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I met a guy today. I kinda like him but idk what to do...
I'm 17 and a female. I went to the mall today and I am hanging with some of my friends. This guy shows up and I didn't know who he was but he was ne of my friends friends. So I'm hanging out with him. And I find out that hes a really cool person. So i start talking to him and start to flirt with him and he flirts back. He is 19 and hes really cute and sweet. Not to mention he does have a sense of humor. But i dont know if he likes me too or not. and im afraid to really try to do anything with him because i am afraid of what he might do. I dont want to be dissapointed. What should I do? This is the first time asking for help with a guy. I am so confused right now..
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If he seems nice, but if you are worried, then get to know him a bit more. Find out what his interests are and spend some time with him. The only way you will know if he likes you, is if you ask him or flirt with him in person and see if he reacts positively.
Texting doesn't really show you what feelings he is expressing towards you, it really is a bunch of words on a screen getting figured out by your imagination. Do not judge him; find out what he is really like by spending time with him (try gaining some alone time to have private convos), go to a movie together, go for a walk with him, and learn how he would treat a potential girlfriend. If he is respectful, loving, and sincere with you in person, he is likely a good boyfriend. Do continue to text him too. If you are not the only one starting convos, it shows he is interested.
You already say he is sweet and funny, so go for it. It sounds as if he is a cute gentleman. If you do not feel comfortable about something when you are with him, let him know. He will show his true colors by reacting to how you show your feelings. If you like a guy, do not let him slip through your fingers! <3
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you just met him so you probably wanna take this slow. ask your friend if you guys can all hang with him again. that way you'll be in a group setting so you'll feel comfortable but you can also flirt with him a lot. make sure you get his phone number so he knows you're interested in him! hopefully if things go well you guys will end up hanging out alone
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