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my frend brittany went out with this kid named james. when they broke up, james started talkin 2 me on da computer. he wood kall me sexy nd everythin even tho he neva saw me, he wood always talk 2 me so nice.then 1 day, he asked me out nd i sed yes-not knowin wat he looks like-. wen i DO see him, turns out he's asian. nd no offense but i dunt like asian boys, i like white ones. he's really nice, but he isn't that cute... i wood break up with him but i dunt wanna break his heart since he really loves me...nd i dunt hav da guts 2 break up with some1 cus its 2 sad.... i dunt no wat i shood do!!! heLp me pleeeeeeeeees!
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are you serious? your opinion on the guy totally changed because you found out hes asian. thats so incredibly shallow, please break up with him, you dont deserve him. go find some one just as shallow and superfical as yourself. this guy donst deserve this I dont really care who he is. if you cant like some one because of personality, you arent going to have many good relationships.
and next time please spell in english, it took way too long to figure out what the hell you were saying.
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you got 2 choices. one give him a chance. so what if he asian everyone different and everyone deserves a chance so try making it work. dont just judge him by his ethnisty. or 2nd choice just breka up with him tell him it isnt working out and you dont want to hrut him but if you didnt do it faster it would hurt him more and you didnt want to do that. dont keep goin out wit him if you dont like him it will break his heart even more.
*~Stephanie~*
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So you liked the kid, but since you found out he's not in the same race as you you're going to break up with him? Wow...sorry but, this kid isn't the one that has issues. You do. It sucks ass to judge people. Why don't you put yourself in his shoes? If the most amazing guy in the world adored you, but then dropped you on your ass, because you didn't have the same ethnic background as he did, how would you feel? Exactly. Anyways I think you should break up with him now, it'll only hurt him a million times more if you do it later. Oh, and tell the truth! I'd wanna know. So yeah just tell him everything. And I'm a strong believer in karma. So I would never do something like this again if I were you. Hope I helped & good luck.
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P.S. Don't date someone you haven't met!! :)
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You have to admit... You know it wasn't exactly the smartest thing to do... Going out with a guy you never even met?
You can't keep dating him. If you do, your entire "relationship" is a lie, basically.
Next time you see/talk to him, just say to him that you really like him and you really think he's sweet, but he's not for you. Tell him that you'd love to still be friends but you just don't want a relationship with anyone right now. Also mention that you're sorry if you lead him on in any way.
If you keep dating him, you'll end up hurting him 10 times as bad in the end.
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You shouldn't go out with someone if you don't want to. That will definately lead to more problems. You're going to have to break it with him. But do it nicely =) Just say things happened too soon, and you're not ready to have a relationship with him yet. You just met him and you don't know him that well. Those are pretty good reasons to break up with him, since you know, they ARE kind of true. Be nice though =)
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