OK, i don't like do stuff with guys. i mean i don't try to be prude but i just get scared or nervous sometimes to stuff like that. i don't wanna go all the way but i don't people to be calling me prude. i also don't wanna just do stuff with any guy but then again people say i'm prude. i haven't like found a guy that i would trust or wouldn't mind doing stuff with. but what should i do?
So let them call you prude. If you start doing stuff then they will just call you a slut. Only do what you are okay with. Don't try to please others because then you lose yourself.
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So about 3 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up and we weren't in the best of spirits together. Well he went to Vermont to see his family and get away and figure things out.
He has been gone for 2 months and we have gotten back together.
He is coming back in 2 weeks and I want advice on some cheap and romantic things to do when he gets back. He comes home at 1:30 in the morning so I was thinking to go star gazing but I was just curious if any one had any more ideas to make it extra romantic?
Remember a blanket.
Get him a favorite snack, like strawberries. Also bring something to drink.
Make sure that you don't tell him where you are taking him. Surprises are the best. And just have fun with it. :]
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I really like this guy, and from what I know, he likes me alot. And I mean, alot alot.
But, I live in Michigan,
and he lives in Ohio.
We're about 4 hours apart, give or take.
Do you think we should only be good friends ?
Because there's no way to know what he's (or even I, for that matter)doing. He promises me that he'll put off sex until me (lol) but yeah right.
What would be your take on this ?
Thanks !
ps. you're gorgeous:)
It could work, but it would be extremely hard. Most girls would have trust issues, but if you really like and trust him go for it. If it ends up not working out then you won't ever have to see his face. So it won't totally suck.
In the photo can you tell which one is me though? I'm the one in the gray. The girl in green is a friend, Briley.
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13/f he's 16/m
MMkay , wellme and my new boyfriend have been dating for 4 days and yesterday he wanted a handjob...I've done it before and all but I told him no , he had to wait because I have my own morals and I'm not a slut...I know it was a good choice to wait.
Also , he's 16 and expelled from school , so he doesn't go to school and has no plans on going...meaning he basicly has no future.This upsets me...
Another thing is that yesterday we were talking and he asked me what are my limit's ? And I said nothing below the belt.And then we were talking about how many previous sexual partners we've had and I told him I'm kinda a virgin [ well techniclly not because penis in vagina = non-virgin ] and he said he'd had about 35 girls who he's had sex with and 15 who have given him blowjobs.I was like :O man whore.He said if he tried he wouldn't beable to rememeber all their names and he didn;t know all their names in the first place.This also upsets me.
So , I'm thinking about asking him to get tested for STD's , STI's and AID's and all that before we do anything.
Answers ? Opinion's ? ANYTHING would help me...I can't get this out of my head !!
Oh deary! Obviously he just wants in your pants. Sorry, but he justs want to have sex with you. I'd break-up with him.
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I am so confused, there are 2 guys... and I don't know which one to pick. [15/f]
1st guy- I met him at church camp last year. He is so sweet. He told me I was perfect. He's said he loves me about a billion times. He has planned to ask me about a few times, but things get ruined. [He wants to ask me out in PERSON. It got ruined, because 1. the place we were supposed to go got rained out 2. he got grounded.] But, aside from how nice he is, he is also kind of bad. He's tried a cigarette, he drinks every now and then, and.. well.. he's pretty bad. But he is REALLY smart. Now, he has a girlfriend, but we still talk almost everyday. He still likes me, he's said it... Ah!
2nd guy- I went out with him for like, 3 days. He's not very popular. I've never really liked him. But he is so sweet! He's nervous & scared, but very nice, smart, and NOT bad. We have no history, at all... but that could change? Everyday he talks to me.
Which one should I pick?
I say go with number 1. I mean you like him, so date him. If you hardly have time to talk face to face then just have him ask you out over the phone or something.
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i like a girl what do i do?
Well, talk to her, flirt, and make the first move, most girls are terrified to make the first move. Sit with her at lunch maybe. If you see her in the halls walk with her. Girls love attention and compliments, but only if they are sincere, so have fun, and most importantly make her laugh. Most girls absolutley love guys who can make her laugh out loud. =]
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I'm 15/f. Sorry if this is long and tedious...
There's these two guys (Alan & Brian, 17/m) that are best friends with my brother. Anyways, when my brother hung out with them, I tagged along (without invitation), so I didn't really feel like I was friends with them.
This happened almost every weekend since school started.
Anyways, on Friday and Saturday my brother had to go somewhere for those entire two days.
Alan called and invited me to hang out with him and Brian. I accepted.
Usually when my brother is there, I feel awkward, so I don't say much. Especially to Brian. In fact, we pretty much ignore each other and don't even say "bye."
This time, Brian did talk to me alot. When I was dropped off at home, he said, "Have a wonderful evening." He even called me the next day.
The thing is, when I IMed him later (for the first time), he was very cool. He also didn't say much to continue the conversation. So I didn't either, and then I signed off without saying "Bye."
My question... why was he nice in person, but then acted like he didn't want to talk to me at all online?
Thanks.
Well, this is hard, it would help if I had more details, but oh well. I think maybe he might like you, but when you don't talk to him in front of your brother, he might think you don't like him. Sorry if this doesn't help, message me back if you want more advice. :)
~*Brianna*~
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Okay about 2 months ago i was dating this guy lets call him Jim. And i rele liek jim. About 1 month later, we broke up, then a nother 2 dasy we got back together, and then a couple weeks later we broke up and we had made-out and stuff but i always liked him. After we broke up i never had a nother b/f and i still rele like jim but like he wont talk to me and he wont accept my im's and i jus rele wanna alk to him becasue i still love him...ALOT!
Hmm, to be honest, it sounds like Jim was using you.
~*Brianna*~
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I like this boy, but he told his friends that he doesn't see me more than a friend but i really him. How do I ask him out??? Im a shy person and don't know how to come out and say it. We're friends but I need help I am so confused...
Well, if he doesn't see you as more than a friend, I say you just get over him. I'm sorry.
~*Brianna*~
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what is the perfect way to confess your feelings to a girl?
although it may seem a petty issue,but i want it to be a memorable one.
what do you think of these options?
1)at the beach at night
2)out during dinner
erm,any other suggestions,and if the gal is shorter than you...do girls like it when you go down to her height to confess or do they like to look up to you?
please tell me any more suggestions like places,or how to confess,i mean...words are not really necessary right?
thanks for reading.
I say take her to the beach, then just start slow dancing with her. Then just tilt her chin up so y'all are looking into each other's eyes, and spill. Then you can kiss her. :P Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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I have liked this guy for a long time and sometimes he likes me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her! He knows I like him but he just messes with me and I really want to get over him but I can't because I'm in so deep. The worst part is that he won't tell me that he doesn't like me...no, the worst part is that everybody is trying to get him expelled...like my friends are...the reason for that involves sexual harassment...he has been expelled for things like that and he did a few things here...nothing too big but so many people want him gone...I really don't because I know that deep down he is really a good guy...please help me...I don't know how to get over him...I want to march up to him and tell him that he has to TELL me I'm only a friend to him...it just really hurts. I'm sick of games being played with my heart...Sorry it's so long...XOXO
Hmm, if he has been in trouble for sexual harassment, do you really want to get involved? I had a friend who got involved with a guy like that, and now when she walks down the halls people call her" Slut, skank, hooker, whore, and more." Just thought I'd let you know that it might not be the best thing to get too terribly involved. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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Ok, this is the deal. I really like this guy and i think he kinda lyks me. But my frienz hate him, for the stupidest reason. Because they both liked him, and he said no. And now they call him an ass hole, and that if any girl likes she must be stupid or a slut. And i think thatz mean, cuz i really like him. I dont what to do. Plz, any advice will be taken. Thankz!
Okay, Darlin' you have to realize that the reason your friends are talking bad about people who like him, is simply because they are jelous. Don't let the stand in the way of you being happy, I say go for it. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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So i was talking to this guy, hes older than me by 3 years. Well the other day he asked me how old i was again because he forgot and i told him 15 and hes like o gotta go. no jk.. and then i was like alright how old r u again( i was jus making sure) and hes like old enough to know better nah jk again. What did he mean by old enough to know better? Thanks in advance!
He is probably talking about the fact that you are jailbait because it is illegal for an 18 year old to date a 15 year old with out parent consent. Also he may just think because you are so young you are stupid and think that he will love you forver and all that crap. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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so i thought i loved this one kid. but i know now i dont. and then i started liking this other guy but no i never did. he's sort of a jerk but then i met this guy and he's amazing but
he's gay =[
what should i do. i know i obviously wont have a chance with him but ugh. thanks for any advice
You've had guy trouble. Okay when you are around thid guy notice little things, like does he scratch his crotch? Or something else bad, every one had someone thing bad about them. Once you find it everytime you think of him think of his bad habit. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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ok so i need help. see, i used to like this guy for 3 years but i recently thought i was over him. then today i heard that he liked this one girl whos a complete slut and it hurt me for some reason. does this mean i still like him? or will it just always feel this way because i liked him for so long? please answer me! thank you!
I really wish I could give you a stright answer but I'm not sure, it could be because you think of this person as a good friend, or it could be you still have slight feelings for him, I think it was the first though. I really hope it works out! Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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Ive gotten to like this girl. Shes beautiful and has a nice personality. I want to say something nice to her and let her know how I feel about her. Im not keen on love letters, asking through friends and things like that, and I can't seem to find the right time because shes always with her friends everytime I want to talk to her. Ive heard that compliments work a treat. I need a list of compliments that are from a girls point of veiw that girls like said to them. Could you give me some girls advice or steps on asking her out or using special body language. 5's deffinately will be given out for really great advice/steps. Girls only.
Okay, tell her she is beautiful. It may sound corny to guys but girls love to be told they are beautiful. Ask her questions about her self, and make sure to make her laugh. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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ok so here is a conversation i had with this guy that i like and i can't figure what exactly he meant in his last text message so i'm gonna type the whole conversation and i want you to tell me wat you think he means. I'll rate 5's to everyone that gives me an opinion. O and my name is *Debbie* and his is *Nathan* And this conversation was at 11:30 last night.
Nathan---how about we give what we both want a chance and see how good we really are together. hit me back adn let me know what you think you might like.
Debbie---in shock didn't reply for a minute
Nathan---are you going to text back anytime soon i would really like to know what you think before i go to sleep, i guess i could just call you.
Debbie---Well depends on what you really want.
Nathan---You know what i really want what is it you want.
Debbie---No i don't think i know what you want.
Nathan---I want you and you do know that what do you want, I wouldn't mind there being an US but that would be up to you. but what do YOU want.????
Debbie---(i sent this one to the wrong place)I want there to be an us to.
Nathan---are you there can i get a response please, just leaving me hangin ain't cool you know. I will call you in the morning but i want you to text me.
Debbie---I sent it to your phone instead of your screenname but i want to be with you.
ok this is where i get confused.
Nathan---i never got it but *that's good* i'll call you later ok.
Are we dating? What does *that's good* mean?
Thanks signed
really confused
It sounds like yall are together, but incase ask him. When he says that's good I think he means that it is good that you like him, and that you want a realationship. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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okay so my boyfriend..lets call him Bob..thats weird but i dont want 2 use his real name..okay so Bob and me have been going out 4 about 2 months now..Bob's never made a move..neither have i..all my friends *boys and girls* went 2 the movies one night..i sait next 2 bob..he didnt put his arm around me or anything..but hes not shy..i know that..should i make a move or wait till he does? Thanks!!
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It is really up to you and how you feel, but I would make the first move. Some guys like aggressive girls, or he might not think that you are ready for the next step. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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I need a creative idea. How do I ask the girl of my dreams out on a date. But first of all, what things should I say to her, just a few tips that will melt her heart? I know that there is'nt that much you can do to melt her heart, but can you honestly think of a way of using body language to attract her to me. What the hell do I do? I rate 5's
Im 15/m and nearly 16.
Tell her she is beautiful. All girls love to be told they are beautiful, even more than being told that they are hott, sexy, ect. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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Dear Bri,
I have a boyyfriend that I REALLY love...and one of myy ex b/f's told me that he still like me..and he was being Reallyy sweet--I mean,I wouldnt have expected to hear this guyy sayy all this stuff about me. and well I kinda like him. So I was just wondering what you think I should do. Thanx!
Chrissyy
Well I would say that you should follow your heart and trust in God. I love ya annonamouse! Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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