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"What was she thinking?" Continued.
Hello. I'd like to thank you for your advice/reply on my question before. But you see, I can't talk to her about it or do the sleepover thing. She graduated early, so she's gone now. I mean, I don't think she's going to move anywhere until she turns eighteen, which is in December.
Anyways, she blocked me on Facebook. But that was because I didn't know how to leave her alone. I was so "lovestruck" from actually being her friend that I didn't realize I was hurting her. I've been thinking about just sending her a normal email. Not now, but maybe in a few months or so. I don't want to do it right away. I haven't talked to her in eight months, but I still feel like I should wait. And I'm not really stuck on trying to get her to change her mind, or to be with me, because like I said, I'm not sure if she'd like that. Basically I just want to apologize for everything that happened and for hurting her and just go from there. You know what I mean? And I just don't know what to say to her about it or how to word it. I'm scared that if I say one wrong thing, I'll ruin it for GOOD good.
Thoughts?
(in case you don't remember from before):
basically I'm a girl that liked a girl.
She told me that she wondered for EVER if she was straight or not, but after hooking up with a few guys she just knew. Personally I think that she'd have to hook up with a girl to know, but I guess not.
First she said she didn't want to be my friend, because it was weird that I liked her.
But then all of a sudden she wanted to be my friend, and she was extremely nice to me.
Then she stopped talking to me because she thought I was confused.
That's basically it, I know a lot of people don't like too many details.
Then again, if there aren't enough details, people don't know what I'm talking about.
Oh well.
I've heard different opinions from my friends about it. I've heard that maybe she was confused herself, and didn't know what to do in that situation.
I've heard that maybe she was a little attracted to me, otherwise she would've just said "no" and never talked to me again.
Both make sense to me. Maybe she just felt sorry for me. But she did say that a lot of her friends told her to tell me to 'fuck off' but she didn't.
Like I said she was really nice to me at one point.
I just don't know why.
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Wow..it's going to be hard since you haven't spoke to her in 8 months. You can ask her if she'd like to have coffee, lunch or some other daytime activity. Maybe ask her help to shop for school clothes. Something where there's other people around and she doesn't have to worry about being alone with you. Tell her there's no strings attached and you'd really enjoy talking with her and just some casual hanging out. If she doesn't respond right away don't worry about it. Wait a few weeks and tell her you understand her concerns about your previous actions and if she wouldn't mind, you'd like to get her a birthday present. If you need anything else, you can send me an e-mail directly to julie19751975@yahoo.com
I hope this helps and good luck.
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