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shy bf
ok my boyfriend is really shy. Like we go to the school breakfast (well i meet him there with my friend) but he doesnt sit with me. I have to go over to his table and sit with him. Also, he doesn't call me and when i call him, we don't have even a 6 minute conversation. He's really shy but i kno he likes me a lot and im not so sure we're ever going to kiss..:( how could i make it so he isnt so shy? Thanks bub byezz
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Talk to him and tell him its alright to talk to people. If he doesn't talk to you, then you may want to consider getting another boyfriend.
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You should talk to him, maybe he has reasons for being so shy. There might be family problems, personal problems, or past relationship problems. He might have been hurt by an ex-girlfriend and he doesnt want to get hurt again. Tell him that ur their for him and u always will be. Comfort him and love him, dont put him on the spot. Give him time and support and he should come around. Good Luck!
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unfortunatly you can't do much except try asking him to try to stop being so shy. if he says he will try and then doesn't then don't call him or sit by him, if he likes you like you think he does he will come to you.
best of luck!
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Are you sure it's the fact that he's shy? I don't know really if you can change that about him. Just try and understand him. I know that is a lot to ask(unless you talk to him about the issue), but you will find that being understanding in relationships may come to your benefit. You could try to urge him into a conversation that you both could relate to and discuss. A topic that you know that he'll like. Activities that are relevent to the idea above. Just try to engage him in something that you know definitely that he is interested in , and don't push him too hard. Thus comes the understanding factor. Hope I was some help and have a nice day.
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you just gotta be paitient with those shy guys. having one myself i get all the "why in the world are you still with him" stuff when really, they make the best bfs. he's just gonna have to get comfortable...i know how frustrating it can be, even my mom gives me grief. just waittt. hope this helps! <3
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