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Hey Guyz and galz!!!!
I'm 15...i go to a fine arts school. (love music questions) i'm there for singing and piano! I love giving advice! I think that everyone needs someone to talk to! If you have any questions, please ask! I love helping people! and remember........ aria luvs u 333!

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alright I've been dating this guy for about a month in a half. Hes perfect he already bought me roses and he treats me soo good. But i dont know what to get him for Valentines Day can you please help me? thanks

ok...well..theres this really cute talking picture frame at sharper image! Its a picture frame....but not your average picture frame you can put a picture of yourself in it and record something like "i love u" so he can hear you say that everytime he looks at it. I got one for my bf and he loved it! Its not that expensive its like 20.00!

~*~ Aria ~*~

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Say if you and your boyfriend just broke up, and your so over him, and you like somebody else. Whats some good songs for situations like that? THANKS *

Since you've been gone! BY KELLY CLARKSON!

"since youve been gone i can breath for the first time im so moving on yeah yeah..."

haha!!its great! I feel the same way!

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ok well theres this guy that i like and well hes like my ex we hav had an on and off relationship, but we have been seperated for almost 3 months and i miss him and i want him back. i have a feeling he likes me but then i have a feeling he doesn't. how do i know and how do i ask him out because i mean its just kind of weird.

i think that you should explain that you still have feelings for him. If you guys went out before you should be able to talk to him. Just explain that you want to be with him again and see how he reacts then play it from there...

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Okay Theres A Guy I really like but The thing is he lives in Michigan and I live in tennesee And every day i am wanting him beside me by my side.I cant Get over him no matter how hard I try. I am in love and I know I am. Ive neveR felt ThiS kindA love when I do talk to him.Hes Always has beenthere for me and had soothed me through thick n thin. Im just so depressed cuz we live so far away and its just not fair to me . I keep missing him everyday.I donT know how to control myself I Justdont know How I can ever stop thinkin about Him .What Can Ii do To not think about him so much
!? _love glaze

awwww sweetie! i no exactly how you feel!! i likd a guy in utah...and i live in texas...yes i no long distance realationships are REALLY hard!...try doing something you like more often examples: singing, dancing, drawing, sports...ect...and you might be able to think about him less! I no exactly what your going through im going through the same thing right now! Unfortunatley i *always* end up liking guys that live far away! Hey, you can im me anytime on arialuvsu333 ok?

hope i helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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i just found out my boyfriend is gay...this is so weird...what do i do? i still love him a lot and just "being friends" would be really awkward ...im so confused!

woah...haha coming from a fine arts school i deal with alot of gay people. Well, theres really nothing you can do... i had a crush on a guy and then he claimed himself gay...thats why he wouldn't go out with me...(makes sense) but i personally don't believe anyone is gay or lesbian...i just think that they are confused and don't understand there feelings...i think that its just a phase but for now...just try to cope with it...i no it can be really embarissing...:/...if you ever need to talk just im me arialuvsu333 ok?? Good luck hun!

Let me know what happens!!ok?
~*~ Aria ~*~

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I have a boyfriend & I know that I love him. But theres another guy. My bf hates him and I like him a lot- and the guy that I like has a gf. When I ask him if he still likes me he says kinda and then he asks me and I say yes- a lot. I know that my boyfriend and I have a great relationship and I dont want to lose it but I definately DONT kno wut to do bout this other guy. I'm 13 years old and female.

I kinda seem desparate but I would like help!! Thanks!

thats tuff...ive been in this situation before...i think it would be best to try and work things out with your bf. Explain to him that you like him still...but you also have feelings for another guy and see what he says... i no it sounds stupid...but at least you will know that you are being truthful to him...Don't go and try to break up the other couple...but i think you need to be honest with your bf. Think of who you would be happier with...then thats your answer!

hope i helped!!
~*~Aria~*~

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Ok...there is this really cute guy at school. We know eachother and talk during show choir, but I REALLY like and am wondering what I should do. I mean, I go up to him to say something, but then, I get really nervous. I don't do this around normal guy friends though even though he's a friend. Not a CLOSE one though.

haha! I no exactly what you mean! If you have trouble talking to him in person...try writing him a note!just to say hi, and then explain your feelings for him. That way, you don't have to look stupid and get tounge twisted when your trying to talk to him!( ( believe me I've been there) ) this is me : uh um..
the guy: yea...
me: i um..just wanted to um.. tell you umm...
the guy: uh huh...
( i think you get it)
haha it was so embarrising! If i had to do it all over again i would of just written him a note!lol all you have to do is hand it to him! haha!

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ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!!

well...all the times you broke up was for another girl?!?! wow. i wouldn't go back out with him especially if this has happened 4 times! It sounds to me like he doesn't "love" you. It sounds like hes just trying to lure you back into his arms. But, you know him better than we do. Just be careful, try not to get hurt, and try not to be naive!

Good Luck!
Hope I helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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this sounds really but here it goes... how do you kiss someone?

ooo wow...lol! um it depends on what type of kissing...
peck- you and your partner just put ur lips together (the typical pukker up) and then let go of course

regular-is like moving your lips around! haha!

french- is reglar except you put your tounge in his/her mouth and vise versa lol

*but you wanna close your eyes, if it doesn't happen naturaly*!!! haha

Hope i helped!
HAVE FUN...(but not 2 much fun!!! haha)
~*~ Aria ~*~

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i realli realli like this girl and she realli likes me (says her friends) but she has a "popular" boyfriend! what should i do!

it doesn't matter if she has a popular boyfriend...if she really likes you she wouldn't care...am i understanding this correctly...she has a boyfriend...but she likes you?...well,you should probubly ask her yourself if she likes you, ( ( just to get things straightend out ) ) and if she does...ask her why shes still going out with this "popular" guy...

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I have a friend that i have none for a bout 2years and I think i am developing feelings for him however he is with a good friend of mine wut the hell should i do!!-

i think you should tell him. But, when i told my good friend that i liked him...it became really awkward. He hardly talked...but anyway we eneded up going out about two weeks later!lol i think it would be best to let him no how you feel i mean if he is really your best friend...you can tell him anything right???
hope i helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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hey... lately iv'e been getting the feeling that my boyfriend doesn't have enough time for me. We're in a long distance relashionship and i'm always the one calling him, which is pretty messed up if you ask me. He hasn't been returning my calls either, and he still hasn't sent my christmas present. The past three times i called him he's like "i gotta go do my homework, i'll call you later tonight k?" and then i wait till like 11pm and he never calls and then i don't hear from him for like a week. We've been going out for soo long and i really trust him, but i can't help thinking he might be with another behinde my back, cuse i have no possible way of actually knowing. i don't want to comfront him about it, but i really want to know what the hell is going on cuse it makes me so ed off and confused at the same time. [dont tell me to dump him cuse i love him :-/]please help!!

well...when you call him again...and he gives u that homework excuse...just say wait...whats going on with you...why haven't you been returning my calls? and say....please don't say your gonna call if you don't plan on it...(that way your not accusing him of cheating on you your just simply asking a question) so hell probubly feel bad about not calling you and then he'll talk to you.
hope i helped!
Let me no what happens ok?
~*~ Aria ~*~

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Okay, there is this really hot guy in my science class. I know that he knows I like him, but I dont think he likes me. How can I find out without having
one of my friends ask for me?

be creative! Just go up and talk to him...if he flirts with you alot then he either is leading you on...or really does like you! however, if he doesn't really seem interested in what you have to say then i would say he doesn't like you. But, whatever you do make sure you come across as confident. If he doesn't seem interested just say , well see ya later! be nice....don't be afraid to take risks! let me no what happens!!!!ok?

hope i helped! Good luck!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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I like this guy who likes me too, but the thing is I'm so scared to fall in love because i dont wanna get hurt! My friend thinks i've already fallin for him but i'm hoping that It's not true! It's weird because when i'm not around him I feel so empty! But then when he's with me I fell like my feet won't ever touch the ground again. How can I not fall in Love?!

you cant not fall in love! im sorry but thats the way it goes. I felt the exact same way a couple of months ago...ended a realationship over it. I think the best thing for you to do is just to take it slow. So you wont get hurt that easily and may be able to detect when your about to be hurt! keep in touch let me no how it works out! my screen name is arialuvsu333
hope i helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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Aria my girlfriend says that we should have been friends first before we went out. She says we can stay together just become good friends. How can i trust that she will not say that she enjoys me better as a friend and doesn't want to go back out

whatever will be will be....if thats going to make her happy then... im really sorry. you no...you could just call and explain how you feel...its not like i don't know who this is...its about you n me! Yes and thats what i thought! next time...just talk to me one on one...don't be a looser and wright my advice column k?

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I like this guy who is a musician...actually he's in three different bands. So, every weekend he has shows that he plays. Being supportive, I come to see him play, but since he's playing we hardly get to talk, and when we do he's worn out and tired. Our conversations are pretty much meaningless online , and I don't like to call guys- I wait for them to call me.
Lately he's seemed pretty distant. Is this a sign for me to back off, or is he waiting for me to make the first move?

i, being a musician myself, know that they are really busy. I wouldn't say to back off... I just think his priorities are in a certain order. Music, being pretty high up there, is probubly more imporatant than a girlfriend...not trying to be rude....just honest!...but i have heard that some gys like it when girls make the first move....and then again...he could be completely oblivious to the whole situation and not even realize that you feel this way.
I for one love musicians..you have great taste!
hope i helped!
~*~Aria~*~

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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and I live with him now. Well, he wants a kid really bad and I told him no because I'm almost 20 and we both work at MAC. And, MAC doesn't really pay us good. And obviously, you need money to have a kid. I'm on BC and have been for like 8 months and somehow I lost my pills. I'm organized, and I dont misplace things hardly ever and I think my boyfriend stole them. I'm getting more pills tomorrow but I just KNOW my boyfriend stole them! He hasint talked to me in two days because I accused him of stealing them. Why does he want a freaking kid so bad!? I dont want to break up with him, its been 3 years and I dont want to throw our relationship away. But what can I say to him to get his mind off kids!!!

ok....well if he is older than you...he just wants a family. You BOTH need to be ready...not just one. Explain that to him...that it takes two...you can't do it alone...and if your not ready to commit at age 20?...theres totally nothing wrong with that! This is not something to be taken lightly...When the time is right...and your ready to become a mom...and both of you are committed...thats the time to start a family. You shouldn't of accused him of taking your pills(even though it sounds like its true and probubly is )..you should of just been like...huh? my pills are missing! do you have any idea on where they went? and if he says no..just say ok...ill go get new ones then!...but ...now...just tell him your sorry for the acuisation and be nice about it! it was just a sudden, spur-of-the-moment, reaction.

hope i helped!
~*~ Aria~*~

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Today I found out that my boyfriend may be moving away. There is still a chance that he will be staying but if he does move, I don't know how I am going to cope. It would be very hard to visit him as I am too drive so I would only get to see him once every month or so, probably not even that. If he does move, how do I cope? Is it worth carrying on the relationship or should I just end things? Thank you.

wow! Thats hard! If the realationship is awesome...and you think you really have something...then don't let anything get in the way!...Then again if you are having trouble now keeping the realationship strong...then a long-distance realationship isn't going to make it better...it will probubly get worse! Trust me...if you feel no connection...long distance realationships don't work out.

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Ok, I'm 17 and me and my bf just broke up. Well, i'm not suppose to talk to him ever again and I did. Huge mistake, but now he's saying he will tell my mom we've been talking if I don't see him or do what he wants me to do. What should I do?

tell your mom first! all you did is talk! this guy is a jerk! Chances are your mom will be happy that you didn't do what he wanted you to do!

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