Hey, i kind of like my best friends boyfriend,...but the thing is,...i hooked them up,...it's all to strange for me and i dont know what to do. he's nice, funny and cute and everything....i got myself into something big, i know and her mom is like real sick and she's gonna die soon which makes the drama so less appealing
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? milliethu answered Monday October 24 2005, 9:57 pm: i would just let it go. your rite, its not a good time for drama so you should probly just talk to her boyfriend snd tell him you didnt mean for it to happen. you shouldnt tell her about it or she would probly be varry upset.it feels rong but later you will realise that it was for the better. think. if she found out, she would probly maby b/u with him and get mad at you and it sounds to me she could use a good boyfriend and not to mention a good friend. but make shure no one else knows about the hook up or the plan not to tell her could backfire. hope i helped [ milliethu's advice column | Ask milliethu A Question ]
bUtTeRfLiEs answered Sunday October 23 2005, 12:29 am: It is very, very common for girls to hook up the guys they like with there best friends. I don't know why, but we just do it. Well, it really can't be undone. And she's your best friend. Is he worth losing a friendship for? If he is please tell me b/c I wanna meet him!!!!! Trust me on this one, just leave it alone. Boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever. And it's all the more tramatic that her mom is dying. That sucks. She really needs you right now, and her boyfriend. Well hope I helped!
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Advicelady6798 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 4:54 pm: I know what it is like to like your best friends b/f especially if you hook them up. The ting is my best friend like dmy brothers friend travis. I though well she liek shim and he likes her. I hooked them up and then i relized that i liked him to. I went out of my way to break them up so i could have him. I lost my best friend that i ever had b/c of it. I think that you should wait to see if things work out between them. If they dont and break up then its not your fault and you can have a chance but dont break them up even if you like him. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
Living_A_Dream answered Saturday October 22 2005, 4:52 pm: wow well the fisrt part about likeing her boyfriend i totally understand i did the same thing i hooked up my bestfreind with her boyfreind and tehn i started to like him... and well i felt horrable when i started to like him. i thoughti was the worst person in the world and then i told her and we talked it out and then she said that if i realy liked him and it stared causeing problems then she would break up wiht him.. so maybe you should talk to your friend.. but it is hard becasue her mom is dieing isnt it.. well if i were you i would talk toyour freind and tell her how you feel.. and then see where it goes you dont want to hurt her feelings though just be like hey .... im realy sorry but i have to tell you this.. and then tell her and tell her you didnt intentional mean to like him itjust happend.. hope i helped..
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winter12 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 3:09 pm: if you like your bestfriend boyfriend you should have went with him,just find you somebody else then,and if her mother is gonna die soon then that's gonna kill her too find out that her friend like's her bf and her mother is gonna die. [ winter12's advice column | Ask winter12 A Question ]
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