im 14.. My ex boyfriend ( of 9 months) is now going out with this other girl who is his best friend. I still love him very much.. and im almost positive that he still has major love feelings for me (but extremely sectretly and doesnt want to show it..you can just tell). Anyways, i love him so much, but sometimes he's not the best guy for me, but i can NOT GET over him . :( .. its so confusing but plz help! what do i do?
theblondeone989 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 1:38 pm: "but sometimes he's not the best guy for me"...right there. You just answered your own question. Try and remember why you broke up the first time, and consider the fact that that reason STILL may exist. Getting over a 9 month relationship, especially if it's one of your first serious relationships, can be difficult, but time heals a lot of things, and you will get over him. Promise, just give it time. Good luck, and feel better =) [ theblondeone989's advice column | Ask theblondeone989 A Question ]
Miss_Adriauna04 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 2:46 am: Sweetie,
Let me tell you I was/am still sorta in the same situation...Ok...I'm also 14 and I'm madly in love with my ex boyfriend of about 7 months...The other night he admitted he loves me too...But all last year he was dating his best friend off and on...I also wanted to get over him so I could just stop loving him and hurting but I gotta tell you...There is really no way to get over a love...and if he is your first love you'll never get over...Ummm...It's really hard...There really is no answer on how to get over someone...but if you want to talk more or rant or whatever you may need to do...you can email me at miss_adriaun04@yahoo.com....Also sweetie...Listen to your heart not your mind or what anyone else says...thats what I did and my heart told me to hold on and wait and he would come around sooner or later!!
xOButtErflyKiSsEsOx answered Saturday January 1 2005, 12:08 am: Stand up and stop crying and find a new guy hes moved on so should you!! I know it hurts happened many times to me but life goes on..try to get him jealous liek hes getting you jealous!!
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox)) [ xOButtErflyKiSsEsOx's advice column | Ask xOButtErflyKiSsEsOx A Question ]
FunnyBunny answered Saturday January 1 2005, 12:02 am: Your boyfriend (or ex whatever u wanna call it) has seemed to move on. Find out if he still like you by asking him or waiting it out or try to move on as well. ~Mindy~ [ FunnyBunny's advice column | Ask FunnyBunny A Question ]
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