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OK..i have this girlfriend of about 3 weeks, though ive liked her since about february. im going away to another country for 9 weeks next week and am not sure what to do. the relationship seems to have been going pretty well, we hook up, we talk often and get together a lot. an off topic note is her parents dont allow her to date, but im trying to get around it and if they know for sure(they already suspect), ill meet with them and try to negotiate. ANYWAY, how can i discuss the subject of cheating without her thinking i think she wont be loyal. 9 weeks is a long time, but im willing to make it work and sacrifice a lot of girls for her. im a sophomore, shes a freshman. any tips on what i should do? break up for the summer, which there is no guarantee she will still be single or still like me? stay together and call often? what?
thanks
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stay together and call often...
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I think you can stay together and call, write, all kinds of things. Simply tell her that you don't plan on dating others while you are away and you hope she feels the same. That should get the cheating subject brought up for you in a nice way. Makes you look caring and it won't seem like you are worried about her cheating. I hope she tells you she plans to do the same. Then, while you are gone communicate whenever and however you can.
I think it will look good to her parents that you are keeping in touch. If she isn't allowed to date now then you probably don't have to worry about the cheating threat much.
Hopefully when you return her parents will let her date you with their blessing. Say hi to her mom when you call her and be extra polite to her on the phone. Have a great trip! :)
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i think you need to talk to her about this, see what she wants. if you two decided to stay together call often, send romantic letters, or the occational gift from where ever you are going to be. or you might if you both have camera's video type like 10 minute messages. but like i said she needs some imput on this too, so talk to her about it.
best of luck!
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If this relationship is worth the effort to you then start out by telling her that. Tell her you want it to work and that you will be loyal and let her make up her mind.
My personal advice, don't break up for the summer. It's a cheesy and weak-hearted thing to do. If someone is worth being with, they are worth waiting 9 weeks for.
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