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Hi I'm Kariena...I love music.I play the guitar for my school band.I love Linkin park,Coldplay,Enrique,Justin Timbrelake,Beyonce,Jamelia....actually I like everyone.I've had quite a number of experiences in life.And one of my great friends said...."If love were that easier we'd have more people around."As for me I'm a girl who thinks high and gets what she wants..."
Here's a little sumthin bout me:
Age-15
Dog-Cheeku
Sis-Deejay
Current boyfriend(s)-Eric and Alex!!
Best friend-You!!
I'm a Cancerian dude!!
I LOVE GUYS!!
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CHow....!!

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Hi,

i am really jealous of my bf's ex. I know little to nothing about her, except they were together a year and he lost his virignity to her. i know they're still friends and talk online still. she lives interstate so he doesn't see her, but still. This jealousy has been going on a few months and has not passed. My bf can't seem to offer much assistance. =/ I keep wanting to find out more about her but the more I find out the more jealous I become. How do I get over this?? Its starting to ruin things between us.

I was in the same fu*kin situation. I just told my bf to just stop talkin to her.But he just ignored my plea.So i created a fake ex bf of mine- Jerry. And every time my bf would wana meet me i would say im goin out wid Jerry n he would get all jealous n everything.So 1 day he confronted me n i told him dat i felt exactly the same way when he spoke to his ex.Then i told him the whole truth.& he Stopped speakin to his ex.& we have been living happily since then.
Hope this plan worx out 4 ya..
*~~Kariena~~*

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well there is this boy n i rele like him n his mom always invites me over if im homealone n she is all nicce to me but when iget to there house i never no what to say to him i lose my breath rele easy if im talkin to him n i have to take rell rele deep breaths n well he is kinda a butt hole to me n i think i have a crush on him but he always picks on me like if he dosnt agree w. some thing i say he is like shut up ur stupid is that a sign he likes me or is he jsut being stupid??

i rate rele good!!

Well he's jus treatin u like one of his pals.He's callin u stupid n stuff cuz he knows that u wont mind it.That is a good sign.JUs be urself when u r in front of him.And remember he's not some God.He's just an ordinary guy.
*~~Kariena~~*

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I really like this guy (im 15/f) like i think it might be love.. but he has a girlfriend.. me n him always chill n like make out n stuff.. and he always tells me he loves me.. but why is he with her?

It's really really obvious that he is using u.He does not love u from any angle.He's just filling his needs and desires by using u cuz maybe this other girl is not around most of the time.I think it's about time he decides whom he wants to be with.I hope my advice worx out 4 u.
*~~Kariena~~*
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Hey, i'm 17 and there is a great chance of me being pregnant right now. I'm not on birth control or anything! So, i was just wondering if someone that has been pregnant know's the syptoms of the early pregnancy? I haven't started my period yet.. its only a few days late and i've been having sleepy spells. If you know could you please help me out!? :( Thank you.

Hey I've never been pregnant but my cousin is.Well here r some of the symptoms i kno.
1'Menopause
2.Severe vomiting.
3.Desire to eat a lot.
4.Having sexual dreams.
5.Feeling dizzy on the slightest excitment.
I hope I helped u.
*~~Kariena~~*

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Me and my gf broke up and like a week after we broke up she wrote this really sweet note in her journal to my future gf telling them basicly that they should never let me go and that i was this really sweet and awsome guy. was it wrong for me to break up wit her sometimes i get confused.

That's so sweet of her.But u have'nt mentioned if u really have a nu gf or anythin.If u dont have a nu gf then dont waste time!Ur ex must be waiting 4 ur call.Ask her out again b4 its too late and if u have a gf then I jus wanna say that gurlz like your ex r very few...Dont let go of her...
*~~Kariena~~*
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my ex... i miss him... even tho he was such a big jerk... i need tips on getting over him... any ideas? things to do? ANYTHING. please and thank you. so much. bye all!

Thats so sad :( .But tell u what,follow these steps carefully.They seemed to have worked on me...
1.The most common tip which everyone will give u:Try and get involved in something which will keep u busy and ur mind of ur jerky ex.(Do sumthing not related to ur ex).
2.Hang out with ur girlfriends more often.Who said that only guys can b good shopping partners?
3.Join some sport which u have never tried out before.It cud b tennis or try something which is not from ur country like cricket.
4.Just remove evrything from ur room connected to ur ex.(like all the biday gifts and valentine cards he gave u).
5.Go to sum empty place or even ur room and shout out to ur self..."I HATE MY EX(whatev his name is)"!!
So here u go~~>Kariena's 5 steps 2 4get jerky boyfrenz.Best of luck!!
*~~Kariena~~*
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16-f

it seems like no guy ever likes me. its annoying because i feel like im such a decent and a good girl. i mean i play the piano, i do ballet, i work , i get good grades, im respectful, and alright looking..ive had one bf in my whole life, and that was a 1 yr relationship and we broke up 8 months ago, and since then i havent had like any other guyz or even small flings...it just seems like ill never have a decent guy that wants me..

I dont know y gurls always want guys as partners.NEways.Follow these 7 tips carefully.They always work 4 me:
1.Attend as many as social functions as possible.
2.Don't be shy(Don't be too open also)
3Always keep a smile on ur face(Even if u dont wanna)
4.Speak 2 ppl.
5.If anyone is making an eye contact with u,dnt look up and down or sideways.Look deep into the persons eye and if he starts looking up and down then VOILA!He has some intrest in u.
6.Try and speak topics which are usually different from what the ppl around u are speaking.
AND LASTLY,
7.BE MYSTERIOUS.
Hope I helped u.
*~~Kariena~~*
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im 15 and my bf's 18 n my parents are cool with it...Well weve had sex alot and i actually live with him because of certain issues that happened while living with my dad...Well i know that he loves me and weve been together for almost 2 years. But we had this one conversation not too long ago about a friend whos bf wont dump her cus they have sex all the time..Well thats sort of my issue..I have sex like everyday and he told me he would dump me if we stopped having sex (over a long period of time)the thing is is that i want to have sex and that isnt a problem but its like at first when we went out it was like all about love and building our relationship now that thats established its about our love and then sex then building a life together..Im confused because i live with him and depend on him so its not like im gonna leave him but im worried that If i stop having sex he wont be with me ne more-so far after a year and a half of having sex (he devirginized me) Im still into it totally But sometimes i feel like im on his schedule like its all about when hes horny and then sometimes when i actually am hes asleep or something...But anyways he is the only person who has ever loved me for me..and he treats me like a queen but sometimes i just get confused..if anyone could give me advice it would be great..also if anyone has ne sex tips for me it would b gr8tly appreciated( i rate ) thanks alot!!

Sex,Sex,Sex...I mean ur relationship with this guy is bcoz of sex.He values ur body n not ur love.How can u ever live with this guy? He's using u illegaly.He's not treating u as a queen he's treating u like a whore!!I'm sorry but u may not like this at all but u need 2 clear this out with him and tell him that u need a relationship which is based on love and sacrifice and not pussy and dick!!Hope u cum out of this situation.
*~~Kariena~~*
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17-f

I've been with my bf for almost 3 months, And I think I'm in love with him. I never get to see him though. No matter what we do together I have to go pick him up since he doesn't have a car, and he doesn't live that close (it's just getting annoying). The problem is that I thought I might still be having feelings for my ex, so I started talking to him again. It turns out he's still totally in love with me (I like him, but I don't love him). My ex is always there for me and can come over whenever. It's just really hard. Any suggestions?

How can u say that u love ur BF when u don't see him enough?Maybe it's just ur urge to meet him that makes u say that u love him.I'd say u tell ur Bf that its just not working uot between u 2 and that u need to spend more time with some1 whose always gonna be there 4 u.U said ur ex luvs u and u just like him.Gv ur ex a chance.It just takes that fraction of a second to fall in love wid some1 who already loves u....Hope I helped u out.
*~~Kariena~~*
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how can you tel if your girlfriend is or did cheat on you

Da best thing u can do is ignore her.Yep!u may not like it but if she cares a damn about u ignoring her then she is a bitch and is cheating on u.But..if she asks u n bugs u about y ur ignorin her then she really is'nt cheating you...She jus wants more attention from u!!
Hope this worx out 4 u...
*~~Kariena~~*
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OK, well, I wear glasses. I can see without them but not very well. THe thing is, how am I supposed to have sex with glasses on? Wouldn't it be a bit awkward? For those who wear glasses, do you just take them off or do you leave them on? ANy advice is really appreciated!!

U can wear contacts if you wanna or jus take em of.Why on earth wud u wanna hv sex wid ur giasses on??

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How do you kiss good? Liek I know how to give little pecks and stuff but you do you make out...like i've heard the whole "Let it hapen" thing but how do youput your lips on his and stuff? And should i chew gum if I know i'm gonna kiss someone? becausei don't want bad breath! but is it bad to kiss with gum? ahh PLEASE HELP!

Maybe this site will help u out: www.myjellybean.com/flirt/kiss

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ok im a guy and im 15 and i have sum question i have been in a 14 mounth realtionship wit my gurlfriend and for the past 4 mounths we have been breakin up and just fightin becuz the 1st time we broke up she thought i cheated on her but i didnt and the snd time i thought i wasnt gettin any attention cuz she was over her friends house allll the time for like weeks at a time and so we broke up again its been about 6 weeks since we broke up and now she wants me back but we have been findin out alot about eachother lately like she messed around wit a few boys and i messed around wit two gurls but she cheated on me like the last week or so we were together and got fingured by 2 other guys and me i....had sex wit this other gurl that was her "friend" she says but the gurl didnt consider her as a friend and i have a convo were her "friend" says shes not her friend and i made out wit another gurl the day after i was wit my x-gurl (sex). but i really really feel like im in love wit this gurl and she says shes in love wit me but i cant get over the fact that she cheated on me and i dont want to seem like a punk if i do get back wit her u no wat i mean (lol cuz of my friends)and wen we r togther it feels so right and i was her 1st and she was kinda mine cuz i have to tell the truth i believe that u should wait till u find who u want before u have that great 4 sec ya no so i had sex but "I" never finished till me and her made love and so i consider her my 1st but i never told her that. (should I?)but i love this gurl i really do and she said she loves me and i dont see y its not workin out PLZ HELP me!!!!!

I think that you just go n tell her what she means to you and ask her to 4get wotever happened in the past cuz like whatevers gone is gone and theres no point thinkin buot the past.And dont give her a chance to think that ur cheating on her,u kno like just simply love her(and let her know that ur lovin her).Hope I helped...
*~~Kariena~~*
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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him

First of all they are not your true friends.Find a group which will accept you as you are and what you do.And as for your boyfriend tell him that you care a damn about what your friends think and that they're totally different in thinking and anyways you should be knowing that "A Person is known by what he is from inside and not by what he is from outside".Best of Luck...
*~~Kariena~~*
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im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!!

Well,give him your best smile the next time he looks at you and if he smiles back then great HE'S URS!!And yeah age doesn't matter.A smile can speak a thousand words so don't worry.BEST OF LUCK!!
*~~Kariena~~*
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do?

The same thing happened to me.I locked myself in the room and thought about it myself and that's when it hit me....LIFE IS LONG AND THERE WILL BE MANY MORE GUYS COMING YOUR WAY.YOU JUST HAVE TO ACT MORE MATURE.As for your friend:if she goes out with him then she's not your true friend.
Hope I helped u out...
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*~~Kariena~~*

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I liked this kid for a couple months.. but we always would flirt during the school year.. now its the summer n he asked me out n i said yea... because i really started to like him... we went out but he broke up wit me... then he asked me back out and i said yes... then a week later i broke up wit him because he was never wit me n he never called... but then i started to relieze that i missed him alot... n he said he still liked me but he was still thinking about goin out... i was ok wit that... but then he started liken my best friend... i told him he plays around wit peoples heads to much... should i still like this kid? or should i move on?

Look at ur queston carefully....Ur answer is in ur question but u havn't realized it.It's obvious that u shud move on.He's not the only guy in the world.There are many other fish in the sea and if u take ur mind of this guy you will start realizing that.And when u find that guy of ur dreams u wil look back and think "How did I ever fall for this guy?!?"
Hope I helped u...
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*~~Kariena~~*

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my boyfriends birthday is coming up on august 8th and i have no clue whatsoever to get him...please help!!!! (by the way, if this helps, he is turning 15 n is black...only if that helps lolz) ok thnx!

Give him a mixed bag of different stuff like Love CD's or any of his choice,or cologne(but that will make him think that u think he stinks)or choclates.But at the end give him a french kiss.I did that to my boyfriend and he simply indulged into me!!Anyway Best of luck...
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I met this guy last summer at a resort, and I fell in love with him! Both of us had fun all week. We had a bond fire played basketball and alot more.At the end of the week we both had to go home, ( and he lives in a different state)so I figured I would see him again next year. I've talked to him all year on the internet and the phone and ect. When ever I talk to him it always sounds like he likes me and when we say good bye on the internet he types " Bye bye kiss kiss" Now I have had my friends ask him if he likes me and he wont answer them. I even asked him if he liked me. He did not answer me back. What does it meen when he didnt answer me back? Should I talk to him about it and tell him how I feel? and Do you think that he likes me?

Are u sure that you are in love?Maybe it's just an infactuation or somethin'!But if u r in love then plz plz plz DONT ASK UR FRENZ TO ASK HIM ANYTHING.If he's not saying anything to you then he must be afraid that your answer mite be a straight "NO NO".So reassure him a thousand and one times that u like him.Things will surely work out for you....
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Theres this really cute guy down my friends street and his name is Zach , but when I told my friend she kept saying he has a gurlfriend , but when we were playing Basket ball with him and My other friends down the street he just kept staring in to my eyes and when I went to sit down he'd sit with me, What do I do??? HELP ME PLZ JEnipher

THE best thing you can do is ignore him 'cuz the more you ignore him the more he'll get curious and then it won't be to long before he asks u out.PS~GUYS LIKE MYSTERIOUS GIRLS MORE.
SMIELZ,
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