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*HEY YALL...JESSICA HERE!WELL IM REALLY AN UPFRONT PERSON SO WHEN U ASK 4 ADVICE bEwArE!!
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*FAV SPORTS*---BASKETBALL/CHEERLEADING/FOOTBALL~*
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*EYES---BLUE~*~
*HIEGHT---I'M 5'7~*~
*STATUS*---ME N SHAWN BROKE UP...I'M TALKIN TO THIS GUY NAMED LAMAR......I REALLY LIKE HIM 2... HE IS LIKE THE SWEETEST GUY EVER.... HE TREATS ME BETTER THAN SHAWN....AND IM NOT EVEN DATIN LAMAR....~*~
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WEL YALL I'M HERE 4 N E BODY WHO NEEDS ADVICE OR JUST TALK!!! I REALLY BEEN THRU SUM SHIT IN MY LIFE!!! MY MOM IS IN JAIL N SHE IS A MAJOR CRAK HED N SO IS MY DAD...I BEEN IN JAIL/JUVI MYSELF LIKE 4 TIMES.... BEEN IN several FIGHTS N GOT JUMPED PLENTY OH TIMES N HAD MY FAIR SHARE OH ASS WOOPPINS!!! TRUST ME, WHERE I COME FROM, NIGAS N BITCHES dont PLAY!!!
YALL NEED 2 GET A GRIP... THIS SPELLING THING THAT SEEMS TO BOTHER YALL SO MUCH IS JUS ME I DO IT SO IT DOESNT TAKE AS LONG 2 WRITE THINGS.....

advice

hi i need help im not spposted 2 date untill im like 20 !! so shud i date behind my parents bac????

well i do think 20 is a BIT extreeme!!! just try to do a few lil extra thing around the house to show them that you are responsible!!! i was aloud to date ay 13 so i didnt have that problem!! but this is what i wood have done!!^^

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ok look i gave u my virginity to my current boyfriend! wen we have sex he refuses to stop until i have an orgasm! i tell him i do but im not sure if i have ever had one or not! wot does an orgasm feel like? and how do i no i've had one? PLEASE help! im desperate!

girl trust me if your askin us then you aint had one!!! you'll know when you have one!!

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I love my boyfriend sooo much! my boyfriend went to juvi last week and i absolutely HATE him! i hate him for leaving me like this! i feel so alone and lonely and i need him more then anything and hes not here! i miss him soo much and i wont b able to see him for another 3 weeks! i hate him soo much for doing this to me i just wanna slap him!

so what is your ?.... or did you just want us to know what was going on???

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I like this guy named Ben. He knows i like him b/c of my little brother. Well i volunteer with him alot. so all year i am going to be seeing him. i want to ask him out but i don't know what to do. by the way... i'm not one of those girls who waits for the guys to ask them out. too old fashioned for me.

well if you like him what is holding you back?

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There is this guy that i like and he likes me but he has a girlfriend. he is my really good friend. but he made a move on me. people tell me to just stay friends with him. i agree with those people but i dont know what i am gunna say to him..*

Help Please

-x- Bridgette -x-

well just tell him that you dont wanna risk your friendship!!

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does anyone know of any websites that you can find really cute qoutes about love and friendship? thanks

well i just always go 2 fire hot quotes!

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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Girl why are you holding back??? You totally need to like tell him you are going to the mall one day and just be like "Do you wanna meet me there?" And then if he still doesnt come then DITCH him!!!

~*$*~Jessica~*$*~

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i was in love once. with my ex bf of over a year. we broke up cause i found out he cheated on me. well its been 4 months since we broke up. and every bf ive had i compare to him and i cant let him go. we were SO close and i was so comfortable around him. well weve been hanging out lately. and i still get butterflies so much and i love being around him. we were at my house last night and he started holding my hand. and we just talked about how things used to be with us and all our little inside jokes and stuff. i dont know how to tell him i want him back. cause i do. and i know i shouldnt but everyone makes mistakes and i really love him. and my parents love him..and his parents love me..its just perfect..help..what do i tell him without sounding all weird??

well if you know how you feel and what you want(which obviusly you do) then tell the boy!! your right everybody makes mistakes but you have to also think about the fact that if you take him back now its like your like condoning the fact that he cheated on you!! ya know??

plz rate:) ~*$*~Jessica~*$*~

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ok about what age/grade do boys start to get attracted to girls and start to think more about going out or being boyfriend and girlfriend?

boys usually start to get into girls around the age of 12 or so!! Like in 7th grade!!!!

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My bestfriend is a guy, and ive known him for like 6 years and i dotn know why just all of a sudden i think im in love with him, its just the little things that he does and, i think hes the only guy that really looks into my eyes and tells me things..I mean we are best freinds so of course we tell each other everything, but he tells me like ALOT, and he seems that he likes me sometimes..he used to be like a brother to me but i kno theres no way i could or would ever go out with him..what do i do?

well if you never cood or wood go out w/ him i dont get ur problem??

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me and my boyfriend been together for pretty long now...and about four months into our relationship we started having sex...we have sex pretty much..and i was wondering is it wrong for me to like to have sex a lot...like im not a slut or anything i can go outwith it..i just like to do it..the only person i slept with was my boyfriend that i have now..i just dont want you people to think im a slut or anything..

no its not bad or anything.. and as far as people talking about you....well just blow them off..

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To give a bit of background information, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and are madly in love with eachother. I gave him my heart.. as well as my virginity and he did the same. But the past few weeks, I've been doubting our relationship. I'll be having dreams of being with ex boyfriends or just other guys, particularly this one guy named Luis. He's a very good friend of mine and a total flirt around me. For a second I thought I had feelings for him and I actually concidered breaking off my over one year relationship with the love of my life for this guy, Luis.I realized it was stupid to end something that is SO good for something that is only going to last a few months IF that much. I called my boyfriend and I was barely crying and, I should've known he would be able to tell I was because as soon as I said hi he said "What's wrong why were you crying?" (He knows the sound of my voice when I'm happy or sad and everything in between like the back of his hand). I told him what happened and I kept saying "Baby, I'm so sorry I don't want to lose you." He told me everything would be okay, but now when I talk to him he seems so distant? If that would be a word to describe it. He's in Maine right now, and I'm back home in New Jersey so I can just like go over and see him right now. I don't know what to do, he just isn't acting the same now, I didn't do ANYTHING with Luis, I'd never do that to my boyfriend. What do I do? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend anymore, I feel so guilty for even having those thoughts. Can anyone please help?

I'm 17 he's 18.

even though you didnt do anything you still obviously hurt him very badly...it will probly take him some time to just see how much you really do love and care for him.... so just give it some time... put yourself in his position...

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im 13/f
what should i do if my crush would ask me out or something, but my friends realllyy like him too?
(i have this one friend, she likes the same guy that i do. she says she loves him and everything. but she doesnt know that i've like him since like 5th grade.) i have an idea that he kinda likes me too. i hear that he talks about me to his friends, and whenever im around him he asks me for hugs. im not sure if its just playful, or actually something. im not sure how to react if something happened, and he asked me out?? nfsap idk. im really confused. any tips????
-stuckkkkk

well friends always come befor guys no matter what..... tell your friend that you have liked this guy since 5th grade and see what she says.... if he asks u put befor you talk to her then its probly not a good idea to go out w/ him... the faster you tell your friend you like him the faster you can see what will happen w/ him

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ok my bf (lets call him ed) was talking about running away. then i was talking about running away. we both have some family problems that we want to get away from. and his friend(lets call him bob)is just a huge risk taker. and one night i was talking to ed and he said that me and him should run away together:-\ and then he said bob would go with us. well, its been about a month now and we sarted talking about how ed didnt want to do it anymore because he is even more sad. and now i dont know if were going or not. i dont know what he means by he is too sad...do you think that means he wants to kill himself or something?
please help me

ummmm......yea it sounds like yall need more help than i can give you but here it goes.....
running away from the problems you have now is just gonna create more problems 4 yall... and i dont kno if he wants to kill himself... y dont you ask him...

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hey me and my boyfriend have only seen eachother once. We talk a lot but we never see eachother that much, and i really like him. All my friends say to break up with him but i really like him, i dont know what to do? I always ask him when can you hangout he says i dont know. But when my friend asks him he gives a day. We were supposed to hangout this weekend but he never called me back. He always says he loves me one day we stayed on the phone till one in the morning! Hes so sweet but i never see him. I dont know what to do anymore.
Julia xox

i just answered this ?

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hey me and my boyfriend have only seen eachother once. We talk a lot but we never see eachother that much, and i really like him. All my friends say to break up with him but i really like him, i dont know what to do? I always ask him when can you hangout he says i dont know. But when my friend asks him he gives a day. We were supposed to hangout this weekend but he never called me back. He always says he loves me one day we stayed on the phone till one in the morning! Hes so sweet but i never see him. I dont know what to do anymore.
Julia xox

well talk to him bout it... ask him why.... and think about the fact that he will give your friend a day and you nothing........

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i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months on wednesday...i told him we were taking a break and then when the time is right we would get back together. then yesterday, this guy asked me out and now we're together (we liked each other even when i was in the relationship but i wasnt going to cheat on my ex) but were keeping it low because it was definatly rushing into things. we were basically "together" for a while anyway it just wasnt offical. but anyway, today my friend is having a party at his house aand he asked my if it was ok if he invited my ex and i said sure, obviously not thinking. So both my ex and my current bf are going to be there. my bf is gonna wanna cuddle or something to watch fireworks and my ex doesnt know were together yet because were tryin to lay low. how do i prevent a big mess from become a HUGE one? please- anything will help!!

well anytime an ex sees you w/ your new guy then its gonna b a mess but you really have no choice but to jus go and deal w/ whatever happens...

p.s. you probly shoulda waited a lil while befor jumping into a new relationship...


jessica

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There is this guy I have had a crush on for about 3 years and I dont know what to do. I'm not into the idea of being 13 and having a boyfriend so I dont really want to date him. I'm not sure what to do. I freeze up whenever I pass him in the hallways and stuff, and I just don't know what to do. Please help me! I dont want it to be obvious that I liked him. It took me 2 years to actually get up the courage to tell my friends that I liked him even though I think they had a hunch. One of my friends thinks that he likes me. Oh, please help me.

girl chill out......... if u r too scared to tell him then hint to 1 of his good friends cuz trust me guys talk as much as grls.......

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Ok, I was just wondering- how do you know if a guy likes you when the only time your getting to talk to him is online. Because it's summer and you can't really see him. How would you say would be ways to figure it out?

well u cood jus ask him...




jessica

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please can someone explain to me exactly the steps to a kiss. please dont just say like "go for it", cause im feeling kinda lost and i dont want to make a fool of myself! do you just like lean in slowly, open your mouth, and close, and open and close? and what does it mean like "wrestle with your tounges"? please i need some serious advice!
thanks in advance!

well first off.... kissing isnt that hard to do... so just chill!! all u do is pretty much just masage the other persons tounge with urs... the first time i kissed i had no clue n i didnt even kno it was gonna happen... so it really just comes natural!!!!!!!!!!! good luck

---jessica

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