Question Posted Wednesday December 8 2004, 5:48 pm
I've been going out with this guy for about 1 month and a half. He cusses me out every once in a while for stupid reasons. 3 of my friends say I should break up with him, but I love him a lot. Today, when school was out, he seen me and stayed like 50 feet from me and wouldn't even come over and talk to me. It's like he always trys to ignore me. What should I do? Should I listen to my friends? Or stay with him?? I really love this guy though!! 14/f/tn
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cutiepie12335 answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 10:28 pm: is he really worth your time if he ignores you? probably not, and you gotta realize that even though u think u might "really love this guy", it probably isnt love, and it definitly isnt love if he ignores you, because if you "love" someone, there is this thing called communication involved, and it usually doesnt involove cussing the other person out!
can i ask you something!?!
do you expect the man that you 'love' to cuss you out? or even ignore you!?!, if he has the same feelings for you as you do for him, then he would treat you with respect, and would value you as a person. if i were you,i would re-evaluate the relationship, and maybe listen to what your friends have to say, because even though you think your right, sometimes it takes someone else on the outside watching everything, to tell you if he is really worth your time, and your energy. ( would you let your friend be with a boyfriend who treats her like this?, would you even allow your best friend to treat you this way?) [ cutiepie12335's advice column | Ask cutiepie12335 A Question ]
112903 answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 6:31 pm: ok i just read the first sentence and dont need to read any farther you need to dump him. im sure your an awesome person who should be treated awesome find someone that will actually respect you and not yell at you. good luck!
jbdreamer answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 6:01 pm: You haven't mentioned one good thing about this boy. So why exactly do you love him? Maybe you should listen to your friends. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
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