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should i tell him
okay i found out that this guy i've been sleeping with has been sleeping with this other girl who is married. she has just recently had a baby and told me last night - i'm the only one that knows other than the guy we've been sleeping with - that the baby could be this guys, her husbands or her mothers partner. thing is, i know the husband, well i know him to talk to but not really that well; should i tell him that his wifes a slut and the kid might not be his?(in a nicer way obviously)
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This is actually not your business and you should let her do the talking.
YOu should give her the ultimatum that either she tells him or you will.
You should not be responsible for breaking up her marriage. Let her tell him.
If she doesn't do it in a set time frame, let her know that you are going to tell him.'
He deserves to know, but only if she's not woman enough to confess her wrong.
And loose the guy you've been sleeping with, he sounds like a scum bag. Sleeping with a married woman and not using protection. I think you deserve better than him.
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Send him an anonymous text that tells him of your concerns. Give him the first names of the 2 guys, so he can confront his wife if he chooses.
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I hope this helps and good luck.
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There's a lot of Springer-esque stuff going on here. I'll have to make sure I've got this straight before I can answer.
If I understand right, the woman who's having a baby has a husband plus two other sex partners, one of whom is also having sex with you, and the other of which is seeing the woman's mother. And she must be reasonably good friends with you, or she wouldn't have told you about the baby.
I think the best thing you could possibly do would be to get far, far away from this crazy situation and never look back. You should definitely stop seeing this guy who's having sex with your married friend. She's obviously having unprotected sex with him and others, or she wouldn't have three possible fathers for her baby. That puts him at risk for STDs - which in turn puts you at risk.
Here's what will happen if you tell the husband about it: He either knows already, or he will deny it and get angry with you for making up vicious lies about his wife. So it won't really do any good. If you really feel that he needs to know about this, then you will need to present him with actual evidence. Probably the easiest way that you could do that would be to give him information which will allow him to catch his wife in the act. Of course, that means you're probably going to lose that friendship - but to be honest, she doesn't sound like the kind of person I'd want to be friends with, so that's probably not a big loss.
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