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Which one?
I am so confused, there are 2 guys... and I don't know which one to pick. [15/f]
1st guy- I met him at church camp last year. He is so sweet. He told me I was perfect. He's said he loves me about a billion times. He has planned to ask me about a few times, but things get ruined. [He wants to ask me out in PERSON. It got ruined, because 1. the place we were supposed to go got rained out 2. he got grounded.] But, aside from how nice he is, he is also kind of bad. He's tried a cigarette, he drinks every now and then, and.. well.. he's pretty bad. But he is REALLY smart. Now, he has a girlfriend, but we still talk almost everyday. He still likes me, he's said it... Ah!
2nd guy- I went out with him for like, 3 days. He's not very popular. I've never really liked him. But he is so sweet! He's nervous & scared, but very nice, smart, and NOT bad. We have no history, at all... but that could change? Everyday he talks to me.
Which one should I pick?
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Okay - Guy number 1 is out of the picture. He's seeing someone. You don't want to be *that* girl. If you want to pursue it, do so only after he has completely broken off his previous relationship.
Guy number 2 is a possibility if you have chemistry with him.
There are always a few hundred thousand other guys who will cross your path and may increase your options. Or you can choose not to see anyone right now.
Sabine
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I say go with number 1. I mean you like him, so date him. If you hardly have time to talk face to face then just have him ask you out over the phone or something.
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You have to go out with guys you're interested in. If you're not intersted then nothing will work. It seems like this decision is completly up to you. Who do you have more fun with? That's a question you should ask yourself. Just because a guy has a few "bad" things about him doesnt mean he couldn't be the right one for you. Sorry but this is up to you! Go with the one who you can be more of yourself with.
Hope I helped!
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