But I get nervous around her and tongue tied. Can people help me think what to say besides hows your day going or to compliment her cause thats really i can think about...Like a way to break the ice and ask her questions that dont seem weird but casual
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? amarand answered Wednesday September 26 2007, 8:20 am: Well make sure that when you compliment her, that its something really sincere. If you say "You look good today" or "Your hair looks nice today" its not going to sound sincere and she'll probably just forget you said it. So say something that you REALLY notice, don't compliment her just to compliment her, and she will remember it and probably look at you in a different light.
And I wouldn't ask her questions that are too specific..but ask her how her weekend was or what's new with her so that you get a better answer than "good" and you can actually get to talking. But if you ask her random questions that come out of nowhere, she might be a little creeped out. Just act interested in her, be interesting, and be easy to talk to [ amarand's advice column | Ask amarand A Question ]
tttina answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 11:35 pm: ok girls like funny guys right?
so charm her off her feet with a smooth little line like ... how much does a polar bear weigh?... enough to break the ice im bob
Amarete answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 10:40 pm: If you have a class with her, you can go up to her and ask her about something that happened in class. If you miss a day of school, ask her what they did in class while you were gone. It's perfectly casual and not weird at all.
This may seem cliche, but if she drops something, pick it up and bring it back to her. I'm not saying follow her around waiting for her to drop something, but if you notice it, seize the opportunity to go up to her.
Also, if you see her sitting alone at lunch or something, go up and sit down next to her and talk to her. It's bold, but if she's sitting by herself you might as well. You've got nothing to lose.
Compliments aren't weird as long as you don't compliment her like all the time. Once or twice should be all at first. Just say something like 'Your hair is pretty today' or 'Cool shirt! Where did you get it?' [ Amarete's advice column | Ask Amarete A Question ]
LiTTLEGiRLBLUE answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 10:38 pm: You can ask her about a class you guys have, if any?
Just be like, So what did you think about..?
Of just go up to her and start a conversation.
Something like, So what you eating there? And just keep making conversation.
Maybe you can ask her if she wants to hang out with some friend.
If you don't want her to think of if as a date.
Just be like: What are you doing so and so day?
me and some friends are going to so and so place, come and bring your friends. it'll be fun.
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