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My oyfriend keeps pushing me in having sex, but i'm not sure if i should . i am not sure if im ready to have a really committed relationship. What should i do? please help! P.S. i'm 17 years old
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If you have any doubts at all don't do it. If he loves you he will wait. If he doesn't then you don't want to have sex with him anyway. :)
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If you don't want to tell him. If he loves you enough he'll wait
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It doesnt matter what your boyfriend wants. NEVER have sex until you are ready to. If he really cared about you he wouldnt be pushing it, but he is probably too immature and hormonal to understand that. Stand your ground - you won't regret it, but if you do have sex with him or anyone else before you are ready, I promise you will regret that!
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ok if he is pushing you that is a sign right there that you should not do it!!! if this were the next step in your relationship he would not be pushing you, and if he is pulling that "if would do it if you love me" you need to dump him. its your own choice about it and if you're not 100% sure you should not even be thinking about it. i think its time you and your bf have a serious talk, if anything just let him know you aren't ready. if he loves you he will wait for you.
best of luck!
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Stop there. Your boyfriend is pushing you into having sex? Thats not right. You shouldn't have sex whether you feel ready right now or not, because this guy is pushing you, and it won't be healthy if you give him what he wants because he tries forcing you. It will not be committed if you go and do it. You need a serious talk with your boyfriend. When you say you aren't ready and he pushes you in anyway, you say (firmly) "Listen, I said no, I am not ready, so stop pushing so hard." You have to say it like you mean it, but if he starts copping an attitude with you, then you need to end it with him before you do go with it and make it only committed to yourself. I think you're going to end up breaking up with this guy. Nobody should ever try pushing you, some guys can get impatient, but pushing is crossing the line. You have to be careful with what you do.
-TheTeenGirl
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Honestly, if you aren't 100% sure you're not ready. Tell your boyfriend you aren't ready to have sex yet. If he truly cares about you he will stop pushing you into it. If your boyfriend continues to try and have sex without you wanting to, break up. If he wants you and not <b>just</b> your body, he will stop. If you let this go too long it may turn into rape, which is not good considering he's your own boyfriend. Good luck! I really hope he understands your feelings. =)
♥ lAuRa
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if you arent sure that you are ready then you arent ready. tell him to stop pushing you. can always do something thats not quite sex like oral sex if you want.
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