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OK, the story goes like this. I go out with my ex-girlfriend and she says she won't ever leave me, and BANG. A week later she leaves me(she's f/17). I tried to call her...a lot for two weeks. I then decide not to contact her anymore but it's been two months and i'm still not over her. Must i contact her or must i just accept that she will never come back? (link)
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I would try to call her and if it didn't work...well all I have to say, is that unfortunately, we all have to come to accept things, even if we don't want to. I know it sucks, but you just gotta get out there and live your life. It's too short. So get out there and meet people and stuff! :)
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me and this boy have been dating on and off for over a year now.we're not going out right now though.He's cheated on me and lied to me and somehow he gets off by calling me a liar and a player and i would never do that to him and on halloween me and my friend went to his house and we we're playing around at first and then he started getting serious and he slapped me and my friend just sat there only becuz he said he would beat the f*** out of her too.he is quite abusive and i still like him.do you think i should still like him or should i tell someone that he slapped me? (link)
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Tell someone RIGHT NOW. I know this sounds harsh but I know about abuse and shit, so here goes...it's your own damn fault if you get hurt because you decide to take this boy's shit. Tell someone, anyone right now. He won't change, he won't mean it when he says he's sorry, and he WILL do it again! Get some effing help dude.
"he is quite abusive" THINK ABOUT IT.
Hope I helped.
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There is this guy I like and i dont know if he likes me. he says he likes talking to me most in school but yet since people are making fun of our friendship he dont want to talk to me in person. I really like him and I dont want to lose him. What do I do?? (link)
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This guy is not worth a single second of your precious, precious time. It seems to me that he cares more about his reputation than you. Sorry, I know that sucks, but it's true. If he really liked you, he wouldn't care what everyone else thinks, only what you think. Drop this penny and get yourself a dime! :D
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my frend brittany went out with this kid named james. when they broke up, james started talkin 2 me on da computer. he wood kall me sexy nd everythin even tho he neva saw me, he wood always talk 2 me so nice.then 1 day, he asked me out nd i sed yes-not knowin wat he looks like-. wen i DO see him, turns out he's asian. nd no offense but i dunt like asian boys, i like white ones. he's really nice, but he isn't that cute... i wood break up with him but i dunt wanna break his heart since he really loves me...nd i dunt hav da guts 2 break up with some1 cus its 2 sad.... i dunt no wat i shood do!!! heLp me pleeeeeeeeees! (link)
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So you liked the kid, but since you found out he's not in the same race as you you're going to break up with him? Wow...sorry but, this kid isn't the one that has issues. You do. It sucks ass to judge people. Why don't you put yourself in his shoes? If the most amazing guy in the world adored you, but then dropped you on your ass, because you didn't have the same ethnic background as he did, how would you feel? Exactly. Anyways I think you should break up with him now, it'll only hurt him a million times more if you do it later. Oh, and tell the truth! I'd wanna know. So yeah just tell him everything. And I'm a strong believer in karma. So I would never do something like this again if I were you. Hope I helped & good luck.
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Okay i rly like this guys in school and well he flirts a little and i mean a little and were friends but hes RLY hawt! how can i get him to like me? what should i do? **ill rate 55's unless its mean!!! ** (link)
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Well I hope you don't like this guy just because he's hot...it's what's on the inside that REALLY counts...:) Anywho... you can't make anyone like you hon, and how do you know he doesn't already like you? Flirt, flirt, and flirt...but don't try too hard. One day be all over him like syrup on a pancake, next day ignore him...lol. Hope I helped! :D
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Ok im 14/f and my brother is 18. thought that was a good way to start out. Well i always had a crush on my brother's friend. He is like 19 now which is way too old for me. But this weekend i was hanging out with because my brother was having a party for people who were home from college. And my brother's friend that i like is kinda hitting on me like say that when i turn 18 that we are going to date. Also he had like he around are my hips and on butt. I dont know if he was just messing around or serious?? I know that i am not going to date him like NOw because he is way too old for me. And this guy is not a jerk he is soo nice. Out of my brother's friends he is my favorite.
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Well it's good you've decided not to date him yet because he really is too old for you. He was probably just messing around, but I don't know details soo...yeah lol. Well and also behind every "good guy" is an asshole waiting to come out...I learned it the hard way...:/ Not saying this guy is but just to let ya know you may think the world of someone and then they like make a 360 degree turn.
Good luck!!!
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Okay well, I like this Boy named jonathan. But I am afraid to ask him out. What if he says no or somthing . Well the most basic thing is that I am really shy and dont know what to say to them. umm. like what I say I have his phone number or I can talk to him at school but what should i say to him??? Please help if you give me a good answer then I will give you a rating so if you want your rating to go up you can answer this seriously and I will for sure give you a five is if it's good advice (link)
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*Rejection is better than regret*
Talk to him at school. It'll show that you have confidence if you ask him out to his face. You'll have to get over your shyness...lol. Just ask him out! Be like, "So I really like you...blah blah.... would you go out with me?"
Hope I helped!!!
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What is a good birthday present to give to my boyfriend?? im all out all ideas (link)
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Well heres some oh so fabulous ideas:
*Clothes
*A mix CD w/songs that make you think about him
*Anything that deals w/his hobbies*say he likes tennis, buy him a new racket or a million tennis balls that say I LOVE U on them, lol)
*A really sweet card & money
*Well here's what my cousins bf did for Valentine's Day that you could do 4 your b/f's birthday! He called her and told her to go outside, and when she opened the door there was roses & a card. Then he called her again & told her to walk around the house & there he was!!
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My boyfriend just told me that he would rather be friends. I was so hurt today. And To Make it Worse he Likes Someone Else!!!! We still talk. But it feels weird. What can I do to pick up our friendship again? Thanks. And smart remarks will be reported! (link)
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I'm sorry, I know that sucks more than anything! :( Just try to start over, kind of act like it didn't happen(like you 2 were before you started dating) and your friendship should get back to normal in no time! :) Good Luck!
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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much (link)
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Well well well. I think he does like you, from what you've said. Maybe he really was watching a movie and he just left the internet on, but didn't get on AIM. And it's been 9 months since you 2 have broken up and you still hang out regularly, which is a good thing. You probably shouldn't have broken up in the first place! lol! Well I hope i helped!
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Hey, i kind of like my best friends boyfriend,...but the thing is,...i hooked them up,...it's all to strange for me and i dont know what to do. he's nice, funny and cute and everything....i got myself into something big, i know and her mom is like real sick and she's gonna die soon which makes the drama so less appealing (link)
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It is very, very common for girls to hook up the guys they like with there best friends. I don't know why, but we just do it. Well, it really can't be undone. And she's your best friend. Is he worth losing a friendship for? If he is please tell me b/c I wanna meet him!!!!! Trust me on this one, just leave it alone. Boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever. And it's all the more tramatic that her mom is dying. That sucks. She really needs you right now, and her boyfriend. Well hope I helped!
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here it goes,..well, a whole alot of my friend have boyfriends or girlfriends, and i'm the last one in the bunch. but every guy i seem to like goes after someone else and it just seems like loves no for me,..i hate waiting and whenever someone asks me out and i say yes they break up with me that same day. it's like i'm an old toy nobody wants... (link)
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Awww, sweetie I know exactly how you feel. Exactly. The thing is, once you get in a really good relationship with someone you really care about it, and it messes up, you feel twice as bad. You really do. But, don't give up hope. Once you lose hope, you lose everything. There must be someone out there for everyone. I wish you all the best and good luck!
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oo wow this just happend this second . I have been home all day bored out of my mind. My bestfriend and I were planning on going to the movies. But I told her this guy I like is going she knows this guy and she doesnt like him. So now she is saying oo I dont want to go to the movies, so i told her wanna go bowling ice skatting skating etc and she said no she wants to go home and i go why and she goes cause if he is going to be there i dont want to be there. She is being very selfish what do i do? Do i let her go home invite another friend or do I talk to her about and if i do what do i tell her she is very snobby bratty and bitchy. so i have no idea what to tell.
Help Please.
xoxo - Adey (link)
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I'd ditch her. She doesn't sound like very much of a friend. You said it yourself-"she is very snobby bratty and bitchy" So I would just chill with the dude by myself. I wouldn't want someone like that there anyways. Good luck!
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There's this guy, who I'll call David. David has liked me since 6th grade (We're high school Freshman now), and a close friend of his and mine told me he's asking me out within the week, and she persuaded me to say yes. Thsi guy is everything a girl would want in a boyfriend-smart, funny, chivalrous, kind-but I'm just not attracted to him. So should I go through with it? Or dump him early into the relationship? Or just flat-out reject him. Help!!!! (link)
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Tell him the truth. It would suck for you to play along and it would suck tenfold for him if you guys dated and he found out that you never really liked him. Just be honest with him. And don't let other people effect your decision.
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okay there is this guy, matt, and he's a- well- a bit of a slut. we are good mates and last year he got with my friend. not sex or anything but fooled around. i was totally cool with that coz he's a nce guy and everything. but a month or so later i realised i had feelings for him. i told my friend and she was like OMG go for it!!! he had a party, so after a few drinks to soften the blow, i told him i liked him. he was like. OMG i've liked you for ages. i was so happy!!! he kissed me and we were making out when my friend banged on the door asking for me. i ran out and my other friend had passed out. i looked after her and made sure she was okay. when i came out of the room i saw matt kissing his ex. after pouring my heart out to another guy friend i got over it and we kept being friends. we still are. he was like so into my sister so i introduced them but warned my sister about him. they hooked up (not sex) but she wanted nothing else. he was cut up about it but got over it. i havn't spoken to him much lately coz i been busy. but i ran into him at the mall yesterday. we chatted for a while and today he sent me a message saying hey gorgeous, i'm thinking of you. and i dunno whats happening. n e 1 that can help it would be appreciated!!! sorry it's so long. i rate! (link)
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This guy seems like a big player to me!! Stop hooking up with him, unless you don't have any feelings for him at all. And stop letting yourself be influenced by alcohol!
-Hope I helped!-
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what is a hicky exactly? I mean all I know is it's like, well I dunno! lol I mea n, I know it like leaves a bruise, but I don't know what it is...
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A hicky is when you or someone else constantly sucks really hard on your skin. This causes all your blood to rush up, causing a bruise.
-Hope I helped!
--bUtTeRfLiEs--
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im having the worst problem..ok me n my bf well we had sex and i mean i love him with my whole entire heart and we went out for a year and hes my world..and well im not tryin to be mean at all here but he got with this extremely ugly girl thats like 5 inches taller than him..and he tells her all this stuff and they had sex on vday and shes denyin it all and i mean atleast he had enough man in him that he could tell me bout her n all this and i forgave him and now hes telln me he still loves me and he wants me back and i just never thought id ever forgive him but i have no idea what to do i mean today he came over and we messed around which i shouldnt have and his other girl has no idea ..but shes always with other guys too and he just doesnt care and he still likes her but he tells me he loves me and i mean i know its kinda like well hes just wantin some more but its just not like that and i have no clue what to do and im not easy its just that i think im so inlove with him. just i want someone elses advice on this ..im 14 female (link)
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Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot. Who calls you back when you hang up on him. Who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats. Who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're the prettiest when you have no make up on. The one who turns to his friends and says 'that's her!'
This guy seems to be a big player...I would totally forget him! He seems to be using everyone, get rid of him!
-Hope I helped!-
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I have this boyfriend and I need some serious advice. I love him do not get me wrong on what i am about to say. He is an alcoholic. It didn't bother me at first. He used to let me do what i wanted when i wanted and now it's like i have to beg and plead with him to do what i want to do. He expects me to be at his house as soon as i get off work. If i'm not he's mad and we fight. Not all the time but..the majority. He gives me a time to be home and i am . When i tell him a time he says he will do as he pleases.
sometimes he is real mean to me. I cry cause it hurts me. somdays it's like he doesn't want to be together anymore. So then i told him if you want me to leave i will leave. I will get my shit and never come back. Then he pleaded with me . he said no. I love you please don't leave. We play around and sometimes he plays to rough. It's like he doesn't care. I let him go to girls house or even be alone with a girl. But..if i do the same he accuses me of cheating.
He has only hitt me twice out of anger. I buy his cigs,his beer and any thing else he wants.Sometimes he calls me mean names and I've asked him not to. It feels somtimes like he wants hiss cake and he wants to eat it to. Please help me. I don't know what to do anymore. (link)
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You need to get out of this relationship RIGHT NOW. Read what you wrote to yourself, think about it, and get out NOW! This is an abusive, controlling guy who's put you in an abusive relationship, GET OUT! Honey, you don't love him, and even if you do you still need to GET OUT!
-Hope I helped!-
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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend (link)
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Wow, I'm really sorry about your friend.
First of all, you need to explain to your friend that rape is forced sex, and if her boyfriend forced her to have sex with him, then it wasn't her fault at all. You also need to tell her that you're there for her no matter what!
But, no matter what she says, you definitely need to tell someone! RIGHT NOW! It wasn't her fault, it's her boyfriends, and he should be severely punished for it. So, just tell someone!
-Hope I helped!-
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well, tell me please how to make a girl love you truly madly deeply and sincerely till the eternity?
apart from sex? what other things impresses a girl for long? (link)
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In all honesty, you can't make someone fall in love with you. But, here are some things I look for and am impressed by:
*Awesome humor[someone that makes me laugh ALOT :)]
*Compliments me on my looks
*Is genuinely nice[not just to me, but other people too]
*Likes to have fun
*This may not apply to you, but I'm a sucker for guys that play the guitar
*Someone that flirts with me alot
*Someone that has at least 1 or 2 things in common with me
*Someone who isn't shallow
*And over-all just someone who's awesome
-Hope I helped & Good luck getting your girl! :)-
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