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Friend going to prom with my crush
So i've liked a guy for about a year now and we've hung out a few times and stuff. well, my friends went to semi and i didn't (prior engagements) and one of my friends danced with him (she knows i like him). Then they started texting all the time and he asked her to prom and she's going!
I feel so hurt and embarassed and ugly and i really dont know what to do. she'll probably ask me to go dress shopping and stuff with her but i think i might cry if i do.
Am i being overdramatic? Everyone is telling me that i am but i can't help it :(
what do i do?
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Just because you like him doesn't mean that he's off-limits. I mean, sure, it's kind of bitchy for girls to do that to each other, but it's not like you two were going out or something. Did he like you? If he didn't, he's not exclusively "yours."
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Hun I know that it hurts but you do not need a guy to have fun at Prom go with your friends or ask someone your strong and independent. And if that friend knew you liked him then she is probaly not a friend at all. idk what you look like but sweety your beautiful and just because your (friend) is going to Prom with your crush does not mean your aren't beautiful. he is not the last guy in the world TRUST ME on this one you will find your match and its okayy that its not him. I hope my advice eezed your pain for a minute. But just remember when you go to sleep tonight that your BEAUTIFUL! GOOD LUCK!
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My best friend and I were close at the beginning of high school! There was this guy in my class I liked a lot and I would talk to her about it all the time. She knew I really liked him a lot...I would hang out with him and everything. One day we all end up hanging out and the two of them end up hitting it off. I was heartbroken...I didn't say anything but I use to get mad at her a lot because I felt as though she back-stabbed me. I would talk to your friend and let her know how you feel. In terms of her going with him to prom you really can't do much...just let them go together...in terms of a relationship thats going to be a bit hard. Talk to her about it, if you girls are friends then she should be understanding...she may not be she maybe a little hurt but she did know you liked him. As I always say to these questions don't let a man get in between a friendship EVER! To this day...she is still my best friend...because fortunately we worked things out! :) Good luck!!
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you're not being overdramatic. that is a really mean thing to do to a friend. she knew you liked him and went for him anyways. she is not your friend. i know you probably feel stupid/jealous right now but you shouldn't. just talk to your friend about how you're feeling. chances are she's not going to change her mind and tell him no when she's already said yes, but at least she'll know how you're feeling. don't go dress shopping with her. she doesn't deserve your help. maybe find a different guy to go to prom with? good luck!
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oh my god sorry to hear that
try to forget your friend, shes not a really friens , if she knows that you like that guy she shouldnt go for that guy too , thast not a good away to help you
just calm down, and try to talk with someone close to you, go cacth a movie or something, its going to help you
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Dancing with him is one thing. He may have ended up liking her but that didn't mean she should have reciprocated that feeling. She should have kept texting to a minimum and said no to going to prom with him. She was not very respectful to you and you are not overreacting. It's not a good idea to put yourself in a position where your emotions are compromised so dress shopping with her is out of the question. You can not help the way you feel and never let others make you feel like your emotions are out of line. They are there with good reason. Really think about whether she is going to be beneficial in your life. Ponder what you do and do not like about your friendship with her. Maybe she's not such a great friend afterall.
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I don't think you're being overdramatic at all. She knew you liked him, and in my opinion, it's extremely wrong of her to do this to you. If she asks you to go dress shopping with her, say no. If she asks why, tell her you're hurt because she knew you liked him. I could be overdramatic, too, but I feel this is extremely wrong. She wouldn't like it if you did that stuff to her. If I were you, I'd invest in a better friend.
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