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i cry a lot. nd i guess my x didnt kno that. but i broke up w/ him nd he used to b my BEST friend! but i broke up w/ him nd he was depressed ALL day long obviously. i couldnt bear it because I was the 1 that broke his heart nd hes my best friend! so later after school i called him so we could talk more (he told me to call him) nd i started crying. he was like "u cant brake up w/ me nd then start crying" im like "i kno i kno but. . ." nd now i feel like a complete idiot nd i dont want him to tell his friends. then i said "i kno im such a loser for crying" nd he said "no yur not a loser" so idk. i still feel like an idiot. help!
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ok first crying is a natural feeling, some ppl feel the need to cry more that others, its nothing you can help, you just have to let the tears flow. as for your loss of your best friend cause he is now your x, try hanging out with other friends or going out with them. you also could try talking to your x and see if you two can still be friends.
best of luck!
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I think you should feel like one too.
After all you forgot to put the A's in front of you "nd's"
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Tell him the reason you were crying was because you felt bad for hurting him and you just thought it wouldnt work out. Crying isnt a bad thing tho. Dont feel embarassed.. just tell him that and he will understand. ♥
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Well actually, that's not true. He can't say "you shouldn't cry because you're the one that broke up with me". You know why? Because sometimes it hurts people to break up with someone. Sometimes people are hurt and cry, but break up with someone because it's for the best. Just because they did the breaking up part doesn't mean they can't do the crying part. Actually, crying kind of proves you do have a heart and you do care for him. So don't feel like a loser or an idiot.
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all you can say is i too am upset. thats all just leave it like that and if he does truly love you he will understand!!!! hope that didn't sound harsh.....
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