well john knows A LOT about me and we've been friends since like may, or something but anyways, he knows things about me that my friends that i've had since headstart and kindergarten dont even know! and hes like really hot and he has a girl friend and all but me and him are REALLY good friends, and anyways, the other day in class the was i was standing i could look at him and he wouldnt know, but im pretty sure i seen him checking me out, i mean he like looked at me from head to toe.. and he knows i think hes cute and all. and then today i was talking to him about his girlfriend and i asked him if he thought they'd be together for awhile and hes just like "yeah a long time" and i was just like oh cuz that was not the answer i wanted to hear, but i didnt tell him that, and then i said something about him flirting with other girls {meaning me cuz he "flirtz" with me all the time}and hes like idont flirt with other people and i go yeah you do and i was like u can flirt with people and not realize it and hes like no i know when and who i flirt with and like im starting to think i have absoluetly no chance with him now.. i dont know..what do you think i should do? oh and this morning he said i should go to church with him sumtime!! PLZ HELP!!! im 14, female
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uhhh im not really sure. but i think he likes u but he doesnt wanna show it just yet. give him a little time since he does have a girlfriend and then try expressing yourself to him again. i hope everything works out... IM me sometime craviin kiisses8.. ill be able to answer faster on AIM.
good luck hun!
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thats realy confusing but okays here we go! he seems like a total flirt. grr i hate that. you don't nessicaly have no chance with him... its just that the gf kinda hinder the chances... go to church with him and stay friends with him... you can stick until the gf then move in
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I think this guy just wants to be friends. Also, if he really liked you he would dump his gf for you. But sometimes guys say there not flirting when they are! So just forget about it and be friends until he breaks up with his girlfriend!
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ahhh!!! it sounds like this dude likes ya..but just doesnt want to ammitt it!! lol..I have a friend like that right now..he knows stuff that alotta ppl dont know about me..like my best best bestfriend I've known since 2nd grade doesnt even know..I actually fill like I can tell him stuff that I cant tell my other friends (who I mean the girls)...guys have the strangest ways of tell us girls that they like us..lol..but yeah..you can flirt with someone and not relize it!!! Try hanging out with him alot and all...like go to the movies and the mall etc.. (as friends though!!)...and.. I say give him like about a mouth and see what happens..sumthing may happen between the 2 of them and may break up, which means you may have the chance to be with him..(with you 2 being so close and all and hanging out alot may make him more interested in you!!) - hope I helped
-IM me and keep me posted and tell me what happens i'd like to hear it-
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I think he knows that you are getting some sort of vibe from him and you think he likes you, and more than likely he does, he might be one of them guys that have a girlfriend but likes, and flirts with other girls at the same time, although he said he'll be with his girlfriend for a long time doesnt mean that you're out of the picture, you can kinda tell that he likes you, and he TRIES to make it so it's not obvious, he just doesnt want you to know, he wants to keep playing with your head because he doesnt want to screw anything up between him and his girlfriend if she was to ever find out...When guys tend to know alot about you they end up falling for you, that whole thing about "a boy and girl can just be friends but at one time or another they will both like eachother in a more than friend way" something like that, well that thing IS true, I've learned the hard way that most guys are like that... Just keep your head up and stay positive, there is ALWAYS a possibility that him and his girlfriend will break up.. Most of what I just said probably didn't make much sense to you, but yeah... sorry if it didn't help much :-|
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