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im jus a girl tryin to live life, id love to help, and give advice about any subject, ummm and i think thats about it, if ya wanna know more about me ask me!!
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I like this boy in my school who used to like me. He also asked me out but i rejected him even though i liked him. Now im not sure who he likes I havnt talked to him in 3 months or more. Hes not a virgin anymore and if i do like him and we ever go out i think he will give me higher expectations and i havnt gotten anywhere near losing my virginity so i dont know what to do about talking to him more and going out with him.
dont lower your expectations for any guy!!! no matter what! sodont go loosing your virginity to someguy who who has gone farther then you. wether or not you like him. dont lower your standards. hope i helped,
~Linds
14/m,
Theres a girl in my school that i went out with last year only for a short time though. she broke up with me. now im starting to like her again because we have become more close. we talk alot online. i havent told her anything about me liking her and im scared she wouldnt like me. i doubt she would like me. wat do i do to get her to like me and try n hint i like her (without actually saying it) o and i only c her on occasion in skool. like once a day. Thnx
its this thing called flirting.......
~me~
i asked this girl out several times and her answer has been "i dont know because i dont know you that well" and so i have tried to get her to know me better and we have hung out a couple of times but "not enough" still and every time i try to do something with her so that she could get to know me she bails or cant do anything at all. what should i do?
hmm, well, lets see,maybe she is uncomfertable being alone with you, so why not try doing something along the lines of doing a group date like bowling with some of her friends, then if she says no you can talk to her friends, and her friends can help you, also it helps in puttin you on the upper hand because one, your getting to know her friends, two us girls, we tend to be more comfertable around people we know and trust, like for example, if a guy asked me out, i might be uncomfertable in the sense that i dont know him that well to begin with, so who says i should trust him (just a theory, im not saying your not trustworthy) but anyway, going alone is kind of weird, so when you go with her friends, she tends to be more of her natural self...if that makes sense, and then you can really get to know her in her natural environment, and how she really acts. so it helps and then once she gets to know you, and she really starts to see you and who you asre it shouldnt be that bad. oh and FYI somewtimes when a girl says i need to get to know you better, they have few reasons...1. they seriously need to get to know you better
how do you get to know her better if you cant go out on a date?
call her! talk to her on AIM, something, text her for all i care, other forms of communication are in this world besides speaking face to face, although it is sometimes better
2. she might not like you, not to hurt your feelings at all, but sometimes when a girl is like well i dont know u that well balh blah blah, it means they really just dont wanna go out.
how do you figure this out?
TALK TO HER ABOUT IT!!, be honest with her! something along the lines of you now i like you, id like to get to know you better, but i want to know if you feel the same way...
sometimes all it takes is a nice starbucks coffee talk! i know i know, its girly, but she would appreciate it...if she likes coffee, or tea lol hope i helped!
I've been going out with this guy for about 1 month and a half. He cusses me out every once in a while for stupid reasons. 3 of my friends say I should break up with him, but I love him a lot. Today, when school was out, he seen me and stayed like 50 feet from me and wouldn't even come over and talk to me. It's like he always trys to ignore me. What should I do? Should I listen to my friends? Or stay with him?? I really love this guy though!! 14/f/tn
is he really worth your time if he ignores you? probably not, and you gotta realize that even though u think u might "really love this guy", it probably isnt love, and it definitly isnt love if he ignores you, because if you "love" someone, there is this thing called communication involved, and it usually doesnt involove cussing the other person out!
can i ask you something!?!
do you expect the man that you 'love' to cuss you out? or even ignore you!?!, if he has the same feelings for you as you do for him, then he would treat you with respect, and would value you as a person. if i were you,i would re-evaluate the relationship, and maybe listen to what your friends have to say, because even though you think your right, sometimes it takes someone else on the outside watching everything, to tell you if he is really worth your time, and your energy. ( would you let your friend be with a boyfriend who treats her like this?, would you even allow your best friend to treat you this way?)
Hi
if im like a good girl and i want to be bad how can i?
*confused*
umm, lets see, change your whole entire personalty, become a slut/punk, who still has "morals", sneak outta the house every once in a while, learn to cuss, oh and find some of the drug dealers in the school im sure they could help....(sarcastic voice implied)
I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do?
well, you enjoy hugging kissing cuddling...ect, but i also think a good relationship needs communication, so talk to him for christ sake! tell him how you feel and if you have and he hasnt done anything about it, he is not worth your time!!!
Is there a way that you can makeout wrong?
umm, if you end up getting ur saliva like all over ur partners chin, then obvisly ur doin somin wrong...cuz thats not sapasto happen
My boyfriend, Matt and I have been going out for 9 months. We get along great, and I love him more than anything in the world. The day that he asked me out though another boy, Kevin was going to ask me out (ironic, right?). About 4 months ago I started talking to Kevin after me and Matt had a big fight. I realized that it was so much easier talking to Kevin then Matt, so I started hanging out with Kevin a lot. This summer Matt and I had a huge argument and broke up for about two weeks. I called Kevin crying and ended up going over to his house (he lives in my naiborhood). We talked and ended up kissing, which led to making out. After the incident Matt and I got back together, I told him what happened, and Kevin and I stopped talking. About September I ended up calling Kevin again. I went over to his house and we talked, he gave me a hug and I went home. A week later he calls me and I sneak out to see him. We talk, watch a movie, and end up making out. Matt and I are still strong, but lately I have been spending a lot of time with Kevin. I have such strong feelings for Matt, but at the same time I can't stand the thought of not being close to Kevin. They are both wonderful guys, each having thier own particular trait that draws me to them. To add the problem is that Matt and Kevin know each other and HATE each other. I'm just really confused right now and would like a little advice. Thank you for anything. -Confused
so let me get this strait, u broke up w/ matt, and within that same week time period u made-out with kevin, but then ended up getting back togeather with matt!?!?!...ok, first i see somin wrong with this and then, you and matt are still togeather, and u make -out with kevin agian...so you cheat on matt....hmm...oh and with the guy he hates the most....am i missing something here, because this seems very wrong!! and i think that if you have such strong feelings for matt, you shouldnt be cheating on him with kevin, or any other guy, for that matter, and if you cheat on matt to be with kevin, i think you have already made your choice
I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. He is everything i want..almost. we have a great physical realtaionship, but the mental/emotional stinks. How can i make it better because i nee him to be there for me in both
you sound like one of my really good friends. shes been with this guy for like 2 months, and she really likes him, she thinks they have a pretty good "physical" relationship, but the guy CAN NOT COMMUNICATE to save his life! and i think that in order to have a good relationship, you have to have communication, so try to really talk to him, go to starbucks, or a public place, where physical isnt much of an option and you can just talk, and hang out. it might be difficult at first, but you will break the ice sooner or later, and both of you will open up
ok there are two girls... there is this one kind of a teensy bit cute girl at my school who likes me...but every1 thinks she is butt ugly.
there is also this hot girl who everyone thinks is ugly but i think she is rly nice and cute. i liked her in 5th grade but she didnt like me.
who should i like???
you cant "choose" who to like, you have follow your heart, but you cant choose, just listen to your heart, dont follow the trends that everyone is setting, dont go by a girls looks either...thats just WRONG!, like, most girls want to be dated because of their personality, and yes all girls like the affirmation that you think their pretty, but dont just like someone because of their looks
hie um..yea i lyke muh bf alot but i lyke muh ex-bf ALOT more...i guess yoo can say i still...love him.. ne-ways...muh bf is so sweet...and he calls me and talks to me more then muh old bf...and he says and shoes he reallie lyked me...then muh old bf said it butwas a lil to quiet to shoe it or to call me...in over 2 months he never once called...but we talked quite a bit... whut should i do? break up wif muh bf? even thoe im not going to get another chance wif muh old bf?please help meh out... thanx fer ne-one who helps and/or attempts helping me..
its not lYke.....its like...so you know and id love to anwser....but i have no clue as to what youreven saying.....whats muh....lyke....wif....meh....ne-one....lyked.....butwas...."to shoe it".....and who is shoes.....or wat does it mean....please....speak in english next time
I really need some advice :(.... I'm trying so hard to get over my X boyfriend that i had for 9 months, and he was my first love but every1 says i need to move on. So i have a new boyfriend but i don't know if i can give my heart to my new boyfriend because im still stuck on my X... but it doesnt work out with him so its so hard!! ... please help :`(
timing is everything hun! you gotta realize that guys arnt always worth it. some are yes, and ur first love is definitly hard. but realize that there are other guys out there, and opening your heart to a new guy may take some time, but your heart will heal, it always does, but realize that there will always be a specail place in ur heart for this guy, but this new guy coming into your heart, can also have a little tiny piece of it.
Hey. Okay, to make a long story short. In grade 9, I had this best friend, who was also my boyfriend. Well, this girl (new to the area then) turned on her charm and there you go. He followed her around like a little puppy. Now, I'm in grade 11, engaged to a wonderful man, and we love each other very much. I trust him, which is a first for me, because i don't really trust guys. But this girl who stole my last boyfriend away, is in all my boyfriends classes except one. And he sits beside her in one of them, and they've been partnered up ... I get so jealous. Everytime i hear her name I get scared she'll take him away from me all over again. I get really sad, and defensive. I love him a lot. He is my angel, my love, and if I lose him, I would be lost. I don't know how to handle my jealousy. PLease help
well , your engaged, so that has to mean that he loves you just as much...cuz when you get married, its dedicating ur life to that person, and getting engaged in 11th grade is a huge step, specially for ur age, so he has gotta love you. and i guess you gotta trust him, cuz if he loves you he wont hurt you. and as far as the jelousey factor goes, try focusing ur energy on something else, dont think about it, dont give it the time of day, i know its hard, but if you dont worry about it, then jelousey wont be there.
Well, I like this kid named Eric, hes so sweet nice n incredible and EVERYTHING, but my friend erika always seems to get jealous when me n him talk and stuff if its like not about her.. erika asked me to ask him today who he liked. and he said me and it was like the best thing ever and hes like do you wanna date me? and i said yeah but i dont wanna hurt erika, because i know if i date eric erika will like be mad at me or treat me differently.. but i really really really like eric!! what should i do?? would u date eric and try n find erika a boyfriend? or would u jus stay friends with eric? i rate 5z!
well if i were u , id talk to erika first, tell her how you feel, and if she dosnt agree stay friends w/ him, but if she is like yea totally, than go for it girl!!!!
my boy friend is always calling my bf a bitch..shes like awsome though and i tell him not to call her that infront of me..but he still does..what do i do?
he dosnt get along w/ ur girls he aint worth your time!!!!!
what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering
doing anything..but hugging and flirting...with someone other than ur boyfriend/girlfriend...or going out with more than 1 person at a time
Ok, i like this guy, he's not in any of my classes but i see him in the halls all the time. I really want to get to know him but i am VERY shy, what should i do to???
accidentaly bump into him, and make his stuff and ur stuff go everywhere in the hall, and make it love at first site lol...like in the old romance movies lol
ok so here it is ....i have had a really big crush on a friend of mine for a month now and everyone is telling me that he likes me too. the problem is that he is mormon. and i am not. i really want to be with him but it is against his parents rules to date a non mormon, so i was wondering what yall think i should do? i was also wondering if anyone knew anything about mormonism that they could give me? i wanted to know if i should convert and become mormon so we could date and it be ok, or if i should date him and keep it from everyone, or just forget about it all together? but i dont know what to do and i really like him.PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO!
DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT BECOME MORMON!! there is a lot hidden in the religion that people dont find out untill way way to deep and far into it, like things such as they believe that you will get your own planet become ruler of it and get 70 virgins, its somin weird like that....umm....ok jus a lil weirdand then, they also believe jesus was just another prophet and they say they believe in the bible with another book added on, if they believed in the bible they would believe that jesus is the son of god, not just nother prophet, its really weird and complicated, and then on top of that, you should never i repeat NEVER EVER EVER EVER change your self for a guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OK I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two months now and I'd do anything for him, I love him so much. Well , I go to a technical high school so I'm in a shop -- Auto repair -- with a bunch of boys and we have a field trip coming up. My boyfriend doesnt want me to go and I completely see why (the boys in my shop are a little perverted sometimes). But my entire shop wants me to go and I'll be the only person not going. There is a possibility that something would happen that my boyfriend wouldnt like. I'd never do anything to hurt him but stuff just happens sometimes. I just wanted some opinions on what I should do. Thanx in advance.. I rate high.
your boyfriend should trust you enough, its only a field trip, and i highly doubt anything will happen, plus like i said in a relationship there has to be trust and he should trust you to make the right decisions...i think you should go
theres a girl that im really close to..she used to like me a lot and i love her and we were like /-/ this close to going out, but she stopped liking me..she said she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend (personality wise not looks) and i just dont understand how after we had done so much and gone through a lot together..she cant picture me as her boyfriend and everything..i have told her how i feel, i have made a move, she has been to my house many times, we have gone out on "dates" sorta...and i love her, i just want her to like me again, please tell me how to get her to like me again...oh and she likes a sophomore at my school now and people have told me that she might still like me and shes just confused but i dont think she does...i really want her back, i need her :( if you give me a helping answer then ill rate you a 5 DO NOT TELL ME TO GET OVER HER!!! i have tried and it isnt happening!
jus give her some time, she will come back, but we girls tend to get caught up emotionally way to much cuz thats how we are built, we tend to have a lot of emotions, and sometimes it jus takes us time to sort it out. dont stop liking her! dont give up! but give her a little space, dont persue her as much. and like i said just give it time, she will come back