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i shaved my eye brows and the top right corener has no hair and my left does what do i do
you can fill it in a little bit with eyeliner the same color as your eyebrow, but don't put too much or it will look really fake. that's about all you can do until it grows back. good luck!
My fiance mention, for like the third time, that he would like to try new things in the bedroom. His main interest seems to be on a threesome, which is something that he knows I have done in the past. The thing is, I don't want to share him (that's why I commited to him, because before him I only had friends with benefits) and I've told him how I feel. Knowing that he wants a threesome makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him, and like he doesn't really want ME. Am I overracting? I do understand that he has only been with me, maybe he wants to experience someone else... or experience the things that I did before meeting him. I really would like a possible explanation on why he would ask for something that he knows bothers me to even think about.
tell him you'll have a threesome with another guy.. see how he reacts to that one! haha
but really, just tell him how you feel. i doubt he would want to share you with another guy so why would you want to share him with another girl?
15 female
I dont really get dating. I get hit occasionally, and I never act on it because i think going out is basically friends with benifits. I never had a real boyfriend. I just don't get why do people want them other than the obvious.I do see people that I would surely like. but what do I say " hi I'm blah blah in you were looking really cute so I just wanted to say hi". That just sounds like a pick up line. If anyone can just explain to me what it is, it will surely help. Thanks
at your age, relationships usually start as friendships. maybe there's a guy you are really good friends with that you love spending time with but you also think he's really cute and might have a romantic interest in him. spending more time together and maybe even dating him can help you figure this out!
Alright well this guy ask me to come over, and im 13, and then when i got there we went to his room , and layed down were not goin out , and were watching grudge. then he turned me over and we started to make out, he started to feel me up over clothes, then under my bra, he also fingerd me. Were still not dating, did he use me? he also wants to hang again should i ? HELP ME
you're only 13, so you might wanna slow it down a little. do you like this guy? do you even want to do these things with him? because if both answers are no, then you probably shouldn't hang out with him again.
So I went shopping at bloomingdales the other day and I got a new bloomingdales personal shopper. My old one got transfered off to a different store and as sad as I was, my new one is TOTALLY freaking gorgeous, delicious, and BLAH. I was actually taken aback by his handsomeness. Oh god, I sound like a such a creeper! But anyways, so he was totally helpful and super friendly with me and I ended up picking out a great dress! He made lots of small talk with me (asking me questions, etc) and smiling at me... so as he's checking out my dress... he gives me his PERSONAL phone number! As in his CELL PHONE number!!! He said that if I needed anything, I should call him. I don't know if he was suggesting that he likes me but I'm definitely into him! I'm tempted to call him and ask him to this party I'm going to but the thing is... he's fresh out of college and I'm just starting college. What do you think I should do? Is he too old for me?
he could have just been trying to be really helpful! you might also want to keep in mind that he might be gay.. (not to stereotype but a lot of men who work in the fashion industry are). i would wait until you've talked to him in person again to decide if you should make a move or not.
I'm 17 and a female. I went to the mall today and I am hanging with some of my friends. This guy shows up and I didn't know who he was but he was ne of my friends friends. So I'm hanging out with him. And I find out that hes a really cool person. So i start talking to him and start to flirt with him and he flirts back. He is 19 and hes really cute and sweet. Not to mention he does have a sense of humor. But i dont know if he likes me too or not. and im afraid to really try to do anything with him because i am afraid of what he might do. I dont want to be dissapointed. What should I do? This is the first time asking for help with a guy. I am so confused right now..
you just met him so you probably wanna take this slow. ask your friend if you guys can all hang with him again. that way you'll be in a group setting so you'll feel comfortable but you can also flirt with him a lot. make sure you get his phone number so he knows you're interested in him! hopefully if things go well you guys will end up hanging out alone
My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months now,and she wants me to take her virginity.I want to do it but i keep telling myself to wait till im about 17.....but on the other hand i don't want to get drunk at a party sometime and lose my virginity the wrong way.What should i do?
if you're having doubts, i would wait. sex is a bigger deal than a lot of teenagers make it. why does your girlfriend want you to take her virginity? you guys are young, it might ruin your relationship. personally, i think 15 is too young for sex. i would wait until you're comfortable or until you've been going out at least a year!
20/f, do not laugh at me, haha..
I've started hanging out with this guy that I'm really really starting to like. It's been a long time since I've gotten butterflies like this, and I've had them ever since I met this boy. I'm pretty sure he likes me too, because we openly flirt, but we've only hung out once before and that was with mutual friends. We're both SUPER shy.
We're hanging out at his house alone Friday night and I'm really nervous. We're gonna watch movies and stuff and through texts we've been flirting and "joking" about us cuddling and holding hands.
Basically, and excuse me for being such a loser, I need to know how to naturally make flirty physical contact.. like how do I put my head on his shoulder while still kinda being cute and subtle? I don't want to sit far away from him like middle schoolers do. Any other tips and advice for movie date night you can offer??? I haven't dated in over a year. Help! Thanks in advance, advicenators.
hopefully he will make the first move, since he is the guy, but if he doesn't then just make sure you sit down right next to him on the couch. when you talk or flirt with him put your hand on his leg or shoulder to show him that you want physical contact. you could always watch a scary movie and then it won't be weird at all if you grab his hand!
so, i had the typical situation go down ( i tend to rant, so i'm trying to keep this short ) - he broke up with me and it's been a couple of days now and i've been thinking about it and i've realized basically why i think he broke up with me ( it was more me and personal issues i was having with myself, and i let it effect my relationship. ) but i think it's one of those things that now that i've realized it i can fix it. it took him leaving me to give me a real wake up call about it and now i would love to have another chance and see if i can make it work this time. when we were on the phone, it was more so me just quietly tearing up and him talking cause i wasn't really even sure what to say. i didn't want to sit there and defend myself and beg cause that just seemed stupid so all i really said was,"i don't know what to say, really. i mean i want to stay together, but if that's how you feel, i can't really change that." and then after some more tears and talking, i just let him get off the phone. now as lame as this sounds, i've been googling up tips and adivce online and alot of people said that was a good thing to do, so i'm glad on that. but here's where i'm nervous - his birthday is coming up soon, and i thought it might be a good thing to do ( to maybe make him think of me a little ) to just send a little casual "happy birthday" text his way. some sites though said that i should give it time and not say anything because by doing that it will make him curious and want to see what i'm up to and call me possibly. but other sites said that this might not work, me not contacting him might just have him think that i'm totally fine without him and that we can both move on, which i do NOT want to happen. and i mean on the phone he said it wasn't easy for him at all and i THOUGHT i heard some sniffling coming from his end ( but i put the possilbility in my mind that it could've just been the sound of him walking or something ) so i feel like there's still a chance there, i'm just not sure how to go exactly about doing it - i'm scared i'm going to make the wrong move and completley ruin all my chances.
i'm just asking for people's guys AND girls opinions on this. do you think i should text him? if you were a guy, would that make you not miss me, persay, but you know what i mean? and then what do you think i should do from there? let him be the next to contact me after or..?
i just need advice so bad. i'm nervous cause it's only a couple more days till his birthday and i'm just not sure what to do. i hope someone answers this question by then, i'd REALLY appreciate it.
hmm this is a hard situation. you want to 'play hard to get' and seem like you're doing fine without him, but in reality you're not. i think that since it is his birthday, the polite thing to do would just to send a 'happy birthday' text his way. but don't say anything more than that. don't add 'have a great day' etc. just the bare minimum polite text to let him know that you still want to be aquaintances. i would see where it goes from there. if he texts you back and is curious about what you've been up to, then that's a good first step to talking to him again. but if he does text you back, act uninterested and tell him you've been really busy with a bunch of stuff. even make things up if necessary.. but nothing that's too far of a stretch. just let him know that you've been getting along fine without him. if he doesn't answer, don't try texting him again. wait for him to realize that he misses you in his life. and if that doesn't ever happen, then he's not the right guy for you anyways. because really... do you want to be with a guy who doesn't care about you as much as you care about him? try to improve the things within yourself that were causing you trouble in your relationship. if you really want him back then try to hang out with him in a group of friends or something casual and then either flirt with other guys to make him jealous and show him what he's missing OR act how you know he wanted you to act in your relationship. i obviously don't know him so i don't know which he will respond better to. good luck! :)
Can a relationship work out if both people really love each other and are willing to put in a lot of effort to make it last EVEN IF the guy's friends don't really like the girl? Or will it be too problematic?
It's okay if you honestly don't think it can last, I won't get upset, I just wanna know before I get all too invested.
Thank you!
yes it's possible. as long as the guy is willing to ignore his friend's opinions and follow his heart! it's always worth a try. you could also try fixing whatever problems you have with his friends. but if they were good friends to him they would see how happy he is with you and want what's best for him. so i say: go for it! :)
So i've liked a guy for about a year now and we've hung out a few times and stuff. well, my friends went to semi and i didn't (prior engagements) and one of my friends danced with him (she knows i like him). Then they started texting all the time and he asked her to prom and she's going!
I feel so hurt and embarassed and ugly and i really dont know what to do. she'll probably ask me to go dress shopping and stuff with her but i think i might cry if i do.
Am i being overdramatic? Everyone is telling me that i am but i can't help it :(
what do i do?
you're not being overdramatic. that is a really mean thing to do to a friend. she knew you liked him and went for him anyways. she is not your friend. i know you probably feel stupid/jealous right now but you shouldn't. just talk to your friend about how you're feeling. chances are she's not going to change her mind and tell him no when she's already said yes, but at least she'll know how you're feeling. don't go dress shopping with her. she doesn't deserve your help. maybe find a different guy to go to prom with? good luck!
ok here he goes, there is a guy in my school that i really like, since he came to our school we were friend , not close one , but we talk to each other, one of my friend is going out with him, and we kind of stop talking me and my guy friend and i dont know what to do, because im going crazy for the guy and i have lots of butterflies in me right now , im trying to think about some other guys but i cant, and the big think that im worried now is that he is moving next year. and i think that ny guy friend doesnt like my friend too much ,,,,i dont know what to do now .help
well since your friend is going out with him, there's not much you can do without losing her friendship. if he does like you and you break up their relationship your friend will be mad. think about it: is it really worth losing a friend over a guy (especially if he is moving next year)? i would try to move on from him. it will be better for you and for your relationship with your friend. don't interfere in their relationship. i know it hurts right now, but you're young and you'll get over it. there's no reason why you can't still be friends with him though. try talking to him more or hang out in a group with your friend and guy friend!
Let's say on the date,the guy seems VERY interested and talks to me later that night after the date.
He hasn't called me or texted me since then.
That was Saturday night and it's now monday night without a call or text.I would be fine with texting him or calling him,except for I had the last word ..and I don't like to seem obsessed.
I was thinking about calling him Friday to see if he wants to hangout again ,if he doesn't talk to me before then.
Yes or no?
a lot of guys just suck at communication. just text him on friday and see what he's up to. don't ask him to hang out though. see if he asks you. that's how you'll know if he wants to see you again :) good luck!
I was just wondering why people ask questions about their boyfriends and other innapropriate things that no one needs to be talking about. Doesn't anyone agree with me?
no, this is a good place to ask these types of questions. this website is a place where people can deal with their problems by asking others for advice without having to give their names. it's anonymous. so they don't feel as stupid asking questions =) IT'S A GOOD THING. trust me.
what exactly is a "rough patch" in a relationship?
a 'rough patch' is a period of time where you fight a lot. basically you just don't get along for awhile.
usually a relationship is going pretty well and then you hit a 'rough patch'. it's something you usually get over and are able to move on to the better things in your relationship =)
My ex and I broke up thursday 3/5 that night.. He had been talking to someone with a strange number. first told me he didnt know who it was then it was an old buddy well i found out it was a girl. he had keep asking me if i worked sunday what time was i planning on coming home for lunch etc. well i started having a gut feeling looked at his phone cut him cheating on me. and i left him the next day. I really loved this guy. i had to work the night i left. started crying at work.. i guy i talked to way before i meet my ex we started talking again.. I had strong feelings for him. the only thing we werent sure about was age. but we are okay with it. even when i dated my ex i still though about him. and i had to stop talking to him when i dated my ex (he was controling) last few nights i have been going to my friends watching movies holding each other and he gave me a back massage and i kissed him them turned into making out and then more. i dont feel bad about it.. i loved it and has made me like my friend alot lot more. and i havent been thinking about my ex.. is it wrong?? is it to soon for me?? how do you know... also i have a two year old who was attached to my ex. hes a little confussed on why we left.
i don't think that's wrong. it's good that you're getting over it fast. i think you may just be replacing your ex with this new guy though. like he's just filling your ex's place. which isn't really a good thing, but for now if it's making you feel better then it's fine. just make sure that this new guy is one that you want to be with. tell your 2 year old that people get in fights sometimes and they decide they don't want to live together anymore. just tell him that you and your ex are still friends, you just aren't the kind of friends that live together. just think about this: if you didn't have this new guy would you feel bad about your ex? like would you still be thinking about him? if the answer is yes, you might want to reconsider your situation. i also think you should have a talk with your ex. confront him about his cheating and ask him to explain himself. good luck =)
I love my boyfriend and I've known him just about the majority of my whole life and I'm happy we are together BUT it's not enough. We barely spend anytime together except school. And we only have one out of eight classes together. I have tried telling him that it bothers me that we only spend a little bit of time together but it's like it goes in on ear and out the other. To be honest I feel unwanted and kind of unappreciated. I'm a damn good girlfriend. And lately the whole lack of quality time I've been getting is starting to irritate me to the point where I'm ready to break up with him. And yet I don't want to because I care about him but I think I deserve more. I wish I would get more from him but I'm not. Either I get it from or I'll get else where. Idk what to do...help please. I'm kinda scatter brained right now. I don't want to make a mistake and regret later.
well, it sounds like you need to discuss this with him. tell him how you're feeling. say that you're unhappy with the current situation and unless it changes you don't think that you guys can continue going out. make sure you talk it out with him before you break up with him. if it seems like he is going to improve, then give him a chance. if he doesn't change, then dump him. you deserve a guy who wants to put just as much effort into the relationship as you do. you could also try calling him and asking him to come over or something so you can spend more time together? is he not hanging out with you more because he's busy? or because he just isn't willing to make the time for you? if he's just busy with sports or whatever then you should probably cut him some slack. but if he sits at home doing nothing after school or on the weekends, but still doesn't make an effort to hang out with you.. then things need to change! good luck girl =)
I met this really nice guy (lets call him warren) almost 5 days ago. We met at a bowling alley and I actually kinda liked his friend (Luke)- however when I found out that I was 4 years older than Luke, I knew that wouldnt ever happen because it would be illegal because he was 14 and im 18... so thats a negative. Well, Warren, Luke's friend, ended up letting me stay at his house for the night because it was too late for me to get back to my house. Warren hit on me, and then we started kissing, and well, one thing led to another. THEN, after that happened we were just talking and I found out he is my best friends cousin. I told her about me and warren hanging out and when i did she was like "Please tell me you arent messing with him." I told her i wasnt, but that i was becoming pretty close to him (which is true). I dont know what it is about him though. We are complete opposites. Im more of a voluptous girl, while he is skinny, im in high school, he is graduated, he is country, and I am proper. However the connection we have is hard to ignore; physically and emotionally. He said to me, "I bet you $100.00 that you will fall in love with me." and of course I denied it. I cant tell if by saying that he is wanting to start dating me or not. But based on the situation do you think that I should pursue the relationship or let it diminish? I just wanted an honest opinion.
madison
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i would give it a shot. there's no harm in trying it out! you can just see how it goes. sometimes opposites can attract. it doesn't really matter how different you are, as long as you have the physical/emotional connection you say you have. i'm guessing that him saying ' i bet you $100 you will fall in love with me' means that he probably wants to date you. and it probably also means that he can see himself falling in love with you too =) anyways, pursue the relationship, see how it goes. if you start going out and you decide he's not the right guy for you, you can always break up with him and move on. it's not like you're gonna get stuck with him! good luck =)
okay, well there's this guy.
we went out for four days.
i wasn't sure about going out with him, he asked me out the night we met.
at first i was like uhm i don't know really because i didn't know him very well.
my friend kept encouraging me to go out with him, and kept telling me how much money he has. . so i gave in. . .
first i said have no expctations, i don't know you very well. . .
i tryed to make it work. . . and by doing that i really led him on. . . by saying things he said to me, but i didnt feel the same in return.
we broke up tonight. . he went to my game and brought me flowers. . $50 flowers. and my favorite candy.
i didn't react the way i he wanted. . . i felt guity and didn't want to keep leading him on because i really felt the need not to proceed with being with him. . . because truely inside, i don't like him back.
i suck at relationships. . i flirt with every guy i meet.
i just don't like this guy. . . i hate it when he touches me, he's too clingy, he makes me feel weird.. icky weird, he gets easily upset, and has a bad atitude, i am not attracted to him at all, and we have no chemistry.
so i ended it.
now i feel bad because hes upset and he went all out and got me flowers and candy. . .
that was really sweet of him, and he is a really sweet guy, i didn't want to hurt him. i gave him a chance because he was so generous and chiverous.
he told me we can still be friends if we went out and it didnt work out, but he's really sensitive and i don't think he meant it.
now i just need help with what to say to him.
i didn't give him a really good excuse, and i didn't tell him the entire truth.
i told him we were movng to fast. . .
i don't know what else to say, i want to stay friends and i don't want him to feel bad.
i think you just need to tell him that you feel like you dont know him well enough yet. its understandable. the last guy i went out with i felt like i didnt know well enough, so i broke up with him. (even though we had been friends for like 3 months). its a good reason, and hopefully he will understand and try to be just friends with you.
I am 17 years old and I've never had any type of serious relationship. I met this amazing guy few days ago and we hung out twice. Last night he came and picked me up where we went to his house, watched a movie, cuddled, kissed...etc
It was great! I really think i am starting to like this guy. But now what? should i call him? wait for him to call me? ahh im nervous.
i like to wait until the guy calls me.. but every girl is different i guess. the only problem is that guys are dumb and sometimes they dont call right away. it doesnt mean that they dont like you, a lot of guys just suck with communication. it depends on the guy i guess. if you dont hear from him within a few days to a week then maybe you should call him and just casually talk and see if he wants to hang out again? good luck!