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MY BOYFRIENDS EX..........
this is kinda long but i seriously need help...my bf of 4 months now who i really love and things are going GREAT...well his ex is trying to talk to me now. she IMed me this morning and said hey you dont know me but i know derek, how are things going with him? and then we just started talking....she said he broke her heart and she loved him and he was her first kiss and all this shit. and she said he told her he loved her too. and shes like yea we hung out all summer..does he ever mention me? becuse it was a crazy summer! and shes asking me to talk to derek ( my boyfriend, her ex) and asking him to just be friends with her. because they dont talk at all now. shes really nice..but i KNOW she still has feelings for him...shes saying how she just wants to be his friend now and if i could please talk to him for her but im afraid if i do...shell try to take him away from me...what do i do about this? im getting really jealous and i told her i would talk to him abuot her and stuff..im trying not to be that jealous overprrotective girlfriend...HELP
♥ JaDe
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Well, its usually common for a gf/bf to be jelous when there ex likes them. Though, hopefully you can trust your boy friend enough to know that if his ex does try to take him back he wont want to go back with her! She might actually not like him and actually really might want to be friends with him. Its up to you to talk to him or not. Good Luck
~Brina~
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ok I know how you feel...all my bf's that i ever have, have had exes like that...Just dont do it...Tell her that your not comfortable with them being friends...and ur not gonna do it...IM me sometime and ill help u more with that...
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Well.. you already told her that you'd mention her to him.. Just tell him that his ex has been talking to you, asking you to tell him she wants to be friends.. Warn him that she's still got feelings for him.. If things are going great, you probably don't have a problem. Remember, people can't be "stolen" unless they want to be. Hope this helps!
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Ok, what you need to do is tell Derek what's going on. Tell him how his ex is acting, telling you to tell him stuff. Tell him that you think she still has feelings for him and wants to take him back. But I don't think you have any reason to worry. It sounds like you both care about each other very much, and I don't think he'd let his ex get in the way of that. Good luck!
Happy New Year!
♥ Erin
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Whoa, that's complicated. But if you told her you'd talk to him, then you probably should. But that's no reason for you to have to tell your bf her life story since they broke up. You could just say, "_____ told me to tell you hey" But if you really don't feel comfortable talking to him for her, (which is totally understandable bc who wants to be the messengergirl between two exes?!)then you tell her straightup. If she still doesn't understand, then that's her problem bc you're not her messenger.
~*~Sarah~*~
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I think you have the right to be a little protective because from all that you have writen I would say she is going to try take him back. She totally has some problems that she needs to work out. whew, thats for sure.
I say you should talk to him about everything that she told you and say that you don't want to lose him and you don't want to sound like a jealous over-protective girl friend but you can't help but feel a little threatened. Tell hime what you feel and be honest. Try to stay away from her, she doesn't sound stable. She could lash out at you. Block her from your messenger the next time. Don't listen to her, she is trying to make you jealous and make your relationship fail. Don't let her do that.
I hope all works out for you.
AG
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oMG!! i sooo know people like that!!just.. dont get to close to her because she could really screw thyngs up with you and him cuz no offence.. but she has more loyalty to him then you.. and if she styll loves him then she will do anythyng to get him bak.. you shuud styll be nice to her.. but dOnT trust her!
~~~~> .andie. <~~~~
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