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not enough time?
hey... lately iv'e been getting the feeling that my boyfriend doesn't have enough time for me. We're in a long distance relashionship and i'm always the one calling him, which is pretty messed up if you ask me. He hasn't been returning my calls either, and he still hasn't sent my christmas present. The past three times i called him he's like "i gotta go do my homework, i'll call you later tonight k?" and then i wait till like 11pm and he never calls and then i don't hear from him for like a week. We've been going out for soo long and i really trust him, but i can't help thinking he might be with another behinde my back, cuse i have no possible way of actually knowing. i don't want to comfront him about it, but i really want to know what the hell is going on cuse it makes me so ed off and confused at the same time. [dont tell me to dump him cuse i love him :-/]please help!!
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I'm sorry but the advice I'm giving is that long distance relationships usually don't work. If you have suspicions about him cheating on you you should ask, because it will eat at you until you do. If he responds by yelling at you, or acting really shady in his answer.. he is most likely. And as for time, he has a life where he is, and maybe he is just busy.. if he loved you, he would make the time like you have. I'm not asking you to do anything, I'm just giving you my opinion on the matter.
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i think you need to talk to him because if you dont he could think that you dont like him anymore and that you've forgotten about him. but thats the thing with long distance relationships there hard to work out because you dont know what the other person is doing 24/7 so its difficult but every relationship has a phase where the people are feeling like there spending more time with other people and not seeing each other enough, but they talk through it and get over it. dont worry much about the christmas present because if you know he loves you that should be enough.
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well...when you call him again...and he gives u that homework excuse...just say wait...whats going on with you...why haven't you been returning my calls? and say....please don't say your gonna call if you don't plan on it...(that way your not accusing him of cheating on you your just simply asking a question) so hell probubly feel bad about not calling you and then he'll talk to you.
hope i helped!
Let me no what happens ok?
~*~ Aria ~*~
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try to talk to him . there is probley something going on and he doesn't want to tell you and thats why he is not telling you and trying to hide it. you might be able to work it out with him so call him to the point where he has time to talk to you thats the only way. ~natalie~
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he is busy, pick up another hobby besides pestering him, like knitting.
-hitler the goat
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