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I heard he is only talking to me so he can get sex, but he says he isn't! what should i do?
im talking to a guy who is 21 and im 17. i really like him and he says he really likes me. but i heard the only reason he is talking to me for sex. my friend asked him and he said no. what should i do. should i keep talking to him or not. im still a virgin and he isnt.
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How did you hear that? You can never know for sure, so I'd give this guy a go. Tell him that you don't jump into things and you like to take things slow. If he is really just in it for the sex, I highly doubt that he would be willing to spend the time to slowly develop a relationship with you. And if he does..then good for you because it means he's really into you :-) Good luck!
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This guy is 21, The chances of him wanting to get in your pants are way over the 50-50 mark. If you feel he is using you then curb stomp his ass, No women deserves to be taking advantage of like that.
Also, This guy is a few years older than you. You're best bet is to find someone your own age and not some pig that wants a piece of ass and yes, He is looking for ass.
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Well first off your age difference is exactly at the mark or 5 years. Since you are not an adult yet and he is you shouldnot be having sex with him at least until you are 18 because you are a minor and he could be charged with a crime. If you really like him I would keep talking to him. Don't believe everything you hear. It's true that some guys are only interested in sex but not all guys are. If however he does start asking you for sex, I mean its your choice but I would say no. If said no then you would know by his reaction if he's interested in you for you or just the sex. Take the time to get to know more about each other first. Monitor how he treats you, if he shows you off to his friends, he buys you things just because, he treats you special. I would also wait to have sex with him until at least you are 18 if you chose to have sex, trust me its easier when you are an adult. Also I would wait for criminal reasons too because the age of consent for sex is veries in different countries and states most is 16 but some are 18 or other so i would check your state/country
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Most 21 year old boys only want someone they can hook up with. Time to steer clear of this one, even though it seems really cool to be with an older boy. But until you find someone you really care about to lose your virginity to, stay clear of those type of boys. I hope this helps and good luck.
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At this point its illegal and charges can be pressed against him considering your still under 18. Go find a boyfriend your own age IMO. Yeah hes most likely trying to get in your pants.
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