I am a lesbian and have a huge crush on this butch lesbian. She dont do the flowers and chocolates kinda thing and we are not a couple but I would like to be. What is some small sweet things I could do to show her she deserves to be treated good?
Invite her out for coffee or lunch sometime. Make up some excuse you need some advice or help with something. When you're out, find out what things she likes and go from there. I hope this helps and good luck.
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hi,
i was wondering if it is alright to ask someone who you are acquainted with their sexual orientation because you are interested in them, and are not sure if they 'swing that way'. cause i'm a bisexual and want to know about a girl in my classes orientation but do not want to offend her in any way or cause her unnecessary trouble. Should i wait until we hang out more or? thanks! 16/f
I was bisexual from about the age of 14 and had some of the same problems. I found that if we went out on some friend dates, like the mall, lunch or hot chocolate, I would find out how they felt about me. Then to make sure, I would invite a girl over to spend the night, play some truth or dare and if things were going well, I would make the dares risky ones. If she said no, I wouldn't push it any further and move on to the next girl. If you need any other help, please e-mail me. julie19751975@yahoo.com. I hope this helps and good luck.
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So i've learned, love sucks. it seems i always fall for someone that is nearly impossible for me to ever be with. (oh, btw i'm bi, and only my family and three close friends know.) anyway I have a major crush on a girl in one of my classes. i don't know her sexual orientation and am not close enough to ask her. Two years ago we used to play frisbee every week, but since we've only shared classes. I'm trying to become closer to her again as a friend, but as winter draws near her hockey season is starting to pick up and she is quite busy. How do i approach her as a friend to hang out? (Also, i hope no one is against my orientation, but if you are, please refrain from commenting, thank you!) 16/f
I'm a female and also bi, so I can totally understand your problem. When I was in school and I wanted to see how a girl felt about me, I would go out on some friend dates. Ask her to go for hot chocolate after hockey. Tell her you'd like some help picking out some clothes at the mall and you'll treat for lunch. Then after a few dates ask her to spend the night to watch her favorite movie. After she comes over, you can play some truth or dare and find out how she really feels about you. If you need any other help, please feel free to write me. julie19751975@yahoo.com
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As children we experimented my older sister introduced me to full sexual intercourse. Later I did the same with my younger sister. After many years of living apart my younger sister and I were brought together again, both of us were now in our mid 50's, we rekindled our youthful relationship and it continues on a regular basis, the pleasure of our sexual union is extremely arousing and we are discreet since we both have spouses and children. Similar questions leads me to ask what harm is there if consenting siblings enjoy each other this way?
I don't know much about insest but I think if you're both adults, you can do whatever makes you happy.
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i do not know how to start this but appology for this long statement. i couldn't analyze these things anymore... let me start it this way, i am married for almost two years now and i love my husband. recently, i work with this lady and i find her very attractive. the thing is i don't know if she's gay or not and sending me mixed signals. i find her going on her way just to be around me or something, used to flirt with me before (i've seen her before i worked with her), stares at me when am not looking, used to stare at me when i was talking (before) and seems to be jealous when i talk to another men (like in a friendly way, not flirty). MOST IMPORTANTLY, i wonder so much why does our coworkers watches us whenever we are around together. they look at us, literally! it seems to me that they are listening to our body language or something. i don't understand... i really don't. since i started working with her i don't remember doing any flirtatious act on her. i never have. the only thing that happened was before i worked with her. like i say 2-3 times. well anyways, all of these happened before until last night... she worked with me directly and asked me bunches of personal questions like how is my husband, where did we met, etc and etc... do i have plans going back home to my country. i said yes i do. but am looking for someone to fly with me so i won't be by myself. she said she would go, she'd love to. then later when i asked her to go out with me and my friends because my other friend is bringing another person ( i don't wanna be out of place) she said yes if i wanted her to go (said yeah i do) and asked if we go to a bar and i said nope we don't do that. we just go out shopping. she said that's cool. i just thought you want me to WORK FOR YOU (what in the world does that mean???). that really got me. i laughed it out though. i asked her number and she gave it to me. later i asked her if she wanna go out watch movie, she said it's up to us. i can see she seemed to be starting in doubt, so when i got off from work i told her she don't have to go if she don't want to and that if something would come up. i even said i really like her and she said oh really? (she said it in a deep low voice) but i didn't told her that in a romantic way. she said she'll let us know and that she's saving her money because she's going to college soon. well anyways the fact is nobody knows am bisexual but i can see that she can sense that (that am bi). well, an hour after i texted her and she seems to be not interested or something...? i asked her questions and she answers it but she's not reciprocating my point on texting her and asking her out. i just wanna know her and be friends. she's very nice in every way. gracious i must say. am attracted to her, i admit that. however, i know where i stand on my ground and i cannot act on it. did she found everything weird? is she losing interest on me or did she even have an interest with me at all?
i honestly don't know what is going on so please please please i need everybody's help here analyzing these situation. am not even understanding my own self. i wanna know what is going on with her and what does she want from me.
I think she's turned off by the fact that you're still married. She may think you want to have a threesome with your hubby. If you were single, I'm sure you would be able to hook up with her. You need to be honest with her and let her know that if you get in a relationship with her, it's strictly between you and her. If you need any other help, please feel free to ask me. Julie19751975@yahoo.com
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I am 42 and been married three years to a 57 year old man!My concern is this i gound a jump drive laying on floor put it into my computer and it had 57,000 pics of naked women and porn clips!Is this normal behavior or is he obssessed?Most were young girls about 20,he is very conservitive with me so this really surprised and hurt me at the same time!He also goes on this nude hikes!I dint really have a problem with some porn but i am hurt that this is what he does when im not around!As he has been married three times before and discusses sexual past at times also!Im having a hard time even looking at him,he doesnt know i even have jump drive as i havnt decided what to do!
This means he still has a healthy sex drive. If he's not turning you down for sex or going away for long periods of time, you probably don't have anything to worry about. If you have carnations growing in your garden, do you not look at the roses because the carnations might get jealous? Every man likes to look but as long as he's not touching, let him have hs fun. I hope this helps and good luck.
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okay i found out that this guy i've been sleeping with has been sleeping with this other girl who is married. she has just recently had a baby and told me last night - i'm the only one that knows other than the guy we've been sleeping with - that the baby could be this guys, her husbands or her mothers partner. thing is, i know the husband, well i know him to talk to but not really that well; should i tell him that his wifes a slut and the kid might not be his?(in a nicer way obviously)
Send him an anonymous text that tells him of your concerns. Give him the first names of the 2 guys, so he can confront his wife if he chooses.
http://www.sendanonymoustext.com/
I hope this helps and good luck.
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In a few weeks my girlfriend will be 30. We live 3 hours away from each other and wth work not sure if we will get to spend it together. She isnt into flowers so what could I do to really wow her?
Set up a great spa day for her. Don't just send her a gift card but call some places close by her and set up the appointment on her day off. If you can't afford the whole day, it could just be a massage, facial or mani-pedicure. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I am 17 she is 42 I want her badly any advice?
It's not a good idea. If you like older women, that's fine but you still need to wait until you're 18. If you have sex with an older person before you turn 18, they could go to jail.
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Hello. I'd like to thank you for your advice/reply on my question before. But you see, I can't talk to her about it or do the sleepover thing. She graduated early, so she's gone now. I mean, I don't think she's going to move anywhere until she turns eighteen, which is in December.
Anyways, she blocked me on Facebook. But that was because I didn't know how to leave her alone. I was so "lovestruck" from actually being her friend that I didn't realize I was hurting her. I've been thinking about just sending her a normal email. Not now, but maybe in a few months or so. I don't want to do it right away. I haven't talked to her in eight months, but I still feel like I should wait. And I'm not really stuck on trying to get her to change her mind, or to be with me, because like I said, I'm not sure if she'd like that. Basically I just want to apologize for everything that happened and for hurting her and just go from there. You know what I mean? And I just don't know what to say to her about it or how to word it. I'm scared that if I say one wrong thing, I'll ruin it for GOOD good.
Thoughts?
(in case you don't remember from before):
basically I'm a girl that liked a girl.
She told me that she wondered for EVER if she was straight or not, but after hooking up with a few guys she just knew. Personally I think that she'd have to hook up with a girl to know, but I guess not.
First she said she didn't want to be my friend, because it was weird that I liked her.
But then all of a sudden she wanted to be my friend, and she was extremely nice to me.
Then she stopped talking to me because she thought I was confused.
That's basically it, I know a lot of people don't like too many details.
Then again, if there aren't enough details, people don't know what I'm talking about.
Oh well.
I've heard different opinions from my friends about it. I've heard that maybe she was confused herself, and didn't know what to do in that situation.
I've heard that maybe she was a little attracted to me, otherwise she would've just said "no" and never talked to me again.
Both make sense to me. Maybe she just felt sorry for me. But she did say that a lot of her friends told her to tell me to 'fuck off' but she didn't.
Like I said she was really nice to me at one point.
I just don't know why.
Wow..it's going to be hard since you haven't spoke to her in 8 months. You can ask her if she'd like to have coffee, lunch or some other daytime activity. Maybe ask her help to shop for school clothes. Something where there's other people around and she doesn't have to worry about being alone with you. Tell her there's no strings attached and you'd really enjoy talking with her and just some casual hanging out. If she doesn't respond right away don't worry about it. Wait a few weeks and tell her you understand her concerns about your previous actions and if she wouldn't mind, you'd like to get her a birthday present. If you need anything else, you can send me an e-mail directly to julie19751975@yahoo.com
I hope this helps and good luck.
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basically I'm a girl that liked a girl.
She told me that she wondered for EVER if she was straight or not, but after hooking up with a few guys she just knew. Personally I think that she'd have to hook up with a girl to know, but I guess not.
First she said she didn't want to be my friend, because it was weird that I liked her.
But then all of a sudden she wanted to be my friend, and she was extremely nice to me.
Then she stopped talking to me because she thought I was confused.
That's basically it, I know a lot of people don't like too many details.
Then again, if there aren't enough details, people don't know what I'm talking about.
Oh well.
I've heard different opinions from my friends about it. I've heard that maybe she was confused herself, and didn't know what to do in that situation.
I've heard that maybe she was a little attracted to me, otherwise she would've just said "no" and never talked to me again.
Both make sense to me. Maybe she just felt sorry for me. But she did say that a lot of her friends told her to tell me to 'fuck off' but she didn't.
Like I said she was really nice to me at one point.
I just don't know why.
Thoughts?
There is a chance she's not attracted to you or she is but can't let her friends know she is. Her close friends may be making fun of her for wanting to" switch" sides too. If you really want to see how she feels, get her alone and see if she wants to go out on a few friend dates. Try inviting her to a sleepover. When it gets late, play a little truth or dare and make it a little risky. If she says no, she's not into you but if she agrees, you can go for more. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex with a woman.talked to my boyfriend about it hie answer was yes but when I called him into the room to come see he rubed her pussy and let her suck his dick without asking me if it was ok. I say it's cheating because I did not give him premission to do anything and it's been over a year and I still hurt behind this
If you really wanted to see what it was like to have sex with a woman, you should have done it on your own. Having him in the room naked without setting any boundries isn't his fault. He's going to do what any horny male would do, have sex with two girls. If you decide to do this again, set some real boundries, tie him to a chair to watch or don't invite him to join at all. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Should one shave their pubic hair for someone with whom they are casually sexing?
If you're not comfortable doing it, then don't do it. Maybe you could offer a compromise or meet somewhere in the middle to appease him for a while. I hope this helps and good luck.
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What can I use for masterbation?
14/f
Go to walmart or the local drugstore and buy a handheld massager. A long smooth candle is a nice substitute for a dildo. Don't use anything that's rough or could cause a tear on the inside. I hope this helps and good luck.
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My boyfriend and i have a lot of fun together. We hook up sometimes but this time I want him to think I'm ULTRA sexy. I want to do something different that will turn him on INSANELY. any ideas on what could turn men on? Is there a certain way to touch his penis? Is there a certain thing I should do/dress? Any ideas!? I will try all your guys' ideas and i will rate the one that works the best a FIVE:)
Wear a dress with nothing on underneath. Go out for a little dinner and let him play with you under the table. Find a secluded spot to park before the date. Have him drive there after dinner, pull out his penis while he's driving and play with it a little. Tell him where to park, get out of the car and have sex on the hood. I hope this helps and good luck.
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im going to try to shorten it but okay i just lost ma v card on ma fiftheen birthday and its was wit a guy i loved it but its like i have a thing for staring at females ass and stuff and i be wanna to eat them out and stuff but i neva asked or tried it does this makes me gay i mean i love dick but im obessed with ass and breast wow
I had my first sexual experience with a girl at 14 but didn't lose my virginity until I was 16. I wouldn't worry about putting a label on yourself until you get a lot older and really know what you want out of life. It's totally normal to want to experiment with a girl and you shouldn't deny yourself the chance to try it. If there's a girl you're really attracted to and think she may be willing to fool around, invite her over for a sleepover and play a little truth or dare and see what happens. I hope this helps and good luck.
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im talking to a guy who is 21 and im 17. i really like him and he says he really likes me. but i heard the only reason he is talking to me for sex. my friend asked him and he said no. what should i do. should i keep talking to him or not. im still a virgin and he isnt.
Most 21 year old boys only want someone they can hook up with. Time to steer clear of this one, even though it seems really cool to be with an older boy. But until you find someone you really care about to lose your virginity to, stay clear of those type of boys. I hope this helps and good luck.
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months and were nearly 16, and he wants to do sexual stuff, but i feel that im not ready. i do want him to poke me and eat me out and stuff, but i feel embarrassed. what should i do?
He's a typical horny boy and he'll try anything to get sex. If you really want to keep him around but keep your virginity, try giving him a hand job. He'll get an orgasm without you giving him sex. Most guys are happy when they don't have to do things on their own. If he's not happy with that, you may need to find a new boyfriend. I hope this helps and good luck.
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i was wondering if it is ok to leave my dildo in my vagina for a long time ? like would it hurt me if i left it in there while i slept? i just like having it in there it is about 2inches wide at the most....thanks for the help!
I think the only way possible would be if you put it inside and put your underwear on. I had a dildo inside me when I masturbated once and after I had a huge orgasm, I passed out w/o taking it out. When I woke a few hours later, it was on the bed. As much as a normal person turns in their sleep, I'm sure it would work it's way out. If you made sure it was very clean and try using hand sanitizer before putting it in, you could try it for 1 night. I hope this helps and good luck
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im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m
My boyfriend took my virginity roughly 2 weeks ago, and since then we have been sharing whilst cuddling one night things we would like to try/different places we could go/ what turns us on. he mentioned that it would be a huge turn on for him for us to have sex with the lights on. Because it would be really romantic to be able to stare into each others eyes, and he would be able to see everything.
however im very very insecure with my body, and thats why i like having sex in the dark, because i dont have to worry about what i look like. Although he told me he's already seen my 'problem areas' he says i have nothing to worry about and that he loves my body. but im very well aware that im overweight. especially compared to his previous girlfriends. id love to be intimate with him with the lights on purely for the romance of it all... but im to caught up and worried about my body.
is there any tips or anything to help me 'hide' the flaws of my body in the light?
id really love to do this for him, even though im insecure
I think all guys love having the lights on at some point in the relationship. I would try starting with a nightlight, the tv or some candles. After a few times of you feeling comfortable with that, you can move on to the lamp on the nightstand. Then before you know it, you'll be having sex during the day in the middle of the living room...lol. I hope this helps and good luck.
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