Question Posted Wednesday January 26 2005, 6:29 pm
i just found out my boyfriend is gay...this is so weird...what do i do? i still love him a lot and just "being friends" would be really awkward ...im so confused!
arialuvsu333 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 10:17 pm: woah...haha coming from a fine arts school i deal with alot of gay people. Well, theres really nothing you can do... i had a crush on a guy and then he claimed himself gay...thats why he wouldn't go out with me...(makes sense) but i personally don't believe anyone is gay or lesbian...i just think that they are confused and don't understand there feelings...i think that its just a phase but for now...just try to cope with it...i no it can be really embarissing...:/...if you ever need to talk just im me arialuvsu333 ok?? Good luck hun!
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 7:17 pm: Well i would say you shouldnt be with him if he is gay i mean that would be just odd being with him. He wouldnt have feelings for you because he is gay and you shouldnt have to be with someone or even want to be with someonew who is gay and doesnt like you in that way. And just as a friend-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 7:08 pm: This is a rough time in your bfs life right now. He needs support! I would really try and be his friend..despite the awkwardness. Hes confused and he needs a good friend. Hes probably thinking aobut how to tell his parents..and if he wantts to come out of the closet in school..he will have to start worrying about the mean ppl in school who will make fun of him..etc. So yes definately try and be his friend!
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Basketball3846 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 6:49 pm: Well the best thing you could do for him is support him. I think it's hard enough for him to have to tell you because this is all probably harder for him. It's understandable that you love him still, but maybe try to love him like a brother. (if you know what I mean) Don't lose him as a friend just because he's gay. Good Luck! [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
MiZzAdViCe16 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 6:49 pm: i think even tho how akward it can be to be just friends i think you should take the route because i have heard the gay guys marry woman and not have sex with them...
MissMicaela answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 6:32 pm: If you really love him you will accept that he is gay and be there for him. Gay guys can be pretty good friends. He will seriously need you as he goes through this confusing thing he has encountered. Hope I helped!
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