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I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. He is everything i want..almost. we have a great physical realtaionship, but the mental/emotional stinks. How can i make it better because i nee him to be there for me in both
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you sound like one of my really good friends. shes been with this guy for like 2 months, and she really likes him, she thinks they have a pretty good "physical" relationship, but the guy CAN NOT COMMUNICATE to save his life! and i think that in order to have a good relationship, you have to have communication, so try to really talk to him, go to starbucks, or a public place, where physical isnt much of an option and you can just talk, and hang out. it might be difficult at first, but you will break the ice sooner or later, and both of you will open up
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They say you can't have a relationship without a little physical attraction, but you can't have one without the emotional either. Have you ever sat and thought to make sure that you guys relate to each other as people and have many of the same interest? Can you guys be there for each other in times of need? Do you love each other? If mental/emotional isn't there, then it isn't much of a relationship to be honest. You two really need to sit down and discuss this topic and work on it together. I've been there and done that and the first step is to talk to each other about it to get the bottom of this and find out the reason why it's just not there. After that you guys need to discuss ways to develop this. Perhaps, spending more time together and communicating more. If you can't solve it, then maybe you aren't meant to be lovers. Think about it... xo*
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When approaching a relationship it is vital to have the communication in a relationship...not only will you be able to work out differences...it can help you get your point across when needed. To answer your question...sit him down without any distractions and tell him how you really feel. Dont give in to the physical part when trying to talk to him because he wont listen and only think about what hes gonna do with you. Ive had my share with this experience and you need to tell him straight up that you need him there. He'll understand and if he doesnt then its time to find someone else.
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well sounds to me like its a relationship based on sex, and those dont last too well, my advice is to tell him you wanna base it also on a mental and emotional level. otherwise eventually the relationship will crumble.
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