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i asked this girl out several times and her answer has been "i dont know because i dont know you that well" and so i have tried to get her to know me better and we have hung out a couple of times but "not enough" still and every time i try to do something with her so that she could get to know me she bails or cant do anything at all. what should i do?
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hmm, well, lets see,maybe she is uncomfertable being alone with you, so why not try doing something along the lines of doing a group date like bowling with some of her friends, then if she says no you can talk to her friends, and her friends can help you, also it helps in puttin you on the upper hand because one, your getting to know her friends, two us girls, we tend to be more comfertable around people we know and trust, like for example, if a guy asked me out, i might be uncomfertable in the sense that i dont know him that well to begin with, so who says i should trust him (just a theory, im not saying your not trustworthy) but anyway, going alone is kind of weird, so when you go with her friends, she tends to be more of her natural self...if that makes sense, and then you can really get to know her in her natural environment, and how she really acts. so it helps and then once she gets to know you, and she really starts to see you and who you asre it shouldnt be that bad. oh and FYI somewtimes when a girl says i need to get to know you better, they have few reasons...1. they seriously need to get to know you better
how do you get to know her better if you cant go out on a date?
call her! talk to her on AIM, something, text her for all i care, other forms of communication are in this world besides speaking face to face, although it is sometimes better
2. she might not like you, not to hurt your feelings at all, but sometimes when a girl is like well i dont know u that well balh blah blah, it means they really just dont wanna go out.
how do you figure this out?
TALK TO HER ABOUT IT!!, be honest with her! something along the lines of you now i like you, id like to get to know you better, but i want to know if you feel the same way...
sometimes all it takes is a nice starbucks coffee talk! i know i know, its girly, but she would appreciate it...if she likes coffee, or tea lol hope i helped!
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