im a normal, god loving, teen, im not perfect but ive been though alot so i know stuff.
Gender: Female
Location: missouri, the most boring place in the world!
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Age: 16
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My girlfriend has lied to me several times... nothing EXTREMELEY serious, but about a lot of little things. I have threatened her with a break up, and she gets very emotional when i mention a break up. Recently she has lied to me again and i broke up with her... She is begging to get back with me and i want to be with her..... what should i do? (link)
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you told her what would happen if she lied and she did so now she must suffer. you don't need to be with someone that lies to you!!!
best of luck!!
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i cry a lot. nd i guess my x didnt kno that. but i broke up w/ him nd he used to b my BEST friend! but i broke up w/ him nd he was depressed ALL day long obviously. i couldnt bear it because I was the 1 that broke his heart nd hes my best friend! so later after school i called him so we could talk more (he told me to call him) nd i started crying. he was like "u cant brake up w/ me nd then start crying" im like "i kno i kno but. . ." nd now i feel like a complete idiot nd i dont want him to tell his friends. then i said "i kno im such a loser for crying" nd he said "no yur not a loser" so idk. i still feel like an idiot. help! (link)
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ok first crying is a natural feeling, some ppl feel the need to cry more that others, its nothing you can help, you just have to let the tears flow. as for your loss of your best friend cause he is now your x, try hanging out with other friends or going out with them. you also could try talking to your x and see if you two can still be friends.
best of luck!
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I like this girl so much but she is practically dedicated to this guy but he doesn't love her the way I do but I can't tell her that I love her because we are likebest friends and I really wanna date this chick but she is to tight on this other guy what do I do? (link)
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if this guy really doesn't care about her, you might try to get her to see that. then all you can do is be there for her total, and maybe she will see that.
best of luck!
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i just broke up with my boyfriend who was my best friend!! i just did it today nd were avoiding eachother. except he asked y i broke up w/ him nd i told him nd we started to fight nd now hes even more mad at me. i hate this so much! although i wouldnt change me mind, i still dont like him! hes my best friend though. i HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE it so much! it hurts so bad! i kno i have to give it time, but. . .i dont kno, thats y im here
((sorry for the lenght)) (link)
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just try and get your mind off it. for now only time can heal, try taking up a really big project that might take a few days but trust me work gets your mind off your pain.
best of luck!
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16.f -- i met this guy at a party i had this past weekend, hes 21, and really nice .. he seems like hes into me and invited me to his party this saturday. the only catch is that hes 21, and hes 1 of my sister's, boyfriend's best friends. Either way, i'm probably going to go to the party, but i just want to know if yall think i should "persue this"..?? thanks yall (link)
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i say go but unfortuanly this can't go any where till your 18, which is a real bummer but use that time to get to know him. till your 18 no dates!!
best of luck!
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I have a coworker that I am very interested in getting to know. I have heard from several people that he is interested in me too but the thing is we are both shy. We make eye contact and smile at eachother but that is as far as it goes. There has been several times where I have come close to telling him how I feel and asking him out but I am too shy when it comes to situations like this. We dont know eachother personally but we have been working together for about 2 years now and I recently began feeling this attraction toward him. I know I should just say something but I would get nervous. What should I do? (link)
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just be calm and cool. if you like this guy the only thing that is gonna be really hard is the first sentence after that im just sure you both will come out of your shell. try asking him to dinner or a movie, something simple. then you can get to know each other.
best of luck!
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hey I really like this guy sooooo MUCH! its like scary lol we talk on the fone A LOT and stuff, but he is not that handsom he is kinda fat and im really skinny, wen i saw him i was lke ewwww and so was every1 else. He is tall and I am short but he is really nice and sweat. I dont know if i shuld go with him or not! he is really nice! if it helps im 13/f PLEASE I WILL RATE HIGH!!! (link)
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if you like this guy so much, who cares about his apperence as long as he is clean. don't care what other ppl think unless they are worried that you might get hurt.
best of luck!
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OK..i have this girlfriend of about 3 weeks, though ive liked her since about february. im going away to another country for 9 weeks next week and am not sure what to do. the relationship seems to have been going pretty well, we hook up, we talk often and get together a lot. an off topic note is her parents dont allow her to date, but im trying to get around it and if they know for sure(they already suspect), ill meet with them and try to negotiate. ANYWAY, how can i discuss the subject of cheating without her thinking i think she wont be loyal. 9 weeks is a long time, but im willing to make it work and sacrifice a lot of girls for her. im a sophomore, shes a freshman. any tips on what i should do? break up for the summer, which there is no guarantee she will still be single or still like me? stay together and call often? what?
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i think you need to talk to her about this, see what she wants. if you two decided to stay together call often, send romantic letters, or the occational gift from where ever you are going to be. or you might if you both have camera's video type like 10 minute messages. but like i said she needs some imput on this too, so talk to her about it.
best of luck!
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my guy friend is having trouble with this and if im more informed, i can help him out a bit more. well he has this gf, kelly, who is a good friendof mine and i got them together. theres this girl who is kelly's friend, bernie, who is always clinging onto kelly (almost like she likes her...) and so this guy cant pull her aside to kiss her. theyve been together for 4 months and for some reason kelly isnt being very nice to the guy...she doesnt want to hang out for dumb reasons and she thinks theyre going to fast when they barely hold hands, she never calls him or does anything sweet for him. before we thought it was pms but its been going on for a reallllly long time. (poor guy.."i didnt think it was supposed to last this long") he really loves her and i dont know what to say to either of them. any tips? (link)
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you might mention this to kelly, maybe she doesn't even notice, or you could find out why and then tell your guy friend. i feel sorry for the poor guy....
best of luck!
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ok my boyfriend is really shy. Like we go to the school breakfast (well i meet him there with my friend) but he doesnt sit with me. I have to go over to his table and sit with him. Also, he doesn't call me and when i call him, we don't have even a 6 minute conversation. He's really shy but i kno he likes me a lot and im not so sure we're ever going to kiss..:( how could i make it so he isnt so shy? Thanks bub byezz (link)
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unfortunatly you can't do much except try asking him to try to stop being so shy. if he says he will try and then doesn't then don't call him or sit by him, if he likes you like you think he does he will come to you.
best of luck!
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ok.........my friend Casey, wanted to bring her boyfriend, me and my boyfriend to the movies on Friday...but im soooo dissappointed with myself but i truley feel my boyfriend will be like "GEEZE! WHY IS SHE HANGING AROUND THAT UGLY THING?" And im really really really nervous about it. Like if he'll talk about her behind her back to me or one of his friends. How do i prevent this?? (link)
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tell him before hand and tell him you don't wanna hear it cause you think its rude. if he really cares about you he'll shut up.
best of luck!
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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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well it seems to me that he does like you but if you really wanna be sure you could try asking his friends or having a mutual friend ask why he is acting strange around you. just from what you've said its a pretty safe bet he likes you.
best of luck!
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look i kissed my boi_friend lastnight and me and him have been friends for a while and i felt like i kissed my brother. i dont no what i should do i asked one of my friends and she said that i should break up w/ him what should i do! (link)
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if you really are that uncomfortable about kissing him then don't just explain that he is too like a brother to be a boy friend. if im not mistaken he may feel the same way. just ask if you can go back to being friends.
best of luck!
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There`s this boy I know.He says stuff to me like"since you`ve been bad I am going to fuck you hard tonight so where going to be making babeies"or"I am going to smak that big ass of yours".And I don`t realy like it when hedose that.One time I was alone with him and he started rubbing my body.I`ve told him to stop but he dosent listen.And if I tell an adult he might try to rape me.I need help so can you plese help me. (link)
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you NEED TO TELL AN ADULT!!!!!!!!!!there is no reason he should treat you like that after you have asked him not to. you really just need to stop him in his tracks when he starts touching you, say if you don't stop im not afriad to make you and the instant that he does touch you again in a way you don't like, kick him right in the balls!!!!!you still will need to tell an adult if you don't tell and let him get a way with it then you are allowing him to think its ok and it isn't ok! just in case also ask the adult you talk to if you could possible be moved far away from this person and also ask for your name not to be used. also inform you parents so that they can also take nessary procautions so that no one will be hurt!
best of luck!
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ok well.. my boyfriend [of about 1 and a half years] birthday is comin up in july. and i hve NO clue what to do for him.. like where to go/what to get him.. that sorta thing.. last year for my birthday we met at a pizza place then went to the movies and he gave me a really pretty necklace w. matching earrings.. i want it to be special u know.. even tho we hve been together for 1 and a half years we werent "together" for his birthday last year.. someone please help me! and i want all the details.. please.. thanks in advance! (link)
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well you might try finding out what he loves to do and get him something that has to do with that.
best of luck!
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Okay well theres this thing called the love quiz that's on my crush's profile and i took the quiz and it asks you who is ya crush and stuff like that and so i put his name. Then after the quiz, it gives you your score. Also it says that it will send the answers and score to the person's email who has it on their profile but i didnt know that and i dont want him to find out,So what should i do? LIke block him and never ever talk to him or what?!? Please help! I'll rate!! (link)
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well personally if you really like this guy its good to get your feelings out there, who knows he may like you back? or you could act like you never sent it and don't know what he is talking about.... or as you said block him and never talk to him again.... or leave the country and change your name. but the main thing if you decided to stay with it is don't bring it up when you talk to him, let him bring it up and let him do all the talking.
best of luck!
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Ok, I'll have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 weeks, tomorrow. I've heard rumors that if his g/f wont have sex with him that he dumps them after a month. And I'm 13 and I don't want to have sex. He is having a party next weekend and invited me to it. Its a pool/birthday party at his house. If my mom lets me go, I'm going. But if that rumors true...he well might wanna ya know. What should I do? (link)
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ok i think you need to find out if the rumors are true by asking him. if he says yeah that is true, dump him and get on with your life cause you don't need to be wasteing it on him. if he says no then great! but if he asks you about having sex at his party just tell him you aren't ready and if that is all he is dating you for then you're leaving him. if he doesn't work out you know there is someone out there for you!
best of luck!
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my x-b/f tried to make me sneek out of the house to go over to his friends (to watch porn) w/ him and his hommie . he made the commentthat anything he say or he got his hommie would see and get. i alreaddy broke up w/ this boi but im scarred that he might try to rape me. what should i do?
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ok i would cut off all relations with these two because this sounds dangerous. now this might be jumping the gun "for lack of better words" i would try taking to the police to see if they might be willing to watch these guys. also tell your parents so that they can also be on the look out, and just to be on the safe side i would make sure about stuff like locking doors, shuting windows, changing keys if one of them has a set or getting an alarm system. you might also ask your parents about getting you enrolled in a self defense class. this is pretty serious and i really don't want anyone hurt.
best of luck
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My oyfriend keeps pushing me in having sex, but i'm not sure if i should . i am not sure if im ready to have a really committed relationship. What should i do? please help! P.S. i'm 17 years old (link)
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ok if he is pushing you that is a sign right there that you should not do it!!! if this were the next step in your relationship he would not be pushing you, and if he is pulling that "if would do it if you love me" you need to dump him. its your own choice about it and if you're not 100% sure you should not even be thinking about it. i think its time you and your bf have a serious talk, if anything just let him know you aren't ready. if he loves you he will wait for you.
best of luck!
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i just found out that my best friend was having an affair with my girlfriend! he admitted that he had sex with her, and that they had it more than twice! Now my girlfriend is pregnant and we don't know who's baby it is! please help! my parents are going to freak! (link)
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wow you are really in rock and hard place. first of all since you said your parents are going to kill you ill take it you are under 18. i think the best thing is to get all parents together in this and tell them. then you can have a test done and it can tell you the father. then you need to do the right thing and raise this baby. im sorry to say this but you really screwed up.
best of luck
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