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Wat to do?
14/m,
Theres a girl in my school that i went out with last year only for a short time though. she broke up with me. now im starting to like her again because we have become more close. we talk alot online. i havent told her anything about me liking her and im scared she wouldnt like me. i doubt she would like me. wat do i do to get her to like me and try n hint i like her (without actually saying it) o and i only c her on occasion in skool. like once a day. Thnx
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Girls like guys who are confident but not cocky. Just remember, girls aren't confusing, i know b/c i am one, and i really don't understand why guys find it so hard to realize what we really want. The first thing you need to understand is that girls want eye contact. Talking on line is defintely not the same thing as talking in person. The next time you see her in person, charm her with your gorgeous smile. When she talks to you, make sure she knows that your listening and slip in little cute compliments, like "you look nice today"-just don't be too serious, say it in a casual way. you need to approach her in a way that, when she is with you, she feels comfortable to be herself. Remember, women aren't stupid, we know exactly when it is a guy is coming on to us and we can see right through those subtle hints. AFter a couple of "in person" talks, ask her to go out for a movie with a couple of friends or if your shy about asking her directly when its just you and her, try asking when your with the friends you are going with so it looks like your asking the whole group. if she says she can't go, tell her that it won't be the same unless she comes. When you guys eventually do get to the movie, try to isolate yourself and her from the rest of the group and try to talk with her and work your charm. She'll probably realize that you have feelings for her, but thats ok-just be adorable and flirtacious. Don't forget to wear nice cologne- eternity for men is nice-but anything scented would be nice-girls love guys who smell nice. just don't put it on too strong-you only need a subtle tint. The thing is girls love what they can't have- in other words play hard to get and she'll want you in know time. All you have to do is drop hints-make her feel really special but don't seem to available-she'll be after you in no time. i hope i help-if you need any more advice feel free to ask me.good luck.
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its this thing called flirting.......
~me~
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You sound alot like me and htis one boy in my school. I am also 14 and we have dated before too. We have also been talking alot lately and im starting to like him. I don't see him very much in school but we tlak on the phone alot. I suggest that you call her more because unlike AOL or AIM its more personal because you can talk and hear tones of voices (yea i know it sounds odd but trust me here) Try and see each other outside of school and yes, subtly hinting that you like her is good. Ask "sarcastic" or "what if" questions like, if me and you were alone in a hot tub what would you do?" ya kno? i do it alot...well im a girl but the guy usually starts comming up with his own questions. i really hope i helped!
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You shouldn't doubt yourself. That's something really bad to do. If you went out with her how would you think you wouldn't have another chance? You should tell her that you like her because you make her sound very up there like shes hard to get or something. I mean if not you should give her hints giving her hugs and kisses be like i miss you and stuff.
♥ Jessie - good luck.
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