Question Posted Thursday January 13 2005, 10:52 pm
Alright there is these two guys... the first one is the one I lost my virginity to and I really care for him.. The second one I haven't done anything with him except hold hands....except when I hold his hand I can't stop thinking about my the first guy and Im not a player or a slut or anything but what should I do and do you think I still have feelings for the first guy
BeautifulMadness answered Friday January 14 2005, 3:29 pm: You could just be thinking about the other guy because you lost your virginity to him and you think that you SHOULD be thinking about him, purely for that fact. How do you feel when you think about him? If you think that how you feel is love, and not some kind of obligation, then forget the other guy and go for the 1st one! Don't let love pass you by :)
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Karen answered Friday January 14 2005, 12:01 pm: Yup, you definitely still having feelings for the guy that you lost your virginity too. You will always remember your feelings for a guy, especially the one you lost your virginity too. Try not hanging out with the guy that you didn't do anything with because you may be leading him on and he might start liking you. How would you feel if someone did that to you? Hope I helped :)
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inlovewifnoone answered Friday January 14 2005, 1:51 am: I think its just that your afraid to let go...thats the case with alot of girls...ya know? I mean you may think you still have feelings and Im sure you do but you shouldnt let him get in the way of maybe having some feelings for this guy u hold hands with. [ inlovewifnoone's advice column | Ask inlovewifnoone A Question ]
Dom answered Friday January 14 2005, 12:26 am: well if your still thinking about the first guy while your holding hands with the second guy....then your obviously still havent gotten over the first guy. What you need to do is really think on who you really want to be with, then it will come to ya. Honestly, go with your heart, you will gain much from it. I hope i helped.
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