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Ok.. i'm going out with a guy and he smokes ..

i'm 14 and he is 15. do you think thats bad?

i rate high for good answers.

Honestly, its a personal decision for him to make, no its not legal, nor is it healthy, but like I said thats his personal descision. I personally don't think its bad because its his choice, and if i said it was bad I'd be a hypocrit, because I smoke cigarettes too. Well email me if you need any help.. x_pinupdoll_x@yahoo.com Good Luck!

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I think im in love with my ex. everytime i see him i wanna cry. I just remember all tha times we spent together and how special they were to me and i just wonder what i couldve done to keep him in my life. We've even tried to make it work again but some issuses came up. I just wanna know what i can do or say to get him back.

Sweetie your in luck, I can relate extremly with you on this one. Me and my ex dated for 3 years off and on, and now when i see him i just wanna break down. We broke up in Jan. 2004, and the only thing you can do is either tell him how you feel and see how he feels. Or you can hold it all back and just deal with it. Ive tried both and both results end up not coming out clear to me. But I would really like you to IM me or email me and we can talk more about this and maybe help each other out.

E-mail- x_pinupdoll_x@yahoo.com
AIM-NoFeAr4LyFe03
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MSN Messenger- cuteandlovableshorty@hotmail.com

I'm hoping to hear from you soon.

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Ok i had a boyfriend..but we never talked one bit..sometimes online but not a very lightening conversation. So i dumped him on feild day. Then he says he has a different girl friend on that same day. He wont tell people who..but i still kind of liked him. The only real reason i dumped him is because we didnt talk..and it was weird when we did. Do you think i made the right choice? Should i just give up on him and fall for another?

I wouldnt say fall for another, but you definatly should move on beacuase he must not have cared for you very much if he got a gf the same day you guys broke up. Because once he sees you with another guy hell get pretty jealous Im sure. Well Good Luck..

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Is it ok to tell someone you like them cause for one they're moving to another state and you might never see them again.... but i have a boyfriend and i'm like in love with him but this other guy i like is leaving and i don't know where these emotions are coming from but i can't help it what should i do
signed,
hopeless romantic

Alright, just cause you have a boyfriend doesnt mean you may not end up liking someone else..you cant control your feelings..its physically impossible you may tell yourself you dont like him and what not but that wont change the fact that you do..so what i would do is write him a letter and tell him not to read it till hes on a plane/or in the car (whichever he is taking to move) and then tell him to write back and mail it to you or something. or you can always just tell him face to face or on the phone..let me know how things work out and good luck..

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Hey me and my girlfriend just broke up she broke up with me in january a different girl dumped me and i got over her for a little while but when i started talking to her again i couldnt help but love her again i miss her so much i dont know if she likes me
what should i do should i ask her out or should i sit here and wish she would go out with me please help!?!?!?!?!

I think you should find out how she feels then if she feels the same tell her how you feel, and even ask her out if your up for it then...lemme know how it goes...

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Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what?

Well if your comfortable kissing him first then go for it! But if not just wait till the moment is right and youll know when it is...

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O.k so my freiend has feelings for me (love feelings). I 'm not sure what to do. When she told me I told her I was flattered and I was but its been really awkward trying to make conversation since. We used to mess around and call each other "sexy," so I assume she got the wrong idea. The other day she sarted feeling me up and iI told her it was wrong and Iw asn't into girls as much as she is. I don't know what to say or do to make her realise I don't fancy her. Any advice,I rate a five for any good advice.
p.s I'm a 16 year old girl. Don't reply to this if your going to give me shit about being shallow, cause I don't care what you think!
Thanxs. xox

Just sit her down and explain to her that your not into that kinda stuff. Trust me I know your position alotta my friends are Bi-Sexual and just they are always all over me and im like NOOOOO! well IM me if you need more help...buh bye

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well there is this guy and i like him a lot and he knida flirts with me but i dont know if he is just plaing or flirting . he does stuff like slap my butt(a lot) and he is really sweet. at the beginning of the year me, him, and some other people were playing truth or dare and we got dared to kiss. oh ya and at the beginning orf the year(before truth or dare) i asked him out but he said ne after a lot of thought like a whole days worth. does he like me or is he just playing?. i rate 5s. please help me. 14 f

Well theres a possibility he likes you and just has that kinda mysterious way of showing it, you should just ask him that'd be the best thing to do...Lemme know how it goes...

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Okay so me and this kid have been going on again off again. We always end up breaking up beacause he obviously cant control his hormones,and i always end up taking him back. Well weve been split up for a while now and he wants to start dateing again. I know what could happen but i still like him. what should i do?

it all depends on if you have feelings for him or care about him and if ou do then do what your heart tells you, well thats what you should do anyway is listen to your heart

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so we are jsut friends but my mom says i cant date until im 17 or even just like go somewhere with him last night he was like how many days i was like what hes like until you turn 17 i was like 50 some hes like do you think you will still wanna go tot he movies with me by then. so does he like me or just being friendly? give me lots of advice and i rate high

I think he likes you if he is willing to wait for you to turn 17...and I think most people would agree with me there cuz any guy around that age group normally isnt like that they just date girls for the hell of it and if they wait you know you got something good so I say hold onto him, hes a keeper..let me know how it goes x0Sabina0x

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my boyfriend is pakistani and muslim. i am white and agnostic. i really care about him and he's head over heels for me but his parents wont let him do ANYTHING (were seniors in high school living w/our parents)with me (b/c of my race- wow im a victim of racism for the first time and it sucks!). he lies so much to see me but even then its not a lot. i see him at school and then occasionally after school while his parents are at work. we NEVER EVER go on real dates and it drives me nuts!!! i feel as if i deserve someone who can take me out and see me without lying or sneaking around. the situation just SUCKS. should i break up with him or just settle for seeing him barely ever? (if i broke up with him i'd still be friends with him)i really dont know what to do- i feel bad breaking it off but i'm unhappy in our current situation- its not fair to me.
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If your not happy then I say break up with him and make it clear to him that you care about him and love him but it just isnt working cuz of the situation, and if he cares about you as much as you say hell understand...let me know how it goes x0Sabina0x

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Alright there is these two guys... the first one is the one I lost my virginity to and I really care for him.. The second one I haven't done anything with him except hold hands....except when I hold his hand I can't stop thinking about my the first guy and Im not a player or a slut or anything but what should I do and do you think I still have feelings for the first guy

I think its just that your afraid to let go...thats the case with alot of girls...ya know? I mean you may think you still have feelings and Im sure you do but you shouldnt let him get in the way of maybe having some feelings for this guy u hold hands with.

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ok, here's the deal. i'm an 18 year old dude. i know it sounds silly and stupid as hell but i think i've managed to fall in love with a girl in canada. i'm from the states and we've never met in person before but i'm absolutely crazy about her. i don't know whether or not i should pursue this at all or if it's just a lost cause. i'm not even sure she feels the same, but i have my hints. i know it sounds like such a pathetic/loser scenario but i think i'm mature enough to tell that this girl isn't just any other girl. any input would be nice.

ok...IM me and Ill give u my answer cuz I dont want to type it here...

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Me and my ex bf were together a couple months but it had to go to a long distance relationshiops for awhile and he thought i hated him and then we broke up cuz we didnt talk cuz of that and now i found out he still loves me what do i do?

Im not answering my own question...lol

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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
please help!

Hun,
that does not make u lesbian...IM me sometime I have a question...

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this is kinda long but i seriously need help...my bf of 4 months now who i really love and things are going GREAT...well his ex is trying to talk to me now. she IMed me this morning and said hey you dont know me but i know derek, how are things going with him? and then we just started talking....she said he broke her heart and she loved him and he was her first kiss and all this shit. and she said he told her he loved her too. and shes like yea we hung out all summer..does he ever mention me? becuse it was a crazy summer! and shes asking me to talk to derek ( my boyfriend, her ex) and asking him to just be friends with her. because they dont talk at all now. shes really nice..but i KNOW she still has feelings for him...shes saying how she just wants to be his friend now and if i could please talk to him for her but im afraid if i do...shell try to take him away from me...what do i do about this? im getting really jealous and i told her i would talk to him abuot her and stuff..im trying not to be that jealous overprrotective girlfriend...HELP

♥ JaDe

ok I know how you feel...all my bf's that i ever have, have had exes like that...Just dont do it...Tell her that your not comfortable with them being friends...and ur not gonna do it...IM me sometime and ill help u more with that...

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I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help!

You can do it however you are comfortable...there is just one thing you absolutly can not do...and that is have his best friend or one of his friends do it...you can or one of ur friends but none of his...but if u want to do a note that works good too

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Ok, I like someone and they are a senior in high school. I know that we will never be together, but I can't help getting that funny feeling in my stomach whenever I am around them. Whenever they talk to me I feel like I am on top of the world. I don't want that feeling to go away. When I see them with someone else, I get jealous and I don't like being like that. What should I do?

There really isnt anything you can do. You cant control your feelings. The only thing you can really do is get him all alone and tell him how you feel about him and if he feels the same you guys should try dating and see how it goes and if he doesnt the only thing you can do is hope maybe hell change or move on...Hope I helped let me know who things go...

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im 14.. My ex boyfriend ( of 9 months) is now going out with this other girl who is his best friend. I still love him very much.. and im almost positive that he still has major love feelings for me (but extremely sectretly and doesnt want to show it..you can just tell). Anyways, i love him so much, but sometimes he's not the best guy for me, but i can NOT GET over him . :( .. its so confusing but plz help! what do i do?

Follow your heart...thats the best advice I can give you...Im me with anymore quetions...

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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians?

No you guys may just be bisexual...or bi-curious?

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