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he called me by my friend's name 3 times yesterday at school. He had been flirting with my friend before this, a lot. both of them had. He is thinks leona lewis is fine and hott, and he told my friend, infront of my face, that she looked like leona lewis. It was the most uncomfortable thing ever because he is obsessed with leona. We don't hang out accept school because he can't hang with girls until he's 16. I'm so sick of him. Are these reasons good enough to dump him? (link)
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definitely. and you don't even have to tell him those reasons when you dump him. if he doesn't realize what he is doing, then that is his fault. if you don't even get to hang out with him, then it isn't worth putting up with this. he obviously doesn't know how to treat a girl so find someone who does.
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hi. 15/m
i've known this girl for about a month. i met her at a football game. she's really pretty and just all around great. great personality, etc...all the good stuff.
so last night, at another football game, i asked her out. we'd been talking over aim/facebook since we'd met and i really like her.
well after i asked her she thinks for a minute, then turns to me and says "i need to think about it". then i give her a hug because i had to leave.
well i got a message from her this morning after i got home from saturday varsity swim practice that said "i really really really like you but i don't really want a boyfriend right now...not saying i wont in a couple weeks or months but i dont want it to be awkward around us..." etc.
well we've been talking litterally like....all day. and so i think what i'm trying to ask is do i try again in a couple weeks or what? i don't really have much experience with girls...i've only ever had one girlfriend and so idk if i should try again later or if i should look for someone else...
thanks a bunch
G.M. (link)
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When girls say "I don't want a boyfriend right now." its their way of saying "no" while trying to not hurt your feelings. I'd suggest that you stay friends with her. In a few weeks or months if she DOES want you as a boyfriend, wait for her to make the move, because she already knows you like her. So if she changes her mind and wants to be your girlfriend, she will probably be comfortable letting you know.
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This may be long, and if it is I apologize in advance.
Three weeks ago we got a foreign exchange student, his name is Damon, and he's from Italy. (He's in my grade; I'm a junior) Normally foreign exchange students just fall into a certain group...like when we got a student from Spain, he just fell in with the Spanish speakers...but he's already extremly popular, and so many girls like him already. He's very good looking actually, and the sexy accent also adds to that. He's fair skinned, has black wavy hair that falls to his shoulders and dark green eyes.
Anyways, he's extraordinarily smart. He speaks Spanish, Italian, German, (Which I'm also fluent in)English, and French. He's in a lot of my AP classes and we were assigned to do a project together in my AP English class. It's a 10 page essay and we're supposed to work together.
So for the past week we've been meeting up after school and practice (He made Varsity soccer, and I'm a varsity cheerleader so we both have practice after school)at a cafe or some other place and we've been working together on this project we have. A few days ago when we were working he said "I think we've worked enough today, why don't we get to know eachother a little better" and I said okay. So we talked and I actually got to know him a lot better, there were some things he wouldn't talk about...like his family, but I learned we have the same taste in books and in music and he really is a great guy.
What I really like about him though is that he's a great listener and more mature than guys his age. He actually pays atention to me when I talk and looks at my eyes, not my... Anyway, he's so nice to me. He hugs me when he sees me in the halls and calls me beautiful and he's taken to calling me "principessa" which obviously means princess in English. We've also started to hang out when we're not working on the project. Sometimes he speaks to me in Italian, which I understand some, but I'm nowhere near fluent so I always say I don't understand. He just siles and says "Well I guess we're going to have to fix that aren't we?" And he has been teaching me some.
Here's the problem:
I can't tell if he likes me. If he was American then I'd say yah...but people tell me that's just the way Italian guys act? I have a bunch of girls telling me that what he's doing means nothing and that he's just a player, and that's just how Italian boys act around girls; they're just bg flirts... So now I'm all confused, and I don't know what to believe. I don't know if I want to get invlolved with a guy who may not even be in the staes a year from now...
Today my ex-boyfriend Theron came up to me and started harrasing me about Damon and then, poof, Damon shows up out of nowhere and all of a sudden there fighting. (Not phsically, but it probably would have gone there if I hadn't stopped them) Damons defending me because Theron's saying some pretty hurtful stuff...
After the mess of a fight Damon could tell I was upset so he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies, and I said yes. Afterward he drove me home and walked me to my door and he hugged me and then pulled away. I thought he was going to kiss me for a second, but them he just leaned down and kissed me on my forehead and said goodnight. Now I'm even more confused, because if he's playing a game then he's really good at it and now I like him more then ever...I don't know what to do anymore.
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I spend a month in Europe every month, so I know a lot about European guys, and they are always very gentlemanly and flirtacious. But he wouldn't ask you to the movies and kiss you on the forehead if he wasn't interested in you. Usually European guys just want to be gentlemen, so unlike American boys, they don't try and hook up with you on the first date. So I think he is trying to charm you. I don't think you even have to make a move or anything, he seems really confident and into you so just wait and if he wants a relationship with you, or anything, he will make a move.
Butttt my school has a lot of exchange students, and sometimes they just want to hook up with as many girls as possible. He seems sweet, though, so I doubt he just wants to get in your pants.
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But I get nervous around her and tongue tied. Can people help me think what to say besides hows your day going or to compliment her cause thats really i can think about...Like a way to break the ice and ask her questions that dont seem weird but casual (link)
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Well make sure that when you compliment her, that its something really sincere. If you say "You look good today" or "Your hair looks nice today" its not going to sound sincere and she'll probably just forget you said it. So say something that you REALLY notice, don't compliment her just to compliment her, and she will remember it and probably look at you in a different light.
And I wouldn't ask her questions that are too specific..but ask her how her weekend was or what's new with her so that you get a better answer than "good" and you can actually get to talking. But if you ask her random questions that come out of nowhere, she might be a little creeped out. Just act interested in her, be interesting, and be easy to talk to
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sorry i didn't know what to put this under but, i have a problem with my makeup staying on for a long time. No matter what i do it just wont stay on for more than an hour unless i keep puttin it on, especially the eyeliner. Any tips on how to get the eyeliner to last longer atleast? (link)
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I don't know how to make eyeliner last longer, but I do know that Revlon Colorstay stays on all day. And it doesn't smudge.
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HI this may sound like a stupid question but im a black girl and Im attracted 2 skater type of guys and I like rock music,and in my collage we have alot of those type of guys but the only colored women they date is mixed raced girls Iv asked a couple out and they have all said no.I was wondering is this becouse they dont find black women attractive? (link)
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Maybe they think that you are too forward..a lot of guys are turned off by girls who make the first move. But a lot of skater guys have a certain "type" they like to date..I have a friends with benefits thing going on with a skater guy and I think he is afraid to take the next step towards a relationship because I'm not as edgy as some of his ex-girlfriends. But if they are too shallow to get to know you as a person and if they judge you solely on your looks, then you don't want to date them anyways. I've never heard anywhere that skater guys don't like black women, though. You should attempt to get to know them and let them get to know you before you ask them out so they can see that you're not the stereotypical black girl.
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25f since i was a junior in high school I've known of this guy, extremely popular, so I was shy around him, we had like a couple conversations while in high school but not much. Then college came and went, I never thought I'd ever get a chance to really know him. But he came back, and is now working as a bouncer at a sportsbar that I go to a lot. We talk now, he teases me, I catch him staring all the time at me, and he doesn't look away when i catch him, we've had one sexual encounter, not sex, but it was 2 years ago, he's always doing things like snatching my cigarette out of my hand so he can get a hit of it, always lurking around whenever I'm sitting with a guy. He's been in my head for 9 years and I know that he's probably not the type to settle down any time soon, and I want to move on, but I can't seem to, because in my mind he's perfect, he's like a God, I feel like I need to have another sexual encounter with him in order for me to see him as just a regular human being, because I need to move on with my life and find someone that does need to settle down, so should I try to seduce him in order to get over him? (link)
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Although I'm only 16, I've been in a very similar situation, and now I am over the guy, so I think my hindsight might be helpful to you. I barely knew this guy that went to a school in my hometown (I didn't go to that school) but I thought about him all the time. He was very attractive, but very into girls and definitely not the type of guy I would want a serious relationship with. At the beginning of the summer I hung out with him a few times and he flirted with me a lot and one day at a party I had a..as you call it.."sexual encounter." Afterwards I was still obsessed with him but a few days later I left for Europe and was gone for a few weeks but I thought about him during the whole trip and when I came back I wanted to hook up with him again. But I never got a chance to, because I only saw him like once or twice afterwards. Finally, I just focused on other guys and I now have a fling with a guy who is perfect for me, and it helped me get over the first guy fully. Now, I don't get that funny feeling in my stomach whenever I see him or hear his name. So I'd say to just move on and focus on other guys..because hooking up with him again won't provide closure, it will just make you more attached to him.
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okay so i just had my birthday party and i invited my ex. and for some reason we started falling for eachother again. the night wqas perfect. until i found out that he yhad a gf ...... yeah and they have been on and off for a year. anyways... after that i felt horrible for his gf and didnt feel like talking to him. now he texts me every night and calls me baby and beautiful and tells me how much he likes me. and i hate it and love it at the same time. i love it cause i want him to but i hate it cause i feel horrible for his gf. what do i do?? everyone is telling me that i only live once and to go for it but i dont know......wwe went out for five months btw. please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Tell him that you're interested in him but that NOTHING can happen between you two until he breaks it off with his current girlfriend. And really consider if you want to be with this guy..if this is how he treats his girlfriend, is he going to treat you the same way? If you just want to have fun, though, I'd say go for it, as long as he breaks up with his gf.
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About two months ago I told my boyfriend that I loved him, I 100% meant it and I (apparently wrongly) thought it was a good moment to say so (one of those "charged" moments lolz.) He didn't say anything for about 3 minutes and then said that he didn't want to say it back until he meant it. He didn't say it in a harsh way or anything, but he was very clear what he meant. I'm not going to pretend I wasn't upset, and I was wayyyy embarrassed, but I accepted it cos I thought it was probably better him saying that than him lying. I haven't spoken to him about it since, but ever since then he's been very definitely acting weird... not incredibly, but stuff like he doesn't really compliment me anymore or tells me he misses me and stuff like that. At first I thought I'd try and initiate him saying it, but that wasn't really working and I was really paranoid about looking clingy so basically it has all ended up with me distancing myself from him as well, because of my paranoia. I don't like being like this because regardless of how he feels I do love him, and he's moving away to college in a different state soon and the general idea before was that we were going to stay together... I don't know if that will work if we're still like this, but I really want to make it work in general. Please help! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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Avoiding the elephant in the room is just going to distance you. So I would talk to him and say "I still mean what I said the other day, but I just want you to know that I'm definitely willing to wait for you to mean it too and I appreciate that you didn't lie to me." You seem like you're pretty open with eachother, considering he was comfortable telling you that he didn't mean it yet, and that you've talked a little about what happens when he goes to college. I hope things get back to normal for you two..
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14/f
How do you make out?
I've never done it before and I'm really nervous about it.
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First of all, the hardest part of making out is actually starting. So when you want to make out with a guy, give him a hug, then keep your body connected, but lean your head and neck back so that you're a few inches away from his face, looking into his eyes, and bite your lip.
If you're sitting down, then just touch the inside of his elbow and bite your lip and look into his eyes.
When it actually happens, tilt your head, don't use too much tongue, open and close your mouth, put your hand on his neck, back, or lightly on his ear, or play with his hair. If you want it to be a fun kiss, give his lower lip a little, SOFT bite.
Don't chew gum beforehand..once you spit it out it actually makes your breath sour. Eat breathmints or use listerine strips instead.
Good luck!
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alright well i was goin out with the guy joe. we started haven problems..like we started fighting like everyday..it started getting better too. this one day i went to hang out with some friends and this one girl beth told me that joe cheated on me with this girl yvonne. beth and yvonne are best friends so i imediatley thought it was true and i broke up with joe. later that night, he came to hang out where i was at. my friends questioned him but he was drunk and he couldnt come up with answers. i went home and cried myself to sleep. i didnt know what else i could do. then the next day he messaged me and denyed everything.i went to my friend annes house and we were on his myspace and we seen a bulletin from this girl kelley that was thanking beth for helping her out. kelley always had a thing for joe. so i thought maybe beth and kelley made up a plan to break me and joe up that way kelley could get with him. in the bulletin it said that she had a guy right where she wanted him and she stole him from a girl. well then me and yvonne were good. everything was okay.. joe just didnt really want to talk to me. so again i started crying. well then later that night we seen a friend up at a gas station and she told us that it was true about joe and yvonne. that joe was drunk that night. and that yvonne told her. i imediately called joe crying and cussing at him. he still denyed it. the thing is yvonne always had a thing for joe, so she might of made it up to see if we broke up. now she denys it ever happened to my face. but people are telling me they told her. i dont think i would believe her cause she had sex with a kid 2 years older than her..willingly and she told everyone he raped her at the party.. but a person at the party said that she was willingly she just felt bad cause she cheated on her boyfriend. joe still denyes it ever happened and i keep talken to him but he says he has to think about getting back together with me. a part of me thinks their trying to cover it up. but i dont know. i cant eat. i cant sleep. i feel sick. im weak. i think i might be pregnant.. even though i still have my periods regularly. a girl i know has her periods regularly and shes pregnant. i have almost all the signs of pregnancy. im so confused i dont know what to think or do. im gettin a pregnancy test but im on my period. should i wait till after my period or should i take one while im on and another after im off? im really in love with joe. and he always told me how he loved me and there was no one else for him. hes one of those really good guys that dont cheat and are cute but not hott and is sensative and understanding and everything. hes a nice guy. i keep crying when i think about him.. (link)
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This sounds like one of those times when you're never going to find out whether its true or not. I'd give it time, and wait until you have a good gut feeling about whether he did it or not. It may all seem really confusing right now, but I think time will help you figure everything out. If a good feeling about it isn't enough, I would talk to more people about it, and get both sides of the story. You may just be getting the pregnancy signs because you're stressed out about this, but get a few pregnancy tests anyways, just to be on the safe side, and I think you can still take them when you're on your period, but I'm not sure, I've never taken one. But if it all blows over and you still feel strongly for this guy, just let Joe know that you're willing to put everything, all the confusion in the past. But let him know that cheating..is NOT ok. You need to trust him before you go back out with him, though, because a relationship cannot work without trust.
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Okay, so my bf and i have decided to have sex for the first time, both of us are virgins. we are mature enough and everything, and i know all about it, but i would just like to hear advice from other peoples point of view. like what advice or tips do u have, and what to expect. (link)
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I don't really understand why some of the advice given below says that you are too young, because you didn't even state your age in your question. I do agree with some things that were said, though.
You should go into a clinic and get birth control. If you're under 18 you can still get bc pills without parental consent, and for free if you don't have a high-paying job. You need to be on birth control for 2 weeks before its safe to have sex without risking pregnancy.
But still use a condom!
And if you haven't "popped your cherry" through other sexual activity or riding horses or something..then I'd suggest putting a dark towel or dark blanket that you can wash down. Because there will probably be blood.
Its probably gonna hurt a little at first, but you will start to enjoy it after a few minutes. Actually, after the first time, you are probably going to ache a little the next day, too.
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okay so my bf fingered me the other day. it was just one finger, but it still kinda hurt. i was completely wet (and by the way, do guy's think that is just a little gross if the girl is really wet), but anyway, if just one finger hurt, then isnt sex going to hurt pretty bad? oh and also, i want to give him a blowjob, and i want him to like it. but im not really sure what will pleasure him the most. (like im scared my teeth will rub against his penis..and that would hurt wouldnt it?) and what does cum taste like, in case i decide to swallow? (link)
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Yeah the first time you get fingered usually hurts for every girl, no matter how many fingers he uses. But fingering does prepare you for sex. Its different for every girl, but when I first had sex I thought it hurt less than the first time I was fingered. And unless guys are really immature, they'll be glad that you are wet when they finger you because it means that they're doing something right. It's a girl's version of having a boner, and you wouldn't be grossed out if your boyfriend has a boner while you're fooling around, obviously, because that's what is supposed to happen. And as long as you don't like..bite..don't worry about your teeth rubbing against his penis because giving head takes a little getting used to. Wrap your lips under your teeth if you're having troubles. And the taste of cum is different for every guy..guys who smoke usually have kinda raunchy tasting cum but for most guys it is just really salty and kinda tastes like egg drop soup.
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I was very sick yetsterday since i had a stomoch ache due to periods.I cudnt call my boyfriend the whole day yetserday even tho i was supposed to cos i could hardly talk (bcos i was having a severe pain).So instead i called him last night.He was really pissed with me.you see while browsng hi5 the day before yesterday i came across a celebrity's profile.My freind natasha is crazy on him.So I mailed that celebrity on behalf of natasha to ask him his handphone number cos natasha couldnt go online to do so since she has a computer breakdown.
My boyfriend has seen the mail yesterday and he thinks i mailed that celebrity becos i'm crazy on person or something.
so he was really pissed with he. he says "if u can mail that celebrity to ask his phone number why cant you call me?, havent you got time?"
I love my boyfriend aloooot and it hurts me the way he talks.I think the world of him and i think he's the most handsomest guy on earth.How do i explain this to him?
I know he loves me alot too.
He probably thinks i dont love him at all.
please, what do i so about this. please help me.
I'm really depressed.
I wopuld sure appreciate it alot if i could get some help (link)
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Well you should put yourself in his shoes, and understand why he was hurt that you didn't call him. Next time, if you're in the same position, you should at least text him or email him and tell him that you're not feeling well, and then call him right away when you feel up to it. But, just make sure you show him in other ways how much you love him, and how special he is to you. Leave little sticky notes in his textbook that say "I love you" so that he can find them during class or while he's doing homework. Make him dinner and when he asks why say "to make up for not calling you the other day." Every couple has little spats like these, and trust me, as long as you make it up to him, they aren't going to threaten your relationship at all. Just let him know you're sorry, and don't let it happen again! Don't let a little thing like this ruin your relationship, even if he hurt your feelings when he was angry. If you show him how much you care about him, he's not going to worry about a random celebrity coming between you two.
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i was friends with benefits with this guy for a year and just recently he got back together with his ex. they've been going out for 2 weeks and he wants to have phone sex with me already. for me its tempting but i dont want to be the girl he cheats with because i consider phone sex as cheating but he thinks that as long as we're not physical then its not cheating. what do you guys think? (link)
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Its not technically cheating, but if his current girlfriend finds out she'd still be really hurt and probably angry with you. Imagine yourself in her position..and don't encourage that kind of behaviour. We don't want guys to think they can get away with whatever they want, just because they have certain ways to rationalize it.
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i don't know what's wrong with me, but for some reason i can't get a boyfriend.I'm 15/f and I haven't had one [or a kiss] in the LONGEST. im becoming more and more depressive and lonely as days go by. It kills me inside to have to watch couples everywhere, specially because i know its MY fault. i get "hollered" at A LOT even walking down the street, so i know its not because im ugly or anything.lately, i cant even hold ANYONE'S glance for more than 2 seconds. im also the least outgoing out of, well, basically everyone i meet, and everything depresses me. i dont know what to do to get over my stupid shyness and get a boyfriend despite my lack of motivation to do so. I bet people, including my own friends, think im lesbian or something. what do you guys think? (link)
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I had the exact same problem as you..I was the last one of my friends to have a serious boyfriend and lose my virginity (not that that matters.) Sometimes when you've lived in the same town for a while its hard to find someone who is compatible with you. But things will change, I'm sure you're an attractive girl and you know that so why are you letting it depress you? At least you're waiting for the right guy instead of going for any jerk that hollers at you on the street. My best advice is to stop looking and just let things happen. There are a lot of random places that you might meet your perfect guy..at a party, at a concert, at the beach. So just stop looking and wait for him to come to you! Don't let the fact that you haven't had a boyfriend stop you from being outgoing. When you meet new people, you can be anyone on you want, so why don't you try to have more of an outgoing personality? Guys are attracted to confident girls who seem like they've got nothing to worry about. And if a few months pass and you still haven't met the right guy..don't worry. College will come before you go out and there are billions of options that will overwhelm you.
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ok, i have only madeout once in my life.
& i kinda forgot now caus eit has been a year.
so how do u make out?
what are good tips?
please&thankyou (link)
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Tilt your head, don't use too much tongue, put your hand somewhere like on his back or neck or lightly on his ear, and don't chew gum beforehand because once you spit it out it actually makes your breath sour. If you want your breath to taste good, eat mints. And if you don't know how to start making out, give him a hug and then keep your body connected but lean your head back so you're a few inches away from his face, looking into his eyes. And if you're sitting down, touch the inside of his elbow and just smile and look at him.
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14/f sorry in advance for this being soo long!
today i went to a ropes course for incoming freshmen to the highschool.i got really close to the people in my group and made new friends. i met this kid..lets call him nick.ive known nick since elementary school..but we never really became good friends..but we knew who each other was.today he was in my group and we spent alot of time together.i had one of my really good guy friends in my group too..his name is alex. me and alex were hanging out andd we were probably the craziest kids in the group.haha :] nick is kinda shy but about half way through the day he became more outgoing and talked to us..most of the day it was me,alex,nick and this kid vince hanging out.
me and nick ended up partnering with each other for a couple of the activities.we were getting along really well and were kind of flirting. we kept looking back at each other and smiling or standing near each other most of the time.
by the end of the day i really started to like nick..and i think he was interested in me too. i hope he was.=] but idk what would happen if we classes together in high school.my friend terri likes nick too but shes saying she doesnt so she can get over him..because he doesnt ever text her back or talk to her..and my friend alexa used to like him too but she says she doesnt anymore..but i think she still does.but she wont admit it because terri likes him too. i dont want to tell terri i might like nick because terri has liked nick for so long..like ever since elementary schoool.yeah 7 years.
how should i handle this?me and nick both are interested in each other but i dont know what to do because of terri..i would never want to hurt her feelings.but if something happens with nick and we have a chance i want to take it. any advice would be greatttt :)
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You should tell your friends that you really like Nick and think he likes you back, and ask if they mind if you pursue a relationship with him. Just be like "I know you used to like Nick and might even still have feelings for him but I was wondering if you'd mind that I like him, too." You can't help who you like, and your friends, especially if they're trying to get over him, shouldn't blame you.
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I am very shy around guys that I like, especially older guys. My face gets all red and I get quiet. I am a sophomore and my friend wants to introduce me to her friend, who is a senior. The guy is interested in meeting me, and thinks I'm cute. I really don't want to blow it, so what do I do to open up more and act flirty?
Thanks so much to anyone that helps:) (link)
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Smile a lot..show you're interested but don't act TOO available. If you think its going well while you're talking, touch his arm lightly. Making physical connections makes flirting much more meaningful. Don't brag about anything, but make sure you sound interesting and intelligent. Be mysterious about certain things, and if you get nervous and start shaking, use hand motions when you talk. My guy friends make fun of me all the time for how much I use my hands when I talk, but they think it is really cute and quirky. And remember, he's interested in you, so you have the upper hand!
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I've been seeing this guy mark for quite a while and i really like him. I'm 18 and he's 21. But I hate the fact that he goes to strip clubs! I think its completely disgusting and degrading towards women! No one would like their man getting a lap dance from a naked girl and feeling all up on her! Not to mention their completely nasty sluts! I dont think it's worth the 10 bucks at all for that and especially if he has a good women that can do the same damn thing for free! It's a complete insult to me and it's a slap in the face...like im not good enough to get him turned on that he has to go waste his money and watch nasty whores dance! He keeps talking serious with me and saying he wants to be with me and wants me to move some of my stuff into his place! But I don't think I can be in a serious relationship with someone that goes to strip clubs! I already knew he did that when I first met him, but I didn't care because I wasnt looking for a relationship and I was seeing other guys and keeping my options open. But now that it's getting serious and he's talking about offically being a couple, I don't want him to go there. And I know some of you are going to tell me that I should tell him how I feel and that I don't want him to go...But he already knows how I feel about strip clubs....he always tells me I look better than half the girls in there...but if thats so, than why the hell does he even go? He acts like im over reacting and like it's not a big deal. "Its not like Im taking them home with me" he says or "Its just like watching a porno!" And it doesn't help that Im not old enough to go in there and see what it's like and see exactly how bad it is. Also...I dont want to tell him to give it up because I dont want to be that controlling! His friends will make him feel stupid for not going with them anymore and act like Im being ridiculous and controlling him too much and that he needs to do his own thing. Then he will lie and go! I feel really strong about strip clubs and I don't like double standards. I hate how guys can do so much more that girls and get away with it!! I have half a mind to go to a party, pick out the hottest ones with the biggest dicks and have them all give me a lap dance at once and video tape it for him and be like "yeah...i didnt even have to pay for that amazing show" I bet I would get labeled all sorts of names but I think it's completely FAIR. But my point is, he would definitly not like me doing that, just like I dont like him watching girls strip. Im not going to be some peice of ass for him to go screw after watching a bunch of other women! If he can think of other women sexually than I can think of other men sexually! That's how I see it...anyone agree or have a simular issue?...Let me know! (link)
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Is this guy really that important to you? He knows you have a problem with him going to strip clubs, but he tries to rationalize his decisions and goes anyways. You should tell him that you're not ready to move in with him and be a real couple until he can compromise parts of his life that you're not pleased with. Because that's what relationships are all about: compromise. If he's not willing to do that, then wait until he is before you take the relationship any further. He needs to want to make you happy if your relationship is going to work. Even if you are happy with him now, a guy that doesn't see a problem with a naked girl giving him a lap dance may evolve into a guy who doesn't have a problem sleeping with someone who isn't his girlfriend.
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