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my best friend and boyfriend are always flirting


Question Posted Saturday June 9 2012, 7:34 pm

I've been going out with my bofriend for 1month now and he lives 2.7 miles away from me and when he comes down to see me him and my best friend always flirts and when I ask them something,they completely ignore me:-( then after my boyfriend goes home they text eachother:-( help? Please:-( it gets me down so much:'(

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da1N0nlyfriend answered Wednesday June 13 2012, 11:39 pm:
sorry to say but that's not a good best friend you got. I think the best thing to do is talk to both of them and tell them how you feel if they ignore you just let your boyfriend go and maybe your friend too. Don't let your boyfriend get you down especially if hes going to be that way.hope this helped good luck(:

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chris12677 answered Tuesday June 12 2012, 3:08 am:
Had the same thing happen to me a long time ago. Guess what? My friend called my boyfriend sexy in my face. From then on, we broke up because he kept hooking up with my friends. He did it for years until one of them just recently passed away. So what I would say to you is be careful. You shouldn't have to deal with that. It is disrespectful that your boyfriend and your friend will be texting each other and that he will ignore you. You should be the one and only. Confront them both about it and if it doesn't change get yourself out of there fast. There is a good reason why this is hurting you, because you know it's extremely wrong and unacceptable. You deserve much better.

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Drewb13 answered Saturday June 9 2012, 11:10 pm:
This is just my opinion, but he should not be your boyfriend anymore. Hopefully you have confronted them about this situation and let them know how you feel. But you need to be with a guy who gives you the attention that you deserve, and trust me, you deserve the very best. When your boyfriend flirts with another woman, you know it's a serious problem when he ignores you for another woman. If I were you, I would leave him and look for someone else who loves me and wants to be with nobody else but me and who only wants to talk to me and me alone.
I hope your heart finds the answer.
~Andrew~

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alexisgirlie answered Saturday June 9 2012, 10:26 pm:
This situation is not acceptable. Your boyfriend shouldn't be ignoring you and flirting with your best friend like that. He probably doesn't realize that he's hurting you, I don't believe that's his intention. Have a frank talk with him about this, and let him know how much he hurts you. If he truly loves you, he will understand, and refrain from doing this again. Good luck sweetie :)

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