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I've been going out with my bofriend for 1month now and he lives 2.7 miles away from me and when he comes down to see me him and my best friend always flirts and when I ask them something,they completely ignore me:-( then after my boyfriend goes home they text eachother:-( help? Please:-( it gets me down so much:'( (link)
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Had the same thing happen to me a long time ago. Guess what? My friend called my boyfriend sexy in my face. From then on, we broke up because he kept hooking up with my friends. He did it for years until one of them just recently passed away. So what I would say to you is be careful. You shouldn't have to deal with that. It is disrespectful that your boyfriend and your friend will be texting each other and that he will ignore you. You should be the one and only. Confront them both about it and if it doesn't change get yourself out of there fast. There is a good reason why this is hurting you, because you know it's extremely wrong and unacceptable. You deserve much better.
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okay so my friends boyfriend was at this end of the school year party with us. He stayed mostly by me andmy other friend Alyssa. Bailey is the in one dating the guy so he ignores her. i felt bad not being by her so i talked 2 her. she was pissed off with her bf being by us n not her. so i go back by him and alyssa 2 find out hes flirting with us. asking us if he was hot, making us laugh etc. so now...if hes flirting with us how could we explain this 2 bailey and if he would b interested in us and how 2 have him admit it if he likes me and alyssa without him knowing...
female, age:15
by, XxKittyxX
thnx if u give me a good answer cause its importent to let bailey know about this owo (link)
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You are a very good friend. I'm sure she would appreciate this. And you are smart to let her know without him finding out. What I would do is somehow start up a conversation with him and bring up what he said before and make sure you are recording him button your phone. One day mayb when you are with Bailey or something, or when you know Bailey is not with him,call him asking for her and record the conversation. Then show her and let her listen. Not many girls would want to take care of their friends. I think you you are one of the very few people out there who care about their friends.
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20, M
To start off, I've met the most wonderful man, I met him on facebook and we had mutual friends, we talked a lot through facebook and text messaging for about 6 months until we finally decided to meet face to face, I met him at a party my friend had and needless to say we hit it off, after that we started hanging out often, I was seeing other guys because I wasn't sure if he wanted a relationship, well I slept with him one night and he stopped and looked at me and said he wanted more than a one night stand, after that we started dating exclusively and have been for over two months now, he has a daughter and said he doesn't want us to meet until we are more serious, he is absolutely perfect, compared to everyone I've dated I feel so strongly for him, he told me he loved me and I kindly told him I did not feel that strong yet, though the past week or so every time I wake up to him or we're together I just feel that strong feeling in my stomach, I am very nervous of telling him how I feel and I want to know the best and easiest way to tell him, the other night we were laying in bed and he wrapped his arms around me, I wanted to say it but I just couldn't, how do I tell him? I've never really said it to anyone, I told him when I get paid I wanted to treat him to dinner and I was thinking maybe then? Anyone have any advice to help me? Thanks! (link)
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I think you should wait for HIM to say it first. The reason being that I think it will keep things more mysterious and fresh between you guys. Don't just let everything out yet. Give whatever you have to him little by little. Go with the flow and see what happens next.
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I'm kinda at the end of my rope with my boyfriend. We live together, and he started a new job about 6 months ago that has him stressed out rather often.
I love him, and I want to enjoy our time together, but I just can't. He picks his nose and snorts, wipes his nose on his hands, scratches his crotch, burps, chews his nails, forget to brush his teeth... ectra...
It used to be that if I wanted to have a meal with him without this behavoir, I could at least drag him out of the house, but now that doesn't work either. He's nearly as bad in public as he is at home.
I'm sure he is feeling ignored and neglected, but I just can't take someone seriously when they are acting this way. I feel so disrespected by all this and find him so unattractive. I wish he'd just reach for a damn Kleenex or go to the bathroom and do some of this shit in private. I just want to feel like I'm living with an adult who values and respects my presence. He says lovely things all the time, but when he says while behaving this way it just adds insult to injury.
I'm not sure how to bring this up tho without it turning into a "Hey you do gross things too!" 'cause I'm sure I do things that piss him off, but I need him to understand this is reaching deal-breaking proportions for me. (link)
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Tell him how you feel about it and with that, of he respects you he should be able to stop. He needs to start being a man instead of acting childish. You Shouldn't have to babysit him. He knows that what he is doing is wrong. Just talk to him.
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Okay, so i have a boyfriend of almost a month now. He's really cute & nice but he's a year younger than me and he can be immature sometimes and it kind of bugs me. We're honestly complete opposites, but somehow i've fallen for him. Except the thing is, he's a sucky boyfriend. He never sends me cute paragraphs, or just tells me what he likes about me. Sometimes I feel like he's using me for my body, but then again he might not be. And when we're on facebook or texting he never sends me smiley faces or anything. He's just boring over messaging. But then there's times once in a while where he can be really cute and sweet. I've been thinking about breaking up with him because my feelings weren't that strong with him but the last time we hung out I completely fell in love with him somehow and i'm stuck now. And i recently met this other boy, who had a girlfriend of 10 monthes and just broke up with her yesterday. He's a complete sweetheart in real life and over texting and he just seems perfect. But i know him and he's kind of a player.. plus i think my bestfriend likes him now. But he's still making an effort to talk to me and flirt with me so I know he's interested. He told me if i think my boyfriend treats me like shit then I shouldn't put up with it. He's so sweet, but i know he's probably taking advantage of me. But he has a point with the whole boyfriend thing. I don't know what to do. (link)
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First off. Communication is the key. You should talk to your boyfriend about how you feel and what is lacking in the relationship. If he wants to work on it and you are willing to also then great! :)....if not, that obviously won't be helping your feeling for him get stronger so it would probably be best to just back off. You would most likely end up finding someone else
more suitable for you in that case.
The other guy who just broke up with his girlfriend yesterday. Don't let him use you as a rebound. Ten months in a relationship is a long enough to need some time to get over a person. Again. Don't be the rebound. He is probably most like being nice just to have you as his rebound.
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So my ex bf broke up with me last year and we never talk anymore...it was a long distance relationship and i had really strong feelings for him but now 1 of my friends go ahold of the password and told him i was cheatng on him (when i wasnt) so he just took me off when i asked him why he said i had a weird look on life and he was sorry for me but we could still be friends. Now when go back to add him he just takes me off :( also is it illegal fr a 14 yr girl to date an almost 20 yr guy? its for my friends sister and shes dating him and shes very worried for her sister. (link)
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This is sick. How dare he dates a fourteen year old girl. That's is against the law!!!!!!!!!! He could get in deep trouble for that. He is a pedophile. You should be happy that he staying away from you. That gives you a chance to be free from him and wait for the right guy to come around :).
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I'm live in Canada. So a while ago I asked a question on this site about how to tell a guy how i feel about him and everything.. Someone said to message him on facebook to tell him that i like him and how I feel about him and everything.. But I really confused on what to say! Any ideas? (link)
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Alright so here is my view on this one. I don't think you should tell him you like him or pour out all your feelings to him. I think you should start out by becoming his friend, talk a lot, laugh together, and flirt with him. Be really cool with him. You can give flirtatious hints and with that HE will be the one to come on to you. Guys want what they can't have most of the time :).
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this is a bit long, but it is some juicy stuff! (I'm 21, almost 22)
So, there's this guy and I used to like him back in high school and maybe a bit before. I've known him for.. 14ish years. we were never really friends.. maybe early on in like 3rd/4th grade. We kind of had a mutual hatred for each other in High school as well. ANYWAYS
So it all started with a FB poke. I poked him, because.. I still consider him the hottest guy I've ever liked. and a few weeks later I was super surprised when he poked me back, whatever. No big deal. Then on april fools day, he said hey text me (and put his number). I didn't it being april fools day. I was convinced it had to be a prank, because to me nothing else made sense. I asked him a few days later, he said it wasn't.. he wanted to ask me something but never mind. I was like okay. and still continued to think it was a prank. (paranoid, I know!)
so then.. one night he just FB messages me and says basically oh hey, let me come over.. let's hook up.. I have never been more.. baffled/surprised/confused in my life. So, I know, not very lovely but I did see him that night (he lives super close). We didn't have sex. But I gave him a bj. (I'm 21, don't lecture me on how bad it was, I know.. I know.. awful, but I used to like him! so.. that counts for something) So after he says oh don't tell anyone about this I have a gf. (not that I would tell anyways)
but okay, here is my question. Obviously he was drunk (well not obv. but he was), and obviously he was just using me because he knew I used to like him and because I lived so close. But why would he cheat on his gf? I mean in general are guys really that.. uh.. I don't know desperate they'll hook up with some random girl.
I'm just super confused about everything in life now!, I haven't talked to him since. I haven't told anyone about it. and I just need some thoughts about all this. please share. (and I know! I'm awful, so don't feel the need to tell me that)
thanks for anything! (link)
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Wow. That was so extremely disrespectful for him to ask you to hook up. Not only disrespectful to you but to whomever his girlfriend is. Imagine how many other girls he had done that with while being with his girlfriend. He obviously cheated on her because he wanted to try someone else. But at the same time he is making her his main girl while he is using you. I think he is just doing it for fun. You made a good decision to not talk to him. He sounds like a guy that likes to use girls for the wrong reasons.
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So I have an advertisement on the newspaper and of course my phone number appears on it as I teach English,well a few days ago this strange guy started to call me pretending to need Eng lessons,but then he kept texting me saying horrible things related to sex,like a blowjob and even bareback!!I don't know how to get rid of him,I have a boyfriend and I'm really ashamed,I don't dare to tell him anything,cuz he'd go mad,I need help,thanks! (link)
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That is harassment. You should let him know that he needs to stop texting your phone or else you will take him to the authorities. Whoever is doing this is obviously extremely immature. Maybe you could also try and change your phone number. Just talk to your boyfriend about it. He might be able to help you find a solution to the problem also ;)
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I'm a 23 yrs old girl, I met someone online, and he was just the way I like.. I liked him & and he was so emotional, romantic, and caring. after a while, I fall in love with him, then I discovered that his real age about (37) and that he's already married and thereis noway for our relation to work. however, I continued with him and we had a cyber relation and met him only once in real.. now, we still talkin' to eachothers on the internet, and I we still like eachothers......... what is the expected future of this relation? (link)
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He lied to you. That's a big nono. Lying about his age. Pretty much about his life is not good at all. He based whatever you guys had on lies. A relationship founded on lies most of TW time doesn't end up too far.
Once you found out that he was married, you should have cut the whole thing off. It's disrespectful to talk to a married man. Just imagine how hurtful it would be if you were being treated the way he is treating his wife. You don't deserve to be a side chick. You deserve a guy who will put you first and not keep you a secret. Think of all the other girls he could have met just the same way he met you (especially within being a liar t not only you but his own wife).
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19/female. There's this guy, named Bryan who started talking to me over facebook. He went to my school, graduated 2 years before I did. We started texting and I began to like him, every time he'd text me he'd tell me to come cuddle, or that he wanted to give me a massage and that I was pretty every now and then he would mention my boobs or whatever but I figured thats every teenage boy. We'd always plan to hang out but we always ended up both getting to busy, but we'd still text. Well, there was one day that we both got time to chill so he came to pick me up, but it was really awkward. I got in his car and it was just silent the whole ride from my house to his. We get to his house and go straight to his room. I sat at the edge of his bed and we just sat there for a good 5 minutes before he asked me if I wanted a massage. I said no, because that was the first time for us to hang out and I figured that'd be awkward, he insisted on giving me a massage so I was like whatever and let him give me one, he told me to lay down, he stareted giving me the massage and the first 2 minutes were normal he was just rubbing my back, then he goes under my shirt, which I didn't mind to much either, but like 10 minutes into the massage he reached up my bra. I stopped him there because I didn't want things to get that personal on the first date, all I said was "woah, what are you doing?" he then stopped the whole massage and said he had things to do, and took me home. On our way back I asked him what he had to do and he said his mom was about to be home. We didn't talk the entire rest of the way to my house. When we got to my house, I said bye to him and thanked him for the massage. I haven't talked to him since. He hasn't texted me or anything. I want to text him, just to find out whats up, but i'm scared he won't reply, and i'm scared he's pissed at me. do you think he's mad that I didn't put out? I keep thinking that he thought I looked better on the internet than in person and that's why he quit talking to me? I just can't stop thinking about him though. I thought he was cute. Should I text him? or should I leave him alone, like I've been doing? if I do text him what should I say? why do you think he quit talking to me after we met? (link)
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He sounds like a jerk. If EVERYTIME you talked he mentioned cuddling with you and even went as far as talking about your boobs. I think that sounds wrong. It seems like he just wanted to get physical. Especially the part where you reject him an then emediately decides to take you home right after. You should be proud of yourself for keeping good values and my trying to take things too far on the first day of hanging out. Peoplego I deserve a guy who you be interested in getting to know you and be willing to hang out with you "with or without messages".
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i dont know what to call him now. i guess hes an ex that is still a friend. he lead me on for almost a year again and i guess we werent official but he recently dropped it with me. its always been secret and no one knows. but people do know me and i have been in his life for years. were teens but im a little older. we have had someone on and off. hes not very nice alot. sometimes i think he might be bipolar because he could just be so mean and then so nice out of no where. anyways i dont know why he is ashamed of me and intends to hurt me. for example he asked me to video tape something. then he watched it and he got mad and said because i was talking in the video and he said "aww why did u have to talk, because now people would know i hang out with u." and i said "thats rude" and he sad "well yeah its true". people already know me anyways. so i dont know what his problem is. or in public when im with him and his family he ignores me almost the whole time. or is mean to me on purpose. when we have been alone we have had special moments where we would talk sweet to eachother and he would tell me im pretty and stare into eachothers eyes ? it doesnt make sense. i dont think i can find anything that wrong with me. i have good hygein, i do my hair and makeup everyday, i dress cute, other people think im pretty. i dont really act or do anything embarrassing. why does he think this way ? (link)
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He sounds like a jerk. He pretty much just told you that he doesn't want anyone to know his association with you. That is extremely wrong. A guy who truly cares about you should not try to keep you a secret. I think you need to talk to him about it. If he doesn't feel your pain and try to make you happy and keeps acting like a jerk, you can at least say you tied and break up with him.
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My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but i am not ready, yet i do not want to loose him. (link)
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Tell him how you feel about it. If he respects your values and is willing to wait for you till you are ready (which could be five years from now), that's great. But if he keeps on insisting, then you will have to decide wether or not you want someone who wants so much to get in your pants, or someone who respects you.
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My boyfriend is flirting with this girl that i really hate .. What do i do? he's doing it infront of me and crap and im pissed but not showing it.. Its awkward and weird and ugh! What shoudl i do?!?!?!?? Grrrr... (link)
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I think it's disrespectful that your boyfriend is flirting with a girl, and to make matters worse, one you don't like and in your face. You don't deserve that kind of treatment from any guy who you are in a relationship with. Depending on how much you like him, talk to him about it, or leave him.
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Okay so this is kind of a long story so Im going to try and sum it up. I really need help because I cant seem to get over this. So please any help to get me out of this depression would be amazing.
So me and my ex(i guess) have been off and on for a while. He has a drug problem and I love him so much that I put up with it so long and listened to him say that he wanted to change and tried to help him. I know that was stupid because I should have realized if he wanted to change he would have asked for help other than me. But thats not too much of a big deal anymore..hes been 65 days clean (went to rehab and is now in a halfway house) Hes become very very religious which probably stems from his childhood but Im glad because it gives him morals and a standard that he should live by. (Plus im a bit religious too)
Well the thing is, while he was in rehab he called me every night. We werent officially together but we both knew we werent with anyone else. Its like I fell in love all over again. His personality was out again and we just laughed and talked for hours. (we live 6 hours apart)
Then one day he told me he couldnt keep doing this because he really needed to get himself together before he focuses on building a relationship. He said that he depends on me for a lot of his happiness and wants to be more independent so he can be there more for me. Now I understand all of this completely well and think its awesome. BUT im a girl so i got a little emotional at first but later on we were laughing again.
Well everything was going well, I was giving him his space and would answer when he called but then spring break happened..We made plans to see each other and then he cancelled because he thought it would be unfair to me because if he saw me all he would want to do is kiss me and blah blah blah. Again I tried to be understanding..
Then he called later in the week and said he really wanted to see me before I went back to school. So we agreed to meet and went to the beach. He predicted it right and was all over me and I held off for a while but later on in the day I figured if he kept trying he must have rethought it and would kiss him back and stuff. Well the day was perfect and we had so much fun and he said some of the sweetest things in the world about how much he cares. But then towards the end of the day he started talking about how he forgot his cigarettes and got really grumpy. I made fun of him and we were kinda joking. But then we got into a big fight out of nowhere..
I hated that we were gonna end on a bad note and I started asking him about when hed be ready to date and when hed be able to come visit. He ended up saying just move on and i asked if hed ever be with me again and he said no. But then its weird..he changed his mind again...and im not sure if it was because i was crying or if it was his grumpiness but he said that he loved me and just needed some time to fix things with himself so that we could have a happy relationship.
Then he texted me this long sweet thing later on in the night saying how he wanted a long and happy relationship and that he was just feeling sorry for himself. And thats the last thing we said to each other. Its only been like 4 days but Im trying to give him his space so I wont text him first.
My question is, which part of him should I listen to.. I really love this kid but does he really not want to be with me or what? I have such huge trust issues with him but he always comes back and seems to live up to what he says eventually.
Secondly, do I keep not texting him till he texts me? Its really hard but I dont really want to lose him.
Thirdly, do you guys have any tips on how to make this easier on me? :/ ive never felt so confused and back and forth on like moving on and having faith in him. I just need to decide a way to feel so that I wont one minute be like no move on and the next be like he will come back/talk to me eventually.
Im going crazy here and I wish I could be more stable. Thats actually what I wish I could work on while hes gone...is being able to move on if he does leave and having confidence that I will find someone else someday that makes me feel the same.Please help me anyway. Maybe some tips on how to not feel this sad and depressed :[ (link)
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I think it's great that you are waiting for him to talk to you first. He needs to make up his mind instead of leaving you hanging. It's not fair for you. When he does finally call you, I think you should tell him how you feel about the whole situation and let him know that he needs to tell you exactly what is happening. This way you will know wether or not you should move on or continue with the relationship. To me, he seems confused .
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I am 15f. there is a guy 16 who told me he liked me. We have been 'talking' and when i mean talking its only through texts. We will see eachother at school and he doesnt say anything to me and i think it is because he is shy about it. well, just yesterday he asked me to be his girlfriend. i said tha i need to think about it beccause we barely even talk to eachother when i do see him and i just need to get more used to hime. well i hear all of this stuff about him and i guess our school slut. my friend saw him sitting on her lap (they are in the same grade) and idk if they r friends or not but i knoew they r not that close. then another day, we were all in the library and my other friend got his phone and looked through it seeing messages form the s-slut saying stuff like good night and sweet dreams (think she likes him because he told me the s-slut was talking about me to him saying why do you like her? shes weird, you should like me. and ohhhh, did that piss me off. we used to be friends but then she talks about me behind my back and its over lol). but even though i hear all of this stuff, i am not jelous at all. do you think maybe its because i dont know him well enough or brcause i dont like him in that way? usually i would be a lil bit jelous of this but not this time. im just wondering if it is a feeling that i would turn out to like him or if i just really dont care. please help with these confusing thoughts!
and by the way...my friend ends upp texting him and says sumthin like y arent you texting her back, unless you like 's-sluts name' now. then he texts me no, i dont like her, i like you. and i was like, yeah right. . . . and this would be my first bf by the way. i've been asked out before but im not desperate to go out with anyone i dont really like so i turned them all down. (link)
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well, i think that you should tell him that you would like to chill. Just hang out and get to know each other more. That way you know wether or not you want to be his boyfriend. This way you can really figure out how you feel about him for real.If you go out with him without knowing him then you might not like what you see...so its probably better to just chill with him a few times and see if this is what you want. But anyway. I hope this helped and goodluck!
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Hi, I'm a 22 year old girl.
I just broke up with my emotionally abusive (now ex) boyfriend of about four years...over four years? Literally, about an hour ago. Right now, I'm feeling pretty free and good about it, but I know it's been an addictive relationship, and I'm worried that I'll second-guess myself and talk to him if he tries to contact me, and wind up stuck again.
I got my key back to my car and apartment, so he can't get in. I don't think he has any malicious intent...but I also don't think he believes that I'm serious about the breakup.
So...
When it sets in for both of us, I'm pretty sure we'll both be really upset, and I know I'll miss him and want him back at some point.
You guys have any suggestions to avoid that?
I appreciate any ideas you can give me. =) (link)
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Good for you to do this. What you can do is Try to keep busy. Find things to do, that way you won't have an excuse to stop and think about him. Hang out with your friends and go out, meet new people. If he comes back in your head, just try to think more about the negative things he has done to you, the pain he has caused you. This is really hard, but i do it all the time. Put away all the gifts and things that remind you of him...if you like you can also get rid of them. Date alot, because out there, there will be someone that is way better than him....You probably won't be able to avoid feeling really upset, missing him, or wanting him back, but these few things can help put it down a little bit. I hope this helped, and good luck :)
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Well I'm a junior in high school, and last year this boy, who flirts a lot with many girls, including me, started to really have feelings for me, and I just blew it off because he was always just play flirting. He finally convinced me he was serious, and I really started to develop feelings for him. I found out he had a girlfriend this whole time, and got mad at him for flirting so much with me. He told me he didn't like her and broke up with her. I really liked him so we started dating over the summer. He started acting very weird and ignoring me after a few weeks, I finally got sick of it and we decided we were going to take a break, which turned into a break-up. We came back to school and he apparently liked a new girl. He still texts me and tells me he misses talking to me, but always changes the subject when it comes to our relationship. He also told me he didn't like the other girl. I don't know what to do because I've tried to get over this boy but I really think I fell in love, and now I'm stuck because I know I should get over him but I cant. I don't know what to do because he obviously has problems with staying with one girl, but i just dont get how he can go from being sooo into me, to this. I'm just miserable and don't know what to do because I dont want to give this up when I know hes the one for me. Please any advice that would help would be greatly appreciated:) (link)
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Wow, i am sorry he has put you through all this. This boy, is acting like a "BOY"...reading your story, it shows that you really like this guy. I have to be honest with you. Most boys in junior high are all about having fun. Guys at this age tend not to take things as seriously as we girls do. I think you deserve better than this. A guy who likes you but likes other girls too?....that doesn't sound right at all. The thing about him confessing how much he liked you while he had a girlfriend??? that shows what kind of guy he is. He is the type of guy that will play with your hear. Break it and not even give a damn. He seems very untrustworthy. If he could go behind his girl's back and talk to you, he could do the same thing to you too! You don't need a guy like that...you deserve way much more. And you are right, you will have to move on and get over it. There are much much better guys out there to look foward to!....I hope this helped, and goodluck!
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I'm a female in highschool. This might sound kind of stupid but when I makeout with my boyfriend or hookup with guys (when i'm not in a relationship) I want them to like making out with me. Any tips on how to be really good at making out or what to do when making out to make the other person get more into it? (link)
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kiss/suck their neck area...you can kiss tons more areas of thier face and body.....bite their lip, and kind of pop it...moan a little...not to much, just a little here and there.......and make it sound like you like it...talk in a sexy way....tell him you want him really bad...or just the things you want to do to him....you don't have to mean what you say lol...(sometimes its good to do this and leave the guy hanging, stop in the middle of everything and just tell him you have to make a phone call or you are hungry lol)...i know this sounds a little stupid but.just have fun! and it makes you feel so powerful....another thing is when you and a guy are about to kiss....don't kiss him....brush your lips on his a little bit....this way he wants more! then maybe you can kiss him for real....but anyway..i hope this helped!!!goodluck :D....
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hi! 19 female. this may be longer .. sorrry! but i appreciate everyone who helps me out!
where to start .. i've known this kid nick for a long time now, about 4 years. we use to be close but now we see each other probably twice a month if that, we don't text that much but i still love the kid. he's adorable, he use to treat me right but he had a girlfriend. he was with his girl for about 3 years, they recently "broke up". i honestly feel like i can't trust him anymore and that he just wants me to have sex with him?? he's told me that they're not dating anymore and that they're just really good friends .. i don't believe it though. i always tell him to just tell me the truth because he knows how much i hate liars, it's a serious thing for me. when we hang out he doesn't try anything on me .. i mean we flirt alot but nothing serious. we haven't done anything EVER. lately he's been texting me asking if i want to have sex with him .. hm right? nothing ever happens though so i'm like okay whatever you know. well then i see his "ex's" car at his house (i see this because my good friend is his neighbor) so i'm like what the eff? thought they broke up. i've brought it up to him before and he's said that they still hang out and are just good friends but i know she is still in love with him i mean they dated for a long time and lost their virginity's to each other. he seems to only ask to hang out with me when its convenient for him .. i can't take it anymore. i always give in. what am i suppose to do? we can still be friends because he treated me like a best friend when he was with his girlfriend, but now that they're supposively done, he's texting me asking if i want to have sex? what am i suppose to say next time he says something like that? i don't want to seem like a creep and be like .. "i always see your "ex's" car at your house, i thought you two were done.." and even if i said something like that i bet he will say "we are" it's just such a confusing situation. i feel like he's not telling me the truth about her and the thing i don't get is that he KNOWS that i'll see his ex's car over there .. when i'm at my friends. i'm not blind or dumb. i don't know whats up with him. i've tried asking him but he says the same thing .. it doesn't make sense. any suggestions? (link)
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He sounds like an ass really.I'm sorry if you don't like hearing that. And I agree with you that he might think you are a stalker knowing when she is over lol...what i think you should do is one of these days....have your friend that lives by him tell you when she is at his house. Wear some sexy ass langere? is that how you spell langeray?haha ...but anyway...wear something hott under your clothes, and leave your shirt open making sure that you reveal the stuff you are wearing....not too much so it gets his mind going....ofcourse you are not going to have sex with him...but go over there when you know the girl is there....send him a text saying you want to....a way flirty text....and then ring the doorbell!haha...then you can find out whats going on really between him and her. that will put him in an awkward situation, that way you can see his true colors, weather good or bad!..i know this probably sounds a way crazy...but i would do it...
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