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moving way too fast.
okay, well there's this guy.
we went out for four days.
i wasn't sure about going out with him, he asked me out the night we met.
at first i was like uhm i don't know really because i didn't know him very well.
my friend kept encouraging me to go out with him, and kept telling me how much money he has. . so i gave in. . .
first i said have no expctations, i don't know you very well. . .
i tryed to make it work. . . and by doing that i really led him on. . . by saying things he said to me, but i didnt feel the same in return.
we broke up tonight. . he went to my game and brought me flowers. . $50 flowers. and my favorite candy.
i didn't react the way i he wanted. . . i felt guity and didn't want to keep leading him on because i really felt the need not to proceed with being with him. . . because truely inside, i don't like him back.
i suck at relationships. . i flirt with every guy i meet.
i just don't like this guy. . . i hate it when he touches me, he's too clingy, he makes me feel weird.. icky weird, he gets easily upset, and has a bad atitude, i am not attracted to him at all, and we have no chemistry.
so i ended it.
now i feel bad because hes upset and he went all out and got me flowers and candy. . .
that was really sweet of him, and he is a really sweet guy, i didn't want to hurt him. i gave him a chance because he was so generous and chiverous.
he told me we can still be friends if we went out and it didnt work out, but he's really sensitive and i don't think he meant it.
now i just need help with what to say to him.
i didn't give him a really good excuse, and i didn't tell him the entire truth.
i told him we were movng to fast. . .
i don't know what else to say, i want to stay friends and i don't want him to feel bad.
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i think you just need to tell him that you feel like you dont know him well enough yet. its understandable. the last guy i went out with i felt like i didnt know well enough, so i broke up with him. (even though we had been friends for like 3 months). its a good reason, and hopefully he will understand and try to be just friends with you.
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Don't feel bad. Do you know what the term is for girls who provide companionship to men they aren't interested in for money and gifts??
(Insert Jeopardy Song Here)
And the final answer is....
Prostitutes!!!
You made the right decision. The best way to convey the message to him would be to play the Beatles song "Can't Buy me Love" while you walk off slowly into the sunset. If you don't get it, look up the lyrics.
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