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bestfriends help asap


Question Posted Saturday October 22 2005, 6:32 pm

oo wow this just happend this second . I have been home all day bored out of my mind. My bestfriend and I were planning on going to the movies. But I told her this guy I like is going she knows this guy and she doesnt like him. So now she is saying oo I dont want to go to the movies, so i told her wanna go bowling ice skatting skating etc and she said no she wants to go home and i go why and she goes cause if he is going to be there i dont want to be there. She is being very selfish what do i do? Do i let her go home invite another friend or do I talk to her about and if i do what do i tell her she is very snobby bratty and bitchy. so i have no idea what to tell.
Help Please.
xoxo - Adey


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Vendetta answered Sunday October 23 2005, 1:46 am:
Just let her go home. If she doesn't want to be there, don't force her to. You like the guy, and she doesn't. She does not have to be around people she doesn't like. I haven't gone to certain places because people I completely resent were coming. It is her choice. I think the best thing to do is hang out with whoever you made plans with -first-.

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bUtTeRfLiEs answered Sunday October 23 2005, 12:05 am:
I'd ditch her. She doesn't sound like very much of a friend. You said it yourself-"she is very snobby bratty and bitchy" So I would just chill with the dude by myself. I wouldn't want someone like that there anyways. Good luck!
<3 ECE

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caden answered Saturday October 22 2005, 8:08 pm:
You should tell her that you like this guy and that is what matters and if she liked a guy you didnt, you would not rave and rant. Hope I Helped

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hotlips251968 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 7:53 pm:
look good true freinds are one in a lifetime. if shes really snobby and bitchy. and she wont go with you to go see a guy you like then shes not a true friend. but if she isnt then dump her ass and go out with the guy. hope i helped

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Advicelady6798 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 7:37 pm:
I think that you should go out with the guy if you like him. If she was truly your friend then she would have supported you and gone to the movies even if she didnt like him. A thought is to ask her why she doesnt like him. A solution would be to go to the movies with her and then go to the movies with him. She might feel like a tird wheel if it was just the three of you. Finding her a date would probably help that way she wouldnt feel like a third wheel on a date. Dont stop seeing this guy b/c your friend doesnt like him. You do what you want and dont do it b/c yu want to please someone else. I think that if you talk to her about it will make you feel much better and less miserable. If you dont talk to her then the problem wont be solved it will probably cause more or they just wont go away.

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