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alright well i was goin out with the guy joe. we started haven problems..like we started fighting like everyday..it started getting better too. this one day i went to hang out with some friends and this one girl beth told me that joe cheated on me with this girl yvonne. beth and yvonne are best friends so i imediatley thought it was true and i broke up with joe. later that night, he came to hang out where i was at. my friends questioned him but he was drunk and he couldnt come up with answers. i went home and cried myself to sleep. i didnt know what else i could do. then the next day he messaged me and denyed everything.i went to my friend annes house and we were on his myspace and we seen a bulletin from this girl kelley that was thanking beth for helping her out. kelley always had a thing for joe. so i thought maybe beth and kelley made up a plan to break me and joe up that way kelley could get with him. in the bulletin it said that she had a guy right where she wanted him and she stole him from a girl. well then me and yvonne were good. everything was okay.. joe just didnt really want to talk to me. so again i started crying. well then later that night we seen a friend up at a gas station and she told us that it was true about joe and yvonne. that joe was drunk that night. and that yvonne told her. i imediately called joe crying and cussing at him. he still denyed it. the thing is yvonne always had a thing for joe, so she might of made it up to see if we broke up. now she denys it ever happened to my face. but people are telling me they told her. i dont think i would believe her cause she had sex with a kid 2 years older than her..willingly and she told everyone he raped her at the party.. but a person at the party said that she was willingly she just felt bad cause she cheated on her boyfriend. joe still denyes it ever happened and i keep talken to him but he says he has to think about getting back together with me. a part of me thinks their trying to cover it up. but i dont know. i cant eat. i cant sleep. i feel sick. im weak. i think i might be pregnant.. even though i still have my periods regularly. a girl i know has her periods regularly and shes pregnant. i have almost all the signs of pregnancy. im so confused i dont know what to think or do. im gettin a pregnancy test but im on my period. should i wait till after my period or should i take one while im on and another after im off? im really in love with joe. and he always told me how he loved me and there was no one else for him. hes one of those really good guys that dont cheat and are cute but not hott and is sensative and understanding and everything. hes a nice guy. i keep crying when i think about him..
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You must be going through a rough time and I can see why you're so upset. It's kinf of hard to tell who's telling the truth and who to belive. Yvonnes best friend told you that it was true and when you questioned Joe, he didn't respond right away. Although you love Joe, don't cry over him. Be strong about it and don't show him that you're weak. If he has to "think" about getting back together with you, he was never good enough for you to begin with and you shouldn't wait for him. He doesn't deserve you and if he did cheat on you, he's pathetic. The truth will come out eventually, but just give it time. Don't take sides for now but then again, be careful on who you trust. They could be covering it up but that's something that you don't know.
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Most girls who have their periods, aren't pregnant and it's very rare that it happens. Take the pregnancy test as soon as possible and if it turns out that it's positive, turn to help right away. I wish you the best of luck with everything.
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This sounds like one of those times when you're never going to find out whether its true or not. I'd give it time, and wait until you have a good gut feeling about whether he did it or not. It may all seem really confusing right now, but I think time will help you figure everything out. If a good feeling about it isn't enough, I would talk to more people about it, and get both sides of the story. You may just be getting the pregnancy signs because you're stressed out about this, but get a few pregnancy tests anyways, just to be on the safe side, and I think you can still take them when you're on your period, but I'm not sure, I've never taken one. But if it all blows over and you still feel strongly for this guy, just let Joe know that you're willing to put everything, all the confusion in the past. But let him know that cheating..is NOT ok. You need to trust him before you go back out with him, though, because a relationship cannot work without trust.
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