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i feel terrible for liking this guy my friend likes
14/f sorry in advance for this being soo long!
today i went to a ropes course for incoming freshmen to the highschool.i got really close to the people in my group and made new friends. i met this kid..lets call him nick.ive known nick since elementary school..but we never really became good friends..but we knew who each other was.today he was in my group and we spent alot of time together.i had one of my really good guy friends in my group too..his name is alex. me and alex were hanging out andd we were probably the craziest kids in the group.haha :] nick is kinda shy but about half way through the day he became more outgoing and talked to us..most of the day it was me,alex,nick and this kid vince hanging out.
me and nick ended up partnering with each other for a couple of the activities.we were getting along really well and were kind of flirting. we kept looking back at each other and smiling or standing near each other most of the time.
by the end of the day i really started to like nick..and i think he was interested in me too. i hope he was.=] but idk what would happen if we classes together in high school.my friend terri likes nick too but shes saying she doesnt so she can get over him..because he doesnt ever text her back or talk to her..and my friend alexa used to like him too but she says she doesnt anymore..but i think she still does.but she wont admit it because terri likes him too. i dont want to tell terri i might like nick because terri has liked nick for so long..like ever since elementary schoool.yeah 7 years.
how should i handle this?me and nick both are interested in each other but i dont know what to do because of terri..i would never want to hurt her feelings.but if something happens with nick and we have a chance i want to take it. any advice would be greatttt :)
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You should tell your friends that you really like Nick and think he likes you back, and ask if they mind if you pursue a relationship with him. Just be like "I know you used to like Nick and might even still have feelings for him but I was wondering if you'd mind that I like him, too." You can't help who you like, and your friends, especially if they're trying to get over him, shouldn't blame you.
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If both your friends say they don't like Nick, then go with it! Even if you think they do like him, they say they don't. You can't help who you like. So tell them when you thikn the time it right that you do. And if they get mad, say "You both said you don't like him. I can't control that I do." They need to except that. If they were in your shoes, they would understand.
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