OK I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two months now and I'd do anything for him, I love him so much. Well , I go to a technical high school so I'm in a shop -- Auto repair -- with a bunch of boys and we have a field trip coming up. My boyfriend doesnt want me to go and I completely see why (the boys in my shop are a little perverted sometimes). But my entire shop wants me to go and I'll be the only person not going. There is a possibility that something would happen that my boyfriend wouldnt like. I'd never do anything to hurt him but stuff just happens sometimes. I just wanted some opinions on what I should do. Thanx in advance.. I rate high.
Sk8terbabe019 answered Monday November 8 2004, 2:10 pm: If you know you wouldnt do anything to hurt your bf maybe he should just trust you. If he does he shouldnt worry about what will happen between you and the other guys. Plus what could happen? If you love your boyfriend so much then you know you wont make out w/ anybody or anything like that. Just tell him he should trust you more and not to worry about it.
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xO_ii_x3_yEw_Ox answered Sunday November 7 2004, 11:46 pm: if your boyfriend realy trusted you he would let you go and if you truely are in love with him you wont just let something happen because if somethinged happened you could loose something you love over something you most likely dont even care about so if you realy did care about eachother he would trust you enough to let you go and you would love him enough not to do anything stupid and mess things up because then you will seriously regret it. [ xO_ii_x3_yEw_Ox's advice column | Ask xO_ii_x3_yEw_Ox A Question ]
cutiepie12335 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 10:12 pm: your boyfriend should trust you enough, its only a field trip, and i highly doubt anything will happen, plus like i said in a relationship there has to be trust and he should trust you to make the right decisions...i think you should go [ cutiepie12335's advice column | Ask cutiepie12335 A Question ]
xpianogirl89x answered Sunday November 7 2004, 9:35 pm: There's a possibility something would happen? why do you say that? I would talk to your bf about why you want to go, but this doesn't sound too good cause i think you need to be able to control yourself. If those guys try anything just move away, don't let them make a move on you. And tell your boyfriend exactly what you told us. That you love him and you'd do anything for him, but you really want to go on this trip.
K3587 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 9:04 pm: If you truly love the guy, what do you have to worry about? You should able to trust him; but moreover, you need to be able to trust yourself. You will never get any farther if you do not.
Just repeat to yourself "I am taken, and everyone else here is infected with at least 20 STD's." That should do the trick. [ K3587's advice column | Ask K3587 A Question ]
isthatdisposable answered Sunday November 7 2004, 7:53 pm: talk to him about this... i would hope you could trust yourself and he could trust you because relationships are nothign without trust. communicate this stuff.... hope i helped a little. best of luck [ isthatdisposable's advice column | Ask isthatdisposable A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday November 7 2004, 7:40 pm: I think that if u want to go u should. I mean no matter where u go u could do something u would regret. just explain to ur bf that u r not going to let them o anything and it means alot to u. (if u really want to go on this trip AND IT DOES MEAN A LOT TO U) if it doesn't mean anything to u and u don't want to go then don't go. In the end it's really up to u. but that's my advice.
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