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why is he ashamed of me?
i dont know what to call him now. i guess hes an ex that is still a friend. he lead me on for almost a year again and i guess we werent official but he recently dropped it with me. its always been secret and no one knows. but people do know me and i have been in his life for years. were teens but im a little older. we have had someone on and off. hes not very nice alot. sometimes i think he might be bipolar because he could just be so mean and then so nice out of no where. anyways i dont know why he is ashamed of me and intends to hurt me. for example he asked me to video tape something. then he watched it and he got mad and said because i was talking in the video and he said "aww why did u have to talk, because now people would know i hang out with u." and i said "thats rude" and he sad "well yeah its true". people already know me anyways. so i dont know what his problem is. or in public when im with him and his family he ignores me almost the whole time. or is mean to me on purpose. when we have been alone we have had special moments where we would talk sweet to eachother and he would tell me im pretty and stare into eachothers eyes ? it doesnt make sense. i dont think i can find anything that wrong with me. i have good hygein, i do my hair and makeup everyday, i dress cute, other people think im pretty. i dont really act or do anything embarrassing. why does he think this way ?
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He sounds like a jerk. He pretty much just told you that he doesn't want anyone to know his association with you. That is extremely wrong. A guy who truly cares about you should not try to keep you a secret. I think you need to talk to him about it. If he doesn't feel your pain and try to make you happy and keeps acting like a jerk, you can at least say you tied and break up with him.
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Well,I really can't help reading this and feel anger at the same time,sorry.How can you be next to someone like that?a person who treats you like that does not deserve your respect,just dump him,stop wasting your time,if he's ashamed of you,then feel pity for him.Life's too short for being worried about people who aren't worth it:)
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