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Member Since: January 13, 2005
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Last Update: January 13, 2005
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hey... lately iv'e been getting the feeling that my boyfriend doesn't have enough time for me. We're in a long distance relashionship and i'm always the one calling him, which is pretty messed up if you ask me. He hasn't been returning my calls either, and he still hasn't sent my christmas present. The past three times i called him he's like "i gotta go do my homework, i'll call you later tonight k?" and then i wait till like 11pm and he never calls and then i don't hear from him for like a week. We've been going out for soo long and i really trust him, but i can't help thinking he might be with another behinde my back, cuse i have no possible way of actually knowing. i don't want to comfront him about it, but i really want to know what the hell is going on cuse it makes me so ed off and confused at the same time. [dont tell me to dump him cuse i love him :-/]please help!! (link)
i think you need to talk to him because if you dont he could think that you dont like him anymore and that you've forgotten about him. but thats the thing with long distance relationships there hard to work out because you dont know what the other person is doing 24/7 so its difficult but every relationship has a phase where the people are feeling like there spending more time with other people and not seeing each other enough, but they talk through it and get over it. dont worry much about the christmas present because if you know he loves you that should be enough.


okay there is this guy i like at school we'll call him erik so anyways erik and i have gotten to be closer friends and i mean we hug and we'll put our arms around each other and walk down the halls like that till we see a teacher or get to close to the office, im not suer if he is flirting or not i think he is but still not sure ya no? if it helps he calls me home grl and things like that and he smells AMAZING! what ever colone he wears smells really good on him! so i still dont know what to do cuz he doesnt have aim so i couldnt talk to him like that plz help! (link)
this guy erik he sees you more as a friend than anything else becuase you're not upfront about your feelings so hes afraid to ask you because he thinks you'll reject, my suggestion would be to talk to him (and when you do odnt tell him that you smell him unless you already told him but anyway if you do tell him that if he doesnt like you theres a possiblity that he could go and start labeling you a stalker even though hes probably just joking with his friends)




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