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Who the hell knows!!!!


Question Posted Friday January 14 2005, 2:32 pm

I have a friend that i have none for a bout 2years and I think i am developing feelings for him however he is with a good friend of mine wut the hell should i do!!-

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Kori15 answered Friday January 14 2005, 9:27 pm:
You aren't in that rare of a position. There are many girls/guys that start to develop crushes on their friends. First, think about what you would rather have with him...a close friendship or a Boyfriend/Girlfriend status. Now, If you choose the boyfriend/girlfriend status, then you have to think about what might happen if you go out and end up breaking up...on bad terms(this can happen). Are you willing to give up a long term friendship for a short term relationship? I hope I helped.
*Kori*

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arialuvsu333 answered Friday January 14 2005, 6:29 pm:
i think you should tell him. But, when i told my good friend that i liked him...it became really awkward. He hardly talked...but anyway we eneded up going out about two weeks later!lol i think it would be best to let him no how you feel i mean if he is really your best friend...you can tell him anything right???
hope i helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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lildiamyn_69 answered Friday January 14 2005, 5:26 pm:
If he is with a good friend of yours, and you're sure you guys are good friends, leave him the hell alone. Boys will come and go but friends stay at least until after high school.

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday January 14 2005, 4:52 pm:
just tell him it might be wierd but just tell him no matter how hard it is to tell him and i have been in that situation before and it was hard to tell him but it turns out he was feeling the same way to!-trix

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hitler_the_goat answered Friday January 14 2005, 3:58 pm:
sex, but wear a condom. if he's good in the sack, let him live as your love slave. if not, strangle him with a towel and dump his body in the nearest water source. preferably a town reservoir.
-hitler the goat

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tawnyj2j answered Friday January 14 2005, 3:52 pm:
just ask him if nit ready to ask him invite him for dinner and talk to him alot then ask him

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BabiiD answered Friday January 14 2005, 3:45 pm:
GIRL, I think that if you want to stay his friend, then you should'nt go out with him----boyfriends are lying, cheating, triffiling, dogs.(most of the time) If he becomes your boy, then he might get the hint that its ok to treat you wrong,and mostly all relationships come to end sometime, and then you've lost a friend AND got your heart broken.
$$BabiiD$$$

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday January 14 2005, 3:31 pm:
Well i think you should keep those feelings to yourself..until they break up or something.. i mean if they both your really good friends i wouldnt tell him that your having feelings for him cause that might ruin their relationship..i mean thats what i'd do if i was you..and it might be hard cause you like him and have feelings for him more then friends..but i hope i helped atleast a lil bit i tried my best...~*DEZ*~

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Karen answered Friday January 14 2005, 3:30 pm:
Well since you think you are developing feelings for him, don't tell him just yet. Make sure you know you have feelings for him and then tell him that you do, after he breaks up with your friend. Also, make sure your friend doesn't have feelings for him too. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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xxBrOkEnxx answered Friday January 14 2005, 3:11 pm:
dont tell him until your sure you have feelings for him..then when you know for sure tell him but he might start acting different so there are some things to watch out for

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BeautifulMadness answered Friday January 14 2005, 3:03 pm:
Hi!
You say you 'think' you're 'developing' feelings for him? Personally I think that 'think' and 'developing' aren't good enough excuses to wreck a relationship. If you knew you were in love with him, I'd suggest talking it over with your friend, but until then...
But either way, I would mention it to your friend that you like her boyfriend, before things get out of hand. I've seen my friends go through this, and it's not pretty. Whatever happens, make sure the girlfriend is never kept in the dark. She'll get over you liking her boyfriend or even going out with him, eventually, but she'll never get over you lying to her. It'd be hard to tell her, but if you don't and you did end up dating this guy and she didn't know, she'd never forgive you. If you respect her at all, as soon as you think something might happen between you and this guy, you'll tell her.
I hope that helped!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx

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